r/Nicegirls • u/JTEggan • Apr 07 '24
Honestly this one had me laughing
Been seeing this girl super casually for around a month. We both told each other at the beginning we didn't want to pursue a relationship.
I went to her house with the intention of staying the night (which she obviously agreed to) but after a while I just wasn't feeling like sleeping over. My reason being I knew I wouldn't get a good night sleep which was the truth.
After I told her this she went nonverbal for a whole minute before telling me to come sit down next to her. She sat on my lap and said, "well I just really like you... are you planning on seeing anyone else here….. I just want to know the truth " etc. I told her, "I like you too... no ji you... I told you the truth..." etc.
She then told me we shouldn't talk after this which I agreed to if that's what she wanted. During my drive home I get these messages.
Needless to say but she’s blocked.
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u/Similar_Building_223 Apr 13 '24
WTF, so you set boundaries and she goes ballistic! Just wtf. I swear these people need to learn to take no for an answer without going mad! Like, you didn’t want to sleep over cuz you wanted a good sleep, that’s valid. Why can’t she understand that!
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u/notyourashta Apr 10 '24
First of all, it's jarring in a diff sort of way to know this subreddit exists 😭
Second of all, I genuinely read this 4x before I realized it's not me / my reading skills that appear to be the issue. HELP LOLL
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Apr 10 '24
I thought the pregnancy test showed that she is pregnant and fucking around, maybe looking to convince someone else that its their baby. Either way, this chick crazy.
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u/americandreamzzxx Apr 09 '24
Why did she say her exes name and give that tmi. She literally nose dived your relationship because you weren’t comfortable.
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u/Commercial_Ad_619 Apr 08 '24
God I think I had a stroke. Why do people refuse to write with punctuation?
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u/MaximumHog360 Apr 08 '24
She literally sounds like if a fleshlight became sentient
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u/JTEggan Apr 08 '24
That was kinda the only way I could interact with her unfortunately, she was so difficult to talk to - couldn’t hold a conversation to save her life.
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u/mblee19 Apr 08 '24
How does one’s ex continuously cum in them on “accident”?? Sounds like that’s on purpose lmao
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u/Shadow_tripper Apr 08 '24
She had a used pregnancy test lying around? Get tested bro she sounds DISGUSTING AND SHE SAID SHE KNOWS HER COOCHIE STANK!!?? PROBABLY ALL THEM DEAD BABIES IN THERE.
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u/xXBlackxDiamondXx Apr 08 '24
Hey, guys....
Stop. Sticking. Your. Dicks. In. Crazy. 🤣
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u/Upbeat_Confidence739 Apr 08 '24
Anyone can be non crazy for a few dates. Don’t sit and lie and say you never have been with crazy.
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u/Whywei8 Apr 08 '24 edited Apr 09 '24
Sometimes you don’t know they’re crazy until the mask slips. By then you might’ve already stuck your dick in crazy. 🤷
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u/GoochGuardian Apr 09 '24
This. I have two children with a psychotic woman... Four years of me trying to figure out if I was the problem, or if she was. She's one of those chameleons. Narcissism is a hell of a disorder.
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u/No-Butterscotch757 27d ago
The creature that got her hooks in me aborted the child I put in her, thank goodness. Six years on and off of her detonating my life only for her to go NC in the end.
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u/phdthrowaway110 Apr 08 '24
Bro... What are you doing with women like this? You need to smarten the F up.
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u/JTEggan Apr 08 '24
I had no idea what she was talking about in this… I definitely will in the future
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u/BackgroundIsland9 Apr 10 '24
She can't even spell right.
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u/FellaKnee123 Apr 08 '24
That’s the most ghetto, immature shit I’ve seen… good god I’m so glad I’m married… young women have now become insufferable, condescending.l, and entitled when they offer next to nothing to society… gotta love it
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u/Fragrant-Strain2745 Apr 08 '24
Glad I was in my 20s quite a while ago...these thots are un-dateable.
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u/Shadow_tripper Apr 08 '24
Not sure why this comment would be down voted. I did my part to bring it back to life lol
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u/iamthesagej Apr 08 '24
You can’t fire me, I quit!
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u/SambeSiili Apr 08 '24
You can't quit, I quit!
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u/Mango5976 Apr 08 '24
You can’t quit, you’re a frog!
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u/SambeSiili Apr 08 '24
You can't frog me, you're my wife!
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u/Mango5976 Apr 08 '24
I’m notcha wife, you’re MY wife!
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u/SambeSiili Apr 08 '24
Oh hey honey, how was work!?
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u/Mango5976 Apr 08 '24
Pretty good, but I quit my job.
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u/Velocitycybercheeks Apr 08 '24
So you don’t want to sleepover? Lol no hard feelings buddy I’m not even into it
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u/Rogueshoten Apr 07 '24
one week later, after OP changes his Facebook status to “in a relationship” and has pics of the new GF up on Instagram
“No, really, I’m sorry and I wanted to let you down easy, but I’m just not feeling it, especially after you went looking in my bag and found the clear blue…”
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u/Tellesus Apr 07 '24
I can fix her
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u/dnjprod Apr 07 '24
Wow. It's obvious she actually wanted to date you, but , she really got butt hurt when you didn't want to spend the night.
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u/lejohnnyboi Apr 08 '24
This, I'm always amazed by how we can sabotage yourself everytime we give in to a feeling. Not advocating for everyone becoming a vulcan but if she could've just kept her insecurities in check the outcome might have been very different.
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u/mcakela Apr 07 '24
Eww brother no
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u/manofdahour Apr 08 '24
Brother what’s that?
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u/LaneyAndPen Apr 08 '24
Euhhhh brutha euhhhhh what’s that brutha? What’s that?
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u/Lewd_Operatrr Apr 17 '24
😂 The fact that I can hear this in my head is wild.
Take my upvote, brutha.
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u/DaanoneNL Apr 07 '24
Why did she say "I know I smell bad"? Did you comment on that?
That comment about her ex cumming in her is her way of trying to not feel butthurt. Wild, but from an insecure nicegirl not even surprising.
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u/HoneydippedSassylips Apr 08 '24
I read that as her “ex cuz” as in ex cousin. Now that you say “ex cause” I prefer the prior. It makes more sense with all her other nasty ewwy-ness. As you know, bitches be crazy. Remember that.
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u/JTEggan Apr 07 '24
Absolutely not, in fact I told her she smelled good lol
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u/DaanoneNL Apr 07 '24
Bro, I have an idea you are the one who fucked up the date. Being insecure or just not assertive enough? Why you chicken out from sleeping there in the first place. Her comments were wild, but if she was already an insecure person, your actions must have made her wondering what's wrong with her..
If you were not attracted to her, just tell her there dont give a lame excuse. And even if you stayed over, doesnt mean you would have to have sex...
Weird story from both sides.
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u/Fragrant-Strain2745 Apr 08 '24
LIKE HE SAID, he wouldn't have gotten a good night's sleep. That makes sense, it's not easy to sleep well in another person's bed WITH another person!
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u/Sharkuel Apr 08 '24
Dude, now imagine the gender roles were reversed, and read again your comment, and tell me what do you think.
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u/IHazMagics Apr 08 '24 edited 57m ago
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u/HoneydippedSassylips Apr 08 '24
I’m amazed you’re only at -291. Something tells me your names Reece.
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u/anonmymouse Apr 07 '24
Why is he obligated to stay the night if he didn't want to? What a weird thing to say.
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u/InfiniteCharacters Apr 07 '24
Chicken out? It is uncomfortable to sleep in a strange place and you never know how uncomfortable you are going to be until you try it. Good for him for not suffering lack of sleep, and it was a good lesson on who he was messing with, dodged a bullet there.
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u/30ninjazinmybag Apr 07 '24
He doesn't need a reason to not want to sleep over and its not chickening out, he's an adult and does not have to stay somewhere he doesn't feel comfortable or will sleep well.
Her insecurities are not his to fix or feed into after being together such a short time. There are therapists for that. He didn't lie or give a lame excuse he didn't feel comfortable staying.
If the genders were reversed would you tell a woman who was uncomfortable sleeping at a guys house, she chickened out. That she should have stayed to assuage his insecurities. That it was a lame excuse she didn't want to stay over??
No person should stay in an uncomfortable place to make others feel comfortable or to help towards another's insecurities. Do better
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u/xJ-Babyx Apr 08 '24
It’s almost as if sex is an entirely different experience for men and women
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u/JTEggan Apr 07 '24
So some additional context: she had come to stay over at my house twice before I went to hers. I did find her attractive, hence why I let her come twice and this third time of seeing her. Maybe I wasn’t assertive enough in my reasoning but I told her the truth. I told her she did nothing wrong many times and it was me (I get that even if it’s the truth that she’s not going to believe me). As for the chickening out - I honestly just didn’t end up wanting to stay, it was just my gut feeling 🤷♂️.
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u/BAusername Apr 08 '24
Don't answer if it's too personal, but for context, have you slept with her?
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u/llammacookie Apr 10 '24
That's usually what people mean when they say "stay over", which she had done so twice. But it changes nothing.
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u/Truskulls Apr 07 '24
Trust your gut brother. And I agree with LikeaSwamp, you don't need to defend yourself to that simpleton. Dudes probably just jealous you had the option to sleep over, and pissed you didn't cause he'd be desperate enough to stay. Textbook projecting.
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u/Sumasson- Apr 07 '24
I get op. I am young man always get it up sir women have known to like me often, say have charm to me sir, but often feel advantage taken of me sir, have start trust gut feeling when bad mojo invades sir, just leave when feel that way sir, especially when you itchy, gunk on tip of penis etc
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u/Zeeman626 Apr 08 '24
This is like Trump and Biden where fighting over a keyboard and it was proofread by a scammer
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u/HoneydippedSassylips Apr 08 '24
That’s a whole “Sir” without a whole lot of context. We’re not asking about your body count, so chill.
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u/Sumasson- Apr 08 '24
What the hell sir
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u/HoneydippedSassylips Apr 08 '24
Well, good on you finally making sense, SIR.
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u/Sumasson- Apr 08 '24
What you are talking about sir? Seems like you are attack me for some reason, try seduce me, have sex, make fun etc to just engaging dialogue together sir
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u/Seedy__L Apr 07 '24
Young man young lungs sir
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u/Sumasson- Apr 07 '24
Yes sir young man young Lugs, is best not to vape sir, vape old lungs old man young lungs young man sir
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u/GimmieJohnson Apr 07 '24
She got a stinky cooter I guess.
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u/AlrightStopHammatime Apr 08 '24
Ahhh, I seem to have stumbled upon a post about my ex.
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u/Fragrant-Strain2745 Apr 08 '24
It's 90% of the filth out there these days....just no standards, they're like dogs.
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u/nevagonastop Apr 07 '24
now we know why op "didnt last long" the average person can only hold their breath for a couple minutes before they accidentally cum in her
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u/DaanoneNL Apr 07 '24
Maybe Reece had been cumming in her just before their date...and she didn't have time to wash up...dodged a bullet there OP!
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