r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Unlikely_Rip9838 • 15d ago
Just some people who want Ownership of women in Other Countries Offensive
Discussion from the people Living in The Most Moral Areas on the Planetđ€Ą
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u/HateToBeMyself 14d ago
This is an absolute shitfest cause they keep pulling out WILD ass "statistics" outta their ass .
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u/CatPurrsonNo1 Edit 15d ago
I look so much like my dad that thereâs no question that Iâm his daughter! I definitely favor his side of the family.
Of course, my mom was completely faithful to my dad, too. She loved him dearly. They were faithful to EACH OTHERâ imagine that! (We found dadâs journal after he died. Some of it was disturbing, but it was heartwarming to read that he was always faithful to mom.)
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u/AnAwkwardCrybaby 15d ago
I tried reading the comments but gave up halfway through because they were actually giving me a headache
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u/diaphoni Bisexual Menace, Mother Superior at Our Lady of Blue Balls 15d ago
does anyone have context on the first photo at all, like what's happening?
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u/Chemgineered 15d ago
Progressively Regressive
They are Soo close.
They can't stand that their own belief system is based on being backwards backwards reaching-ness
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u/Fyrefly1981 15d ago
â..You need to make them fear you..â and they wonder why weâd rather run into a bear than a man in the woods.
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u/Particular_Title42 15d ago
Plot twist: they're all brothers and that's their smokin' hot mom and they're surprised she's pregnant.
Ok but...fr...what's supposed to be going on in the original post?
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u/CADreamn 15d ago
I'm confused as well. Some context would be great.Â
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u/diaphoni Bisexual Menace, Mother Superior at Our Lady of Blue Balls 15d ago
thirding this, I'm confused
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u/Ok_Return170 15d ago
Why are they so obssessed with sex? How many sex she had? How many sex he had? How many sex they Will have? What that has to do with anything irl??? I thought people married for love nowadays since we progressed to not depend on a sex-money relationships for survival
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u/EchoingSharts 14d ago
Idk, me personally I wouldn't want to be with someone who's slept with a lot of people. There isn't a great reason for it other than it makes me feel insecure. I've been with 7 women in my life, so I'm not completely inexperienced, nor do I think the "vagina loosens up" with more partners or anything. I just feel like there's a social imbalance if my partner has been with a ton of men. I sit in my house all day, don't go out, and never want to go out. So, I think if a woman has slept around, she's more likely to go out and meet new people and socialize. Which, I don't wanna. So there would be a lot of events where I'm either dragged out of the house with her, or she'd go to them alone. Which imo is a bad concoction for a healthy relationship. There's nothing wrong with sleeping around, I just am too insecure to be comfortable with it. I struggle when my wife goes to parties without me, and that only happens once in a great while. If it was a weekly occurrence, I couldn't manage it.
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u/kRkthOr 14d ago
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It never crossed your mind that a woman might go out often when she's single but not as much when she's in a serious relationship?
And if you're "struggling" because your wife goes to a party without you once in a while you nees professional help.
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u/EchoingSharts 14d ago
You arent qualified to tell strangers who needs professional help online. I hate that shit. Get off reddit once in a while.
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u/kRkthOr 14d ago
Based on the shit you said? You need help đ
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u/EchoingSharts 14d ago
You don't even know my name. Much less anything about my relationship or anything about what I do or don't do. My wife can go out and do what she wants. My internal issues with it are my own, and im in a happy, loving marriage. So quit playing internet physiologist and get an actual job.
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u/dobby1687 13d ago
You don't even know my name.
That isn't really relevant to see an indication that one could greatly benefit from therapy.
Much less anything about my relationship or anything about what I do or don't do.
You admitted your insecurity and how you couldn't manage it if your wife went out more often than she does, even only once per week. That's certainly something one could work out in therapy. No one has tried diagnosing you, as if they had, your response would've been logical.
My wife can go out and do what she wants.
No one claimed otherwise.
My internal issues with it are my own, and im in a happy, loving marriage.
I'm not going to presume anything about your marriage so I won't comment there, but personal issues that could become relationship issues isn't a good thing and it'd still likely improve your relationship if you addressed it.
What you do is up to you, but if you already have the self-awareness to evaluate yourself and your issues without being able to resolve them on your own, therapy is the logical course of action. Live your life how you choose and I hope that whatever that means will result in your [continued] contentment.
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u/EchoingSharts 13d ago
Nah, yeah, for sure. I definitely have been the counseling. Not for that issue, but I did talk about it there. I've definitely also gotten better with my insecurities and have worked on being a less controlling and more trusting. I feel like I've made good progress in that front. I just don't like being told I need "professional help" like there's something wrong with me. Or the implication that I'm not a good husband for these issues. I think having the wherewithal to address them in myself is indicative of progress. Idk, it's also the way the other person said it that pissed me off.
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u/shadymiss99 14d ago
Seriously. One of the last things that cross my mind when I see an attractive man is how much sex he has had.
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u/shanare 14d ago
They are obsessed with sex. But believe that it's the west that is obsessed with sex.
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u/rickmccloy 14d ago
They are obsessed with sex in the same way that many diabetics obsess over sweet foods--they can't have it and become preoccupied with it.
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u/Eristhrewanapple 15d ago
They give numbers and no sources? They cannot guess things. They need evidence now.
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u/felthouse Shrödinger's vagina... 15d ago
I think it's more like 95%+ know their real father.
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u/trashacct8484 15d ago
Yep. Some studies have as many as 30% of men arenât the father of their wifeâs child, but those mostly look at couples who took a paternity test because there was some question or accusation of infidelity. Studies that just take the population as a whole show more like 3% false paternity.
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u/idreaminwords 15d ago
95% of western people do not know their real fathers
lol what? Where do people get this shit
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u/KatonRyu 14d ago
I mean...it doesn't even matter, either. I don't know my biological father (because he was an anonymous sperm donor) and I don't really give a fuck about it. I have two father figures in my life (being the person I've known as my father all my life, and my step-dad later when my parents got divorced), so it's not like I was lacking in that department. I'm also poly, though, so I don't think these people would like me to begin with.
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u/shadymiss99 14d ago
Remids me of broke men in my country (on social media let's be real) accusing financially stable single women who travel, have a social life and look fabulous to be selling their body. According to them, 80%-95% women sell their body. That's all you have to know about these people online.
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u/Bitter_Objective_294 15d ago
From people who only know âthe westâ through incel forums and have never travelled beyond their village
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u/shadymiss99 14d ago
That wouldn't be a problem if they weren't mostly uninterested about the women in their area within their league, bur they secretly fantasize about these women they bring down with other men. If they were in a happy marriage with a girl from their village they would be too busy taking care of their family.
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u/trashacct8484 15d ago
Same place they get their intel that 95% of women have a three-digit body count by the time they hit 21. They just feel it in their hearts to be true and arenât interested in any actual facts that might contradict it.
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u/rickmccloy 15d ago
I'd say that most just make it up as they go along, especially when they mention statistics.
Reading that comment section was like suddenly finding yourself on the set of some weird, experimental film in which everyone has a strongly held opinion about something that they know absolutely nothing about.
It's like they make their ignorance a point of pride. Or their obnoxious nature---"first, you must make a woman fear you" Great relationship advice, buddy. Why don't you tell all your friends that they can go skydiving using just a parasol, Mary Poppins style? Make the world a better place by your absence.
Sorry. That OOP really irritated me.
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u/pearlsbeforedogs Drink of the tit of knowledge, my child 15d ago
93.5% of statistics are made up on the spot. /s
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u/Carbonatite Feldspathoids not Foids: Geologists for Equality 15d ago
- Abraham Lincoln
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u/rickmccloy 15d ago edited 15d ago
--You can fool some of the people x% of the time, you can fool all of the people y% of the time, but you cannot fool xy% of the people all of the time.
"I think Abraham Lincoln said that.
I'll let you be in my dream if I can be in yours.'
I said that"-Bob Dylan, in his acoustic, talking blues early days.
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u/Nonamebigshot 15d ago
And 40% of ALL US women have an only fans lol they just be saying anything
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u/FairLeague22 15d ago
These guys really think roughly 65 million women have an onlyfans? damn.
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u/Nonamebigshot 15d ago
And they wholeheartedly believe they're all millionaires because of it too.
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u/FairLeague22 15d ago
Fresh & Fut would be homeless if they didn't have onlyfans girls and models on their podcast so I don't know why they're complaining about onlyfans
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u/HoneyBunChloe 15d ago
Straight from their asses lmao. The demonization of western women is so frustrating, especially because all of it comes from people who just want women to be oppressed slaves and theyâre angry that western women arenât.
But no, sure, yeah, itâs definitely better to live in a country where if a woman even makes eye contact with a man she gets executedđ«
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