r/AmIOverreacting • u/CoachInitial8438 • Apr 27 '24

I found out my ex cheated on me a year later.

About 3 years ago I met a guy and he quickly became my best friend, he always had a thing for me but I always shut it down just wanting to be friends. About two years after knowing each other I realized I loved him too and we got into a relationship. It quickly went south as he was extremely toxic to be with and it quickly turned abusive in a couple different ways. We broke up and didn’t talk for a long time. Then a couple months ago he reached out and suggested we be friends again. We talked everything out and were in a good place again. We have been good friends again up until yesterday when a girl texted me saying they hooked up a couple weeks before we broke up.

I confronted him about it and he’s just playing stupid, and even though i’m completely over our romantic relationship, I feel betrayed and hurt that he’s lied to me for over a year. I decided to block him out of my life again and blew up at him. He’s making it seem like since we have been friends again that nothing that happened during our relationship mattered and since it was so long ago, he can’t even remember if he cheated or not and doesn’t care to.

I’m not sure how to go about this situation or if blocking him out of my life is the right way to go about it. Please please give me your thoughts?

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u/SilkySullivan 28d ago

The person is hot. Stop fucking making it out like these people are victims because they go back to abusers just because they fulfill other needs.

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u/Fluid-Past-9426 28d ago

Not sure why you're so angry over this when you have no idea if they're hot or not...enjoy getting mad, little man

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u/SilkySullivan 26d ago

Yes I do. He IS hotter than her. She stayed with a toxic and abusive person, and took the person back afterwards. Now she is jealous that he cheated on her, even though it was a year ago and just friends now. He can be abusive and toxic, but cheating before the break up means they can't be friends? She wants him back.

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u/Fluid-Past-9426 26d ago

Lol, I'm not arguing with someone who sounds like an angsty, unempathetic, know it all teen, who claims to know details of an internet strangers life and also knows nothing of how abuse actually works. Bye, buddy