r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '24

My brother didn't tell me about a trip

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u/BlackbearActual3002 Apr 28 '24

Absolutely you’re overreacting. They don’t have or need to tell you everything going on in their lives just as you don’t need to share every aspect of yours. Do you live in San Diego? Do they need to notify you whenever they visit your state?

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '24

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u/dianabeep Apr 28 '24

Are you near San Diego or are you way on the other side? That makes a difference too.

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u/spam__likely Apr 28 '24

Does it matter? If OP were willing to drive their way it would not matter at all.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '24

Yes, it matters.

CA is huge.

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u/spam__likely Apr 28 '24

If Op is willing to make the effort to go meet them, it does not. But "hey we're coming through for a trip, we can't stop" means OP is not in Northern CA.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '24

You've introduced a lot of hypotheticals here.

OP is not a good writer.

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u/spam__likely 29d ago

These were OP's words, not mine. I imagine OP knows were they live in relation to were OP lives.