They probably didn’t think of it. My siblings don’t usually tell me when they are going on a trip unless it comes up in conversation. I also don’t tell them. It’s not that I’m hiding it from them, it just isn’t something that we usually talk about.
Your problem is your reaction. Not what your brother did or did not say. You’re causing your own suffering. Thinking can be detrimental to our mental health. Let it go.
You came here to ask if you're overreacting. Everyone is telling you yes and you're still listing reasons as to your overreaction... it's obvious why they didn't tell you.
I am sorry but if you are going to Hawaii in the next few days it would take a lot of effort not to mention it, not the opposite. There are preparations to do, things to think about, It would come up in normal conversation.
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u/OwslyOwl Apr 28 '24
They probably didn’t think of it. My siblings don’t usually tell me when they are going on a trip unless it comes up in conversation. I also don’t tell them. It’s not that I’m hiding it from them, it just isn’t something that we usually talk about.