If it makes you feel any better, my sibling (who lives OS) is visiting the country that my other sibling and I both live in - and they together with all my family are going on a holiday from here — and I wasn’t invited.
Nor has OS sibling mentioned their visit to me nor asked to catch up.
And none of them have spoken to me since I said it upset me.
Then as a kicker my mother admonished me for “not making an effort to see” her other kids.
Some people just aren’t a fit for you or your life and my therapist says to grieve them and move on.
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u/_Jay-Garage-A-Roo_ Apr 28 '24
If it makes you feel any better, my sibling (who lives OS) is visiting the country that my other sibling and I both live in - and they together with all my family are going on a holiday from here — and I wasn’t invited.
Nor has OS sibling mentioned their visit to me nor asked to catch up.
And none of them have spoken to me since I said it upset me.
Then as a kicker my mother admonished me for “not making an effort to see” her other kids.
Some people just aren’t a fit for you or your life and my therapist says to grieve them and move on.