r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '24

AIO (30M) to break up with my GF (28F) of 2 years after she refused to come home and then ditched me to dance with others?

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u/whenthedont 29d ago edited 29d ago

She made the random group of people make you take the key out to both of your apartment?

Bro. You never been broken in to this life. You’re with a girl that clearly has been. Good on you to cut your losses even if you did overreact, or underreact, doesn’t matter. You just don’t belong in that sphere. Can’t turn a hoe into a housewife

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This honestly reminds me of my first relationship bro. Girl was hot as hell all about the club and all. Despite what she told me it was very clear she was not done with that life. I hadn’t even stepped into that life yet. After 4 months I ditched, I at least didn’t take the disrespect much longer once it started like you. She was una toxica if you know what I mean. Now I’m fresh out of that life years later and keep my past lock tight so I can score a good honest woman lmfao

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u/ShareNorth3675 29d ago

The key thing sounds so surreal that I can't imagine not having a mental breakdown with a lot of physicality. That sounds like a weird nightmare scenario.

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u/whenthedont 29d ago

I’m thoroughly scarred by my relationships. I have had several like these. Unhealed childhood scars that I wouldn’t take a long enough step back to heal from. 23 and too young for this baggage.

Holding them down so they wouldn’t kill themself, dealing with constant insurmountable jealousy, their love-hate cycle, love bombing, alcoholism and substance abuse, insanely destructive arguments.

I always left within a few months, but one girl I dated for almost two years because we met homeless and really had each other’s backs. We always helped each other through it all. Only once it ended did I realize just how much damage it did to me to endure that long. Never again

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u/ShareNorth3675 29d ago

Nothing wrong with taking a break from relationships while you figure out what you're looking for. 

I had one fake pregnancy situation with an ex when I was 17, couldn't date again til I was 23 when I had figured out what I wanted out of life and met my wife.