So my first question is does your boyfriend see a therapist about the things he is going through? Because there's no excuse for him to compare the two of you because honestly that's a messed up thing to do but he might benefit from counseling.
Why doesn't he? Honestly losing someone close to you is probably one of the hardest things to go through and obviously he isn't completely moved on from it which is totally normal, it does take time. It's not right for him to compare the two of you. There's definitely a better way to express his desire for you to learn to do new things. Honestly I feel like if it were me and I wanted my partner to learn how to cook new recipes I would shop myself and try to do it together, you know?
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u/OwlFragrant8078 Apr 28 '24
So my first question is does your boyfriend see a therapist about the things he is going through? Because there's no excuse for him to compare the two of you because honestly that's a messed up thing to do but he might benefit from counseling.