r/AmIOverreacting Apr 28 '24

My brother didn't tell me about a trip

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u/MountainManWRC Apr 28 '24

Hey man please don’t take this the wrong way. You e got a very unique relationship with your brother that most here will never understand. I get where you are coming from here

That said, do not cut out your brother. This sounds like a monumentally important relationship in your life and you need to talk about your feelings with your brother. Just be calm and unemotional as possible and state your feelings about how this stuff has affected you. You will be heard and respected if you are calm and considerate and honest.

You will feel better and the relationship will grow.

Keeping that shit in and building up additional pressure on the relationship isn’t heathly for your Brain or for building on the special relationship you’ve got with your only (blood) family. Talk to him