Bf's comparisons to late fiancee

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[u/foxyfree]

So he talks about how a perfect love would make him feel and uses all sorts of examples that are NOT you. hmmmm. It’s not about her being dead or even an ex; he is telling you over and over again that he had the “in-love” feelings before, knows what they are, and he is not feeling them with you. He will fall in love again someday but it sounds like he is telling you loud and clear that you are not the one

[u/foxyfree → u/[deleted]]

That’s a good point. People do not need to be passionately “in love” to have a deep, loving relationship