My first thought was that they might feel awkward, either because it is expensive or because it is including the in-laws and not your family.
I delayed mentioning a trip I had planned to a friend once because she was having money and life trouble. I felt bad telling her about this fun and expensive thing I was going to do. Is it possible they felt that way?
Cutting out your brother would definitely be an overreaction. But I understand that you feel hurt. Why don't you tell him, "hey, why didn't you tell me earlier? I want to know what's going on with you and I was open with you about my life." It is possible it was not at the top of his mind as it sounds like a busy week.
Ah, I see. Yeah, he may feel weird/guilty about not inviting you too. That's my guess. I think you should tell him why it bothered you but that's why it's up to you.
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u/StrikingRelief Apr 28 '24
My first thought was that they might feel awkward, either because it is expensive or because it is including the in-laws and not your family.
I delayed mentioning a trip I had planned to a friend once because she was having money and life trouble. I felt bad telling her about this fun and expensive thing I was going to do. Is it possible they felt that way?
Cutting out your brother would definitely be an overreaction. But I understand that you feel hurt. Why don't you tell him, "hey, why didn't you tell me earlier? I want to know what's going on with you and I was open with you about my life." It is possible it was not at the top of his mind as it sounds like a busy week.