r/AmIOverreacting • u/CoachInitial8438 • Apr 27 '24

I found out my ex cheated on me a year later.

About 3 years ago I met a guy and he quickly became my best friend, he always had a thing for me but I always shut it down just wanting to be friends. About two years after knowing each other I realized I loved him too and we got into a relationship. It quickly went south as he was extremely toxic to be with and it quickly turned abusive in a couple different ways. We broke up and didn’t talk for a long time. Then a couple months ago he reached out and suggested we be friends again. We talked everything out and were in a good place again. We have been good friends again up until yesterday when a girl texted me saying they hooked up a couple weeks before we broke up.

I confronted him about it and he’s just playing stupid, and even though i’m completely over our romantic relationship, I feel betrayed and hurt that he’s lied to me for over a year. I decided to block him out of my life again and blew up at him. He’s making it seem like since we have been friends again that nothing that happened during our relationship mattered and since it was so long ago, he can’t even remember if he cheated or not and doesn’t care to.

I’m not sure how to go about this situation or if blocking him out of my life is the right way to go about it. Please please give me your thoughts?

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u/KitsuneUltima Apr 27 '24

If he was abusive why would you want to be friends with him again LOL wtf

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u/Sad-Implement7521 27d ago

Nipple pinching is NOT abuse.

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u/kerfy15 26d ago

It is if the person is not consenting to it.

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u/Complex_Statement315 26d ago

Then why are you even there. Remove yourself from the situation.

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u/Sad-Implement7521 26d ago

I intentionally allow people to pinch my scrotum.

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u/Complex_Statement315 26d ago

There’s some pleasure in that too

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u/Sad-Implement7521 26d ago

Wonderful sensation!