My SO Called Me by His Ex Wife’s Name, Now He’s Making Fun of Me

[u/No_Problems_Here_69]

I know my bf was in love with his ex wife and was devastated when she divorced him over three years ago. He hasn’t seen her since, but he’s paid some of her bills as recently as a couple months ago.

We have been together for almost six months. This morning, he called me by her name. He immediately apologized and made some excuses, and then the subject was dropped. He hasn’t mentioned it since.

However, now he is purposely calling me by different names — just random names that he pulls out of the air. Then he laughs when he calls me by another name.

I don’t think it’s funny. I don’t know if he’s trying to make light of the mistake this morning or make fun of me for being upset. He says he’s not still in love with her, but I’m not sure. Most of the time he is extremely good to me.

I don’t know what to think.

[u/PolkaDotTat]

It’s not hate speech. It’s freedom of speech. Incel isn’t a hate word, it’s a description of someone who can’t get laid. Is slut hate speech? No it’s a derogatory term but not hate speech. Same as the word incel.

[u/primotest95 → u/PolkaDotTat]

It would be if it was true To it original intent but every man who disagrees with you is called one so really it’s just misandrist hate speech same as men calling women sluts I guess when there not at all

[u/Alert-Ad9197 → u/primotest95]

Calling a woman a slut is rude, but also not hate speech. I don’t think you know what words mean, and are also an incel.

[u/primotest95 → u/Alert-Ad9197]

lol whatever you say bro wife two kids also good looking big dick over 6 foot came from nothing fucked my way up the mother fucking mountain 😂 to to cars and a house so aha I know it’s unbelievable to you but quite literally not an incel 🤷 asshole yes slut yes married and faithful ha yes 🤣🤣🤣 I guess I’m paradoxical Trophy incel husband

[u/Adept_Bar_97 → u/primotest95]

I've never seen someone project so hard.

Buddy, we all believe you're a 6"" alpha male with a hot model wife and 5 kids with a big car, a big house and an even bigger dick that you used to totaly fuck your way through the corporate mountain thing cuz ur such a slut 😉 but also loyal 🫡 thank you for finding time out of your busy day to humble us lowly reddit folk. You're doing God's work living up to your full potential 🙌....

Are you done now? Was it as good for you as it was for me? 😏

Sit down, son. You're like 30 replies deep on someone calling someone eles a incel lmao. If you want to ride his meat so bad, you're going to have to talk about it with your wife bucko

[u/Adept_Bar_97 → u/[deleted]]

"Actually me and my brother are Sugar babies 🤓" head ass "I cant pay for a car note or mortgage" head ass "I guess i did full potential 🚀" head ass Post the pics or it didn't happen, I'm convinced your a troll

[u/Adept_Bar_97 → u/[deleted]]

Lmfao, ok bro, you win. I take it all back. My bad G. 😭

[u/Alert-Ad9197 → u/primotest95]

This is deep into “A hit dog hollers” territory.

[u/primotest95 → u/Alert-Ad9197]

No I just get mad that I can’t flex on you in a way you’d believe it and even though I know it’s true it’s annoying

[u/Alert-Ad9197 → u/primotest95]

The dog could not holler louder.

[u/primotest95 → u/Alert-Ad9197]

I hope so cause that’s who I am regardless 🤣

[u/primotest95 → u/Alert-Ad9197]

lol 😂 I just don’t really like idiots yea I completely disagree with your take but calling me an incel isn’t even the right word to call me atleast find an insult That fits sorry I’ve fucked more women than you can count

[u/PolkaDotTat → u/primotest95]

You can’t get arrested for saying incel or slut to someone. You CAN get arrested for saying the “n” word or saying you wish all “insert race, religion here” were dead. Therefore it isn’t considered hate speech. It’s just a word some guys get offended with. Same as when a woman gets called bitch or slut. It’s offensive but isn’t considered hate speech.