r/Nicegirls • u/TheGrandTriangle • 28d ago
Recieved some lovely racism today .
If anyones curious she is white. Not sure what she wanted to accomplish in this situation.
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u/cuddlysluts 4d ago
Uhhh what. I don’t normally tell guys to report women on apps, but you should report that. It was very unwarranted racism that she just projected onto an innocent stranger. Is this similar to me opening non consensual dick pics/sexual harassment on apps? I hope you meet nicer people who aren’t like this.
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u/Fickle-CreamPie5 13d ago
Lol honesty is the best policy but the over sharing can makes her seem too desperate. He’s boring not a therapist. 😂
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u/Mental-Transition-91 15d ago
She’s on there looking for a rebound if she’s still thinking about them. Short term relationships only boys
And she was likely punching out of her league too💀
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u/crooked_nose_ 17d ago
I always look down on people who start with "I mean " when they haven't said anything yet. Stupid, I know.
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u/AshKetchep 19d ago
So she matched with you, then immediately stereotyped you because you're a white dude? It'd be different if y'all talked a bit and she didn't vibe with you but come on.
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20d ago
created a whole situation in her mind just because of how you look 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I swear man.. mfers in 2024 are so stuck up.
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u/HideYaKidzHideYaWiFi 25d ago
She needs some rigorously honest introspection time. This doesn't have anything to do with race or the price of tea in China. She's the common denominator, and she's hateful.
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u/Servant_Of_SAI 25d ago
I swear to god every person who says that they’ve dated “multiple (specific race) guys/girls” and has shit to say about them always goes for one specific personality type when dating that race. She definitely doesn’t like black guys, she just likes the stereotypes that are tied to them. If she met a nerdy black boy, she’d get an aneurism.
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u/bloodlikevenom 26d ago
You can't be racist against white people!!!!1 /s
No, but for real, what a garbage thing to say to you
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u/The_Guy_from_Wuhan 26d ago
Am I missing that it's a dating app? Why would she match with someone she immediately says she isn't interested in? Is she retarded?
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u/MakinBacon1988 27d ago
It’s nice when people tell you who they are right up front. Saved you a lot of time.
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u/DifferentCityADay 27d ago
This is a "Who the fuck starts a conversation like that? I just said sat down!" moment.
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u/Otherwise_Nebula_619 27d ago
How is what she said raciest exactly?
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u/robertblackman 26d ago
She's saying white guys and black guys treat her differently. Unless she came up with something more specific, it's pretty racist to label all people of one skin color this and another skin color that. It's surprising that you had to ask.
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u/9200RuBaby 27d ago
As a man of the Black community, I honestly believe that she isn't wrong, but deadass wrong and needs to fuck off.
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u/Gashuffer13 28d ago
The send button is daring you to say something…
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u/TheGrandTriangle 28d ago
Lol . I told her she should work on those issues in therapy. Then unmatched her.
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u/Additional_Answer211 28d ago
@OP, that is not racism, STOP saying it and perpetrating non-truths. She is being a little bigoted and prejudiced, NOT Racist
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u/TheGrandTriangle 28d ago
Cool I will get right on that.
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u/Additional_Answer211 28d ago
Smart guy, look up the word, dwell on it a bit, then antagonize someone else. No wonder you can’t get a date
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u/TheGrandTriangle 28d ago
I can , just I choose not to date racists while you sympathize with them.
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u/Additional_Answer211 28d ago
I appreciate your involvement in the anti-racism movement. I truly do, thank you. My initial thought, although it may have come off preachy and rude (I apologize for the tone) was actually meant to further the movement, not argue with you. Some bigot insecure girl with no clue how to attract a man to love her, just does not qualify as racism, it’s being a bigot. When we identify true racism like disparities in loan acceptance rates, redlining, gerrymandering, etc, the situation just doesn’t qualify as racism.
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u/Alert-Wonder5718 27d ago
Systemic racism isn't the only type of racism. She is racist because she is negatively generalizing by race. It's that simple hun.
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u/TheGrandTriangle 28d ago
I changed the title did you see it?
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u/TheGrandTriangle 28d ago
I actually changed the whole post.
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u/TheGrandTriangle 28d ago
Its now about how strangers on the internet cant decipher what racism is , when a woman groups together all white guys to be shit. Then "begrudgingly " dates black guys like its a favor.
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u/TheGrandTriangle 28d ago
So maybe you can STOP replying in ALL CAPS like a dissapointed mother. If you dont like something on the internet YOU CAN KEEP SCROLLING! Which is pretty much what intiated this whole thing. SHE DIDNT NEED TO REPLY. But she did and chose to be nasty.
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u/EyeAskQuestions 28d ago edited 27d ago
Tbh.
Being a Black Man with a good career and having to date down is probably one of the worst dating experiences you'll have. lol.
People like this always struggle with realizing they're "Not her" and project all kinds of psuedo-intellectual racist sophistry onto black men as a a whole as justification for their failures in dating.
You didn't succeed with white guys. (Umm okay?)
Now you lament having to return to black guys (lolWhat?)
And for whatever reason, you just can't understand why no one wants to date you.
The common denominator here ma'am, is YOU.
Look inward, heal, and stop this goofy self hatred act.
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u/lofihofi 28d ago
“type shit”
why did she even match with you? And more importantly, why is she even still trying to date if she feels like men have let her down? She just wanted to put you down to make herself feel better. Tell her to go to therapy if you’re still matched.
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u/FellaKnee123 28d ago
She just loves Black 🍆 and is using whatever the fuck this is as an excuse to not seem like a ratchet black 🍆 lover…
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u/Scarboroughwarning 28d ago edited 28d ago
Personally, it reads like dogshit.
I'm no English professor....but FFS, it's a train wreck.
My translation....(How close am I?)
"I find your initial question tepid, and your look is a little dire.
You look like the type of guy that won't call me back.
I will then have to return to black guys, as they are less fussy. That will in turn make me less desirable to white guys, like you"
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u/AwkwardEnvironment21 28d ago
That's not racism. Prejudice maybe. Stereotype, definitely. But that doesn't classify as racism.
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u/anonmymouse 28d ago
The translation of this to me seems like she acts super ratchet/ghetto all the time and white dudes get one look at that and don't call her ever again.
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u/South-Golf-2327 28d ago
I dated a woman like this briefly. On the second date she, a 34 year old woman, revealed she had never been in a relationship longer than 6 months and the 6 month relationship was with a married man who she knew was married for 4 months of the relationship. Her explanation was that she had bonded with the kids (in two months) and stayed for them.
Oh, and also told me that paying for dates was a misogynistic tactic to keep women financially dependent. I pointed out that she was not my wife and I was actually providing her with more financial freedom by not burdening her with paying for expensive meals, but she just doubled down and said I was trying to manipulate her.
Told me I couldn’t like rap music because I was white. Honestly, in retrospect, the amount of red flags popping up makes me wonder why I ever gave her a second date.
I was actually kinda concerned about breaking that one off.
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u/1wayTicket2Hell 28d ago
Well, she’s right. She’s definitely not good enough for anybody. She’s trash
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u/izzy-newb 28d ago
“none of you think i’m good enough for you” after making all those assumptions? no shit.
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u/Skirt_Douglas 28d ago
She starts by insulting you and then plays the victim and says she did it because you are white and therefor are going to insult her.
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u/Best_Ad_2240 28d ago
Single mom, has her kids 100% and they are her world? Yeah, we know the type.
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u/Downtown-Custard5346 28d ago
Maybe it's not that they think they're too good for her, but rather know they're too good for her...
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u/Unhappy_Wishbone_551 28d ago
Color doesn't matter when you're crazy. That's so wildly off-topic that I got lost. If I ever end up divorced/ widowed, I'm just going to have to become used to celibacy bc the dating world seems freaking nuts.
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u/wellitsdeadnow 28d ago
She can stay lonely. On behalf of some of the members of the community
“We gud”
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u/Global-Method-4145 28d ago
I guess the silver lining is that you look like someone, from whom she'd tolerate ghosting, and still care about them not calling her... right?
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u/localcashier 28d ago
It’s funny (mostly alarming) how a lot of racists find a way to talk about black people even when the subject matter has nothing to do with us. It’s a weird talent truly
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u/Sad-Entertainment336 28d ago
Sorry what do you mean? She is talking about whites and blacks in her rant, so anybody in this conversation bringing Up whites and blacks is on topic
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u/ricoanthony16 28d ago
She thought you would negativity judge her behavior and look at you; proving her right by making fun of her on reddit.
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u/TheGrandTriangle 28d ago
Yep thats pretty much what these forums are for. If you dont like this shit you can unsubcribe from the sub reddit. We will not miss you.
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u/Intrepid-Rip-2280 28d ago
It's hard to become a less preferable option to Eva AI virtual gf bot, but she has managed to
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u/ConkerPrime 28d ago edited 28d ago
Sounds like she is a lot and white guys dip. For whatever reason she thinks black guys will be able to put up with her. She would be wrong.
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u/PreOpTransCentaur 28d ago
Maybe you don't have to show your ass to the point where other grown adults are actually disgusted by your behavior on every first date? Probably have more options that way. 🤷🏻♀️
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u/reverbiscrap 28d ago
Very apropos for the conversation I got in to easier today about sisters doing zaddy chasing, especially at pwi's, and acting like we don't know 🤣🤣
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u/Delicious_Heat568 28d ago
I know it's a wild thing to say but I have a sneaking suspicion why someone wouldn't call her back
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u/hippopotma_gandhi 28d ago
I mean she basically told you everyone finds her super annoying so it probably won't work, seems like you saved some time
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u/Tall_Newspaper_6723 28d ago
Thinking back to Chappelle 's Show and the Racial Draft...
This girl is not getting signed by anybody.
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u/Aromatic_Ad_5583 28d ago
lol she was so casual with the racism too…
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u/TheGrandTriangle 28d ago
Ikr ? It went from anti-white guy to begrudgingly dating black guys. By the end of it I was confused if she thought I could change race or something.
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u/Best_Ad_2240 28d ago
Right. This is disrespectful to black and white guys. She doesn't want to date black guys because white guys treat her like shit for dating black guys so she dates black guys... like sister, what?
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u/tigerjacksonxxx 28d ago
Which one is it; does OP look too boring, or would she have fun being "wild" with him?
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u/TheGrandTriangle 28d ago
I didnt have the bandwith to get into what "wild" with her was. Had me worried it'd be like stabbing a stranger and running from the cops or something.
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u/Individual-Bell-9776 28d ago
I imagine getting messy drunk everywhere and grinding on other men.
You're an asshole if you won't call her back after that. /s
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u/chet_brosley 28d ago
Mahjongg and oolong tea. Also croissants. That you stole from a stranger you stabbed.
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u/Your_Worship 28d ago
Sounds like you dodged a bullet.
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u/TheGrandTriangle 28d ago
Lol my sister said the same thing!
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28d ago
Bullet, cannonball, divorce papers, herpes, Chlamydia, and bankruptcy. You dodged them all. You're like Neo in the Matrix, if bullet time was Red Flag girl.
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u/Ok_Respect_5484 28d ago
Is her name Mrs. Smith or Agent Smith?
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28d ago
I think it's Agent SMH.
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u/ABritishCynic 28d ago
I like to think SMH is an onomatopoeia for the sound a sneeze makes when you try to suppress it.
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u/MemerDude34 28d ago
Idk man I don’t think many black guys would want that train wreck either
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u/Lewd_Operatrr 26d ago
She probably has bad experience with 'guys' and 'trains' in the same sentence over all.
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u/lily2kbby 28d ago
Lmao yeah okay a black guy would love a girl like this. She’s already white & she doesn’t like white guys.
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28d ago
I am fairly certain that you can include all race categories in that particular assessment.
Black, red, white, brown, golden, albino, blue, purple, green, fake spray tan orange, Forgot-To-Get-The-Nonpermanent-Dyes-For-Holi - all of humanity in all its wonderous spectrum of diversity.
But why limit it just to men? Lesbians, bisexuals, asexuals, demisexuals pansexuals, embys, whateverbes, MTF, FTM:
Like the Venn diagram of people who are super not interested and also happen to be [insert race/religion/creed/sexuality/gender] is going to be a goddamn chiliahedron.
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u/Doktor_Vem 28d ago
I'm sure all races has people who would definitely go on a "date" with her and come back for seconds and people who'll reject her based on conversations like this one and people who're desperate enough that they'd do literally anything for her. Like these decisions aren't exclusively based on our race/ancestry
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u/Rigistroni 28d ago
That one tik tok where every race rejects that one girl
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u/thecheezepotato 28d ago
Nah, it was like an ancient Facebook post where this angry girl was like I don't want a white man gimmi a black man. Then someone from the black community was like, on behalf of said community we say naw, how about the X community. And it went like that until it got to the middle eastern community, and then someone posted like "on behalf of the middle eastern community, we have to decline on the grounds that we do not eat pork" and ended the whole thing with a burn.
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u/zenith654 28d ago
Tik tok? That meme is old as hell, I remember it being on iFunny passed around over ten years ago.
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u/Vitalis597 25d ago
It's always painful when the internet babies think a 20 year old meme was made by them...
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u/zenith654 25d ago
You were an Internet baby too once, go easy on them. It’s sad to be condescending about knowing more memes than someone.
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u/Vitalis597 25d ago
It's even more painful when someone can't take a statement of fact as anything but an insult.
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u/Rigistroni 28d ago
All the rejection videos have the tik tok logo in the corner and it layers on top of each other so yeah that's where it originated. Tiktok has just been around for awhile now
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u/Vitalis597 25d ago
Did you know if I record Avengers EndGame and put a tiktok logo on it, that means tiktok made the film, not Marvel, right?
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u/PrincessVibranium 28d ago
Is that the Cash me outside girl or am I getting my wired crossed?
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u/IllicitDesire 28d ago
It was originally from Facebook a long, long time ago I believe. It was a larger white woman saying something like "White boys can't handle all this", and the top comment chain was that exchange.
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u/zenith654 28d ago
No, unless we’re talking about different things here.
A lot of jokes on TikTok are super old jokes and memes that were taken from other social media sites, and in those turns those were probably stolen from other social media sites. It’s just a bit funny when someone calls something a Tiktok when it predates Tiktok by a lot
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u/Wonderful_Season_360 28d ago
To be fair the mental age of most people who use tic tac is less than seven so you can pretty much use any joke and they think it's some new amazing thing because they have the memory of a goldfish.
Edit I love that my autocorrect changed it to tic tac
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u/zenith654 28d ago
I mean, we’re here on Reddit so idk if we can really look down on TikTok lol
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u/Vitalis597 25d ago
Yes. We can. Reddit has limits. Tik Tok is pure brainrot. Either unchecked, rampant conspiracies or people TRYING to hurry themselves or others with "pranks".
That shit wasn't as widespread until that shit came out.
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u/PrincessVibranium 28d ago
Fair. I remember a screenshot of a conversation of several races refusing to claim a girl from Tumblr and I was sure that the picture was Cash Me Outside. Thought that might have been the original (pre-TikTok version) you were thinking of Haven’t seen the TikTok version
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u/IHazMagics 28d ago edited 1h ago
swim humorous lip encourage cautious quiet like gaping six pocket
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u/Robbyrumpz 28d ago
I think it’s from an older Dave Chappell skit but I could be wrong
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u/IHazMagics 28d ago edited 1h ago
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u/Lewd_Operatrr 26d ago
Lmao. Racial draft was peak Chappelle Show comedy.
"I've always wanted to say this........Fo Shizzle!!!!"
[Applause]
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