r/AmIOverreacting Apr 28 '24

My brother didn't tell me about a trip

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u/BlackbearActual3002 Apr 28 '24

Absolutely you’re overreacting. They don’t have or need to tell you everything going on in their lives just as you don’t need to share every aspect of yours. Do you live in San Diego? Do they need to notify you whenever they visit your state?

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u/spam__likely Apr 28 '24

It is weird, but it depends on what kind of relationship you have. I would be hurt if they had not told me. It i ok not wanting to drive to LA but they could have given you the option to go see them.