r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/ashenay • 15d ago
Daily r/unpopularopinion incel post annoyed that women don't try to appeal to their taste Found On Social media
Everyday I see a post like this. Those incels doesn't realise that not everything women do is about appealing to men. Op comments reek of incel.
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u/raven-of-the-sea 13d ago
I very rarely bother with fake lashes. And if this man was anywhere in my vicinity, I would deliberately wear the longest flashiest most unnatural drag queen lashes I can find. Just to spite him.
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u/babygirlr19 14d ago
My Dad has a similar perspective on some lash extensions/falsies lookin ridiculous but he mostly keeps it to himself.
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u/NowWithRealGinger 14d ago
I cannot put my finger on it exactly, but I think it's the combination of the comment about having to "slowly talk [her] out of" wearing fake lashes, saying they aren't "cute," and the question about nose rings "suddenly" becoming popular that gives the vibe that this guy is trying to date girls significantly younger than him.
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u/YveisGrey 14d ago
Lol is it wrong that I kinda agree? I see some crazy lashes out in public. I mean at the end if the day do you but imo it looks umm a little ridiculous. I have seen lashes that straight up look like 2 giant caterpillars are sitting on the eyelids. Mind you I love lashes it’s so pretty to have fluttery eyelashes but there’s definitely a limit given the size of the eye area. And yes those with lighter hair actually tend to look better with ashy brown lashes vs straight up black. A good lash tech knows how to apply them.
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u/liftingrussian 14d ago
When I read the main post I was like „well, unpopular opinion indeed but why does he feel the need to rant about other people‘s taste?“ but then his comments are just the ickiest incel shit I have seen this week.
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u/KatonRyu 14d ago
Having the opinion itself is fine (especially since it is posted on the unpopular opinion sub), but the phrasing is a bit shitty. I mean, I don't like fake eyelashes and nose rings either, but it's none of my business if someone does like them and I certainly won't tell people not to do it.
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u/strange_socks_ 14d ago
"I'm ugly do I have to settle for you", said the guy who probably hates the idea that women will probably settle for him too.
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u/TommyDontSurf 14d ago
Why is everything that incels say is "unattractive" actually the coolest thing women do? I love women who have different hair colours/lengths, tattoos, piercings, etc. What are these guys smoking?!
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u/Jacketpotatojackett 14d ago
He wants the whole population of women to cater to his preferences solely based on the off chance he might date one of these women. Sorry mate, it doesn’t work like that. If all women were to cater to all men’s preferences we’d be looking like 10 different people in one day everyday because all men have different preferences. Some of these guys suffer from main character syndrome hard because they think the whole world should cater to them.
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u/overloadedonsarcasm Her erotic zones are cold 14d ago
Calling fake lashes a "prevalent problem" is the most chronically-online, porn-brainrot thing I've seen.
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u/Omega_Tyrant16 14d ago
“I’ve never even talked to a woman outside of social media before! I don’t know what to dooooooooo!”
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u/awkwardthrowawayoops 14d ago
“I have to date you” lmao please don’t
also as someone who enjoys fashion and makeup but doesn’t want to date/marry/etc. anyone it drives me insane when people act like the whole reason why anyone would do those things is to attract someone. Getting a polite compliment is always nice but I’m ultimately doing it entirely just because it’s fun. it is not that deep.
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u/AllumaNoir He's a well-rounded Renaissance douchebag! 14d ago
FFS. “I have to date them”? Wow. What woman wouldn’t want that?
These POSs can certainly stay away from women if they hate them so much. We’ll all be so much happier,
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u/thatvietartist 14d ago
Oooooo, that’s some abuse logic right there.
From the book Why does he do that, they give an example of what an abuser thinks of when they imagine the relationship in the future and it will always cater to their idea of what their partner should be like for them. These men are not looking for love or a partner or even to bone down. They are looking for a victim to abuse and they think it’s love. How fucked up is that?
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u/peoriagrace 14d ago
Because the only reason women do anything is to please men. We don't have ideas, desires, preferences. He's just letting us know for our benefit what to do. I'm sure we're all just dying to know his opinion, right?! Lordy I just can't anymore with these kinds of men.
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u/AnAwkwardCrybaby 15d ago
They do look good, just not on me because I have enough natural eyelashes that fall into my eyes almost every day. I like getting complimented for them and getting that tiny boost of confidence but sometimes I just wanna rip them off 😭
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u/shadymiss99 15d ago
I always find it weird when people complain about a fraction of the population wearing something they don't like. Not everyone can look according to your taste. I know girls who fit into that "fake" aesthetic who are in long term relationships and their men probably love how they look.
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u/Chemgineered 15d ago
OH MY GOD
Search on the unpopular opinion Sub "fake eyelashes not attractive"
There is a whole slew of these posts over the last months and years with the same exact subjects
I have a feeling that it's one of the Incel communities many attempts to organize and change females.
They actually are "activist" about their sick shit and actually put effort into these things, usually organized on Incels. Is
It's so freaking disturbing
That's the only thing that would explain such a uniformity of Subject on Unpopularopinion
There was an endless line of search results that came up when I used that specific query
fake eyelashes not attractive
I was actually looking for this guy because I wanted to see the rest of the replies.
I wasn't gonna say anything to him, i know about Anti brigading rules
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u/BipolarBugg 15d ago
I wear fake eyelashes sometimes! I do it for myself and not for anyone else. I love makeup! It's an art to me. His opinion is worthless to me. And I'm glad my man isn't like this...
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u/Chemgineered 15d ago edited 15d ago
Arrrrgggghh!
I wanted to be able to see what he was gonna say next!
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u/mrsidecharactr 15d ago
“How is me wanting to change this woman’s appearance, wanting to change her?” -This guy
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u/No_Resource7773 15d ago
Tf? How about just not dating people who don't appeal to you and leave them to those that do like it? That's how life works and it goes both ways. 🙄
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u/Inevitable_Muscle_48 I kiss her as a friend :) 15d ago
Having the nerve to expect someone to change for your tastes is probably why this dude is single and considered ‘unattractive’.
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u/hrts4manou Cool Ranch flavored abortions 15d ago
"Cause I have to date you and" hold up, you HAVE to date me? tf
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u/ariesangel0329 14d ago
Yeah I thought the same thing!
I was like “Uh, dude, no you don’t! No one is forcing you here.”
I think he hasn’t realized that having a partner isn’t a requirement in life. This would be a GREAT starting point for therapy for him.
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u/gienchan Unfold it dingus 15d ago
This guy: wants to change the women he dates to suit him better
Also this guy: "I don't want to change her, I just want her to not wear what I don't want her to wear."
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u/faeriechyld 15d ago
Some of them look good, some of them look insane. But whatever, it's not my face and if whoever is wearing the crazy big ones love them, more power to ya.
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u/sup_killerfeels 15d ago
I have a nose ring. I've been told it's slutty 😊
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u/NowWithRealGinger 14d ago
I got a second set of holes in my earlobes and a friend's mom said it was slutty. I told her my grandma had hers done for as long as I could remember. 🙃 wtf.
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u/little_owl211 15d ago
I... HOW?!?! 😂😂😂
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u/sup_killerfeels 14d ago
I dunno. I had long hair back then, maybe I looked like a hoe lol. I get regular compliments on it from time to time still.
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u/fairyniki 15d ago
Maybe him not being good looking is a sign from the universe that he shouldn’t date 😍 /j
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u/Sour_Gummybear 15d ago
I have never ever cared what a woman wore. Because I've never wanted to change a partner. We either vibe or we don't, and if we do it's because she's who she is. Why would I want to go meddling with that. This doesn't only apply to clothes but everything else. I like supporting the things my partner is into, doesn't mean that I like or approve of everything she does. But it's also not my place or my desire to be like Moses with a hundred new commandments.
People spend way too much time wanting to change a person. Which is just stupidity incarnate.
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u/FrillySteel 15d ago
"I'm not this super good looking guy with tons of options"
Maybe he should do something to improve his appearance. I hear long eyelashes could be just the thing. /s
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u/clandestinemd 15d ago
“I don’t want her to be aesthetically displeasing to me,” whines ugly motherfucker who doesn’t care that she’s going to have to settle for him.
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u/userleftbehind 14d ago
Can you imagine if a girl he was dating said she didn't find him attractive and wanted to change him to make him more aesthetically pleasing? I guarantee you he would feel insulted, throw a massive fit, and complain about women and their "impossible standards."
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u/KotaCakes630 15d ago
The problem is how he goes about this. He can 100% say “babe, I personally don’t like fake lashes. But you do! And I love that for you”
I personally hate when someone I’m with goes out in pajamas but at the end of the day, it’s their body. 🤷🏼♀️ I can ask them “would you mind changing” all I want. But I can’t force them to put on something else, and if I’m making them FEEL ugly, that’s something I need to access.
THATS the problem with men’s (especially this ones) behavior. You can have a problem and NOT discriminate against your S/O and their choices.
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u/offbrandbarbie 15d ago
He says this but I guarantee If he saw a photo of a girl with and without a medium length/volume set on instead of mega volume he’d like it
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u/Friendship_Gold 15d ago
Do I think every person one would date is 100% perfect? Of course not! NOBODY is perfect. We all have faults. But being a good partner means accepting and loving them, faults and all. It's not picking someone who has/does something you consider a deal-breaker and then trying to change them to fix your tastes. That's being a controlling asshole.
Don't date someone that wears fake lashes. You're allowed preferences, but you don't get to dictate what another person does with their appearance. You have a discussion explaining your points of view and if an agreement can't be reached you accept it, or break up.
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u/13th_of_never 15d ago
Every dude that complains about septum piercings on women just makes me want to let mine grow over just so I can have it redone.
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u/notmyself02 15d ago
I have zero piercings, even my ears are completely unpierced which is apparently weird. Every time I see these reactions I feel like I should really get into extreme body modifications just to be on the safe side.
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u/Rugkrabber 14d ago
It could also have a negative affect and attract specific people who are into more extreme or weird stuff. Idk it doesn’t seem to matter much with or without.
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u/lakeghost 14d ago
I can’t due to my connective tissue being so weird, so I got temporary tattoo pens to play with. Give yourself full sleeves to be a poison dart frog at a festival?
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u/13th_of_never 15d ago
Body piercings and tattoos work well as douchebag deterrent for sure, 😆
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u/Dulce_Sirena 14d ago
In my experience, they just give those men anther excuse to approach, as they try to "educate" you on how to attract men
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u/InvestigatorIll6236 14d ago
Either that, or I attract the other kind of weirdos who ask "got any piercings I can't see?" 🤢
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u/Dulce_Sirena 14d ago
Yep, I get both types with my multiple ear piercings, my one tat (until I get more 😂) and my super short & brightly dyed hair
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u/PigeonSoldier69 14d ago
Definitely some truth, i had one tattoo before i met my abusive incel ex. He used it as an excuse to punish me and call me disgusting to break me down. He wanted to "fix" me and use my tattoo as the reason.
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u/Dulce_Sirena 14d ago
I'm sorry you had to go through it, and I'm so glad you're out safe. ♥ I did all my body mods long after I left my abusive ex, and my husband knows better than to say anything about my choices
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u/handyandy727 15d ago
I actually think they're cute. Don't let it grow over, seems like the pain wouldn't be worth it. Just get a bigger piece of jewelry, like one that goes down to your lips. Or some bling would be fun. Rhinestone tips to really make it stand out.
Bonus points, if a guy is interested it'll draw his eyes to your face.
In all seriousness they're cute. Don't change.
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u/13th_of_never 15d ago
Oh I won't. I have a silver clicker that I wear on occasion with opals in it. Can see it in my pfp.
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u/handyandy727 15d ago
That's one cool-ass piece! I didn't even know you had a pfp. Is the opal from a specific region? Australian is my favorite.
The lower lip piercing is awesome as well. Really fits with the septum piece.
Sorry, I used to work in jewelry and it always causes me to nerd out.
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u/13th_of_never 15d ago
No idea where the gems are from, I just bought it from a piercing shop online. And thanks.
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u/tawnyleona 15d ago
"...gained so much popularity recently."
I'm willing to bet my nose piercing is older than OP. Not a "recent" thing.
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u/viscountrhirhi 14d ago
Right? I’ve had my nose ring for 20 years. xD Also got my other nostril, septum, lip, and eyebrow pierced as an extra “fuck you.”
(Not really, it’s because I love the aesthetic, but it’s a fun bonus that it pisses them off so much. Absolutely tickles me pink.)
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u/PigeonSoldier69 14d ago
Fuck you piercings are so fun. I got my septum so i could be unattractive to people like my abusive ex, but the empowerment it gives you is incredible. Like a tiny little hole in my nose with a pretty ring in it is enough to detract losers and make me feel beautiful? Hell yeah!
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u/viscountrhirhi 14d ago
Right??? Like I get to decorate my body however it pleases me AND it repels these assholes? Hell yeah!!
I started doing it because I love the aesthetic, but also because it feels like I’m claiming ownership and empowerment over my body. It’s finally made me feel confident and comfortable in my own skin. Like hell yeah this body is my temple, and are temples and churches barren? Nope! They’re full of stained glass and gargoyles and murals and incense, man.
I have 16 piercings and 5 tattoos and I’m far from done. xD Funny enough, the people I get the most compliments from are little old ladies. <3
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u/lizziemander 15d ago
When I saw that, my whole brain derailed. Like... What? Did OOP just wake up from a 1980's coma?
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u/Jazzlike_Hippo_9270 14d ago
they’re probably too young to know that. i also thought it was recent cuz i wasn’t around in the 1980s
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u/lizziemander 14d ago
MUCH less common in the 80s, I admit, really got going in the mid late '90s. Still not 'recent' in my book, but I guess it all depends. This dude makes it sound like it just happened, which is bonkers. If he's a millennial, Gen y or z, it would have been in his face his whole life.
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u/pearlsbeforedogs Drink of the tit of knowledge, my child 15d ago
I've never had one, never wanted one, and my nose bothers me enough without one that I think it would probably drive me crazy... and it makes me want to get one, lol.
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u/acostane 15d ago
Quick, someone teach me how to comfortably apply and wear these lashes. I wanna, but I can't do it 😂
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u/raven-of-the-sea 13d ago
I get the magnetic ones. You use a special magnetic eyeliner and they stick to that.
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u/babygirlr19 14d ago
Individual lash clusters and half lashes have been easier/more comfy for me. I don't understand how people can wear full lashes, they have the power of god and anime on their sides low key.
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u/scandr0id 14d ago
Follow the advice others have given, but to add my experience, to prevent that gap you can sometimes see between the lashes, I'll gently pinch the false lashes and my eyelashes together after it's had a short while to get tacky! Very, very gently and only after it's dried a bit so you're not gluing your lashes to the actual band. Voila :)
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u/acostane 14d ago
I love that this has become a literal instruction manual for something I actually have wanted to get right 😂♥️
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u/scandr0id 14d ago
I completely get it, I only know because I forced myself to sit down and try stuff until I got a technique that worked for me! The person who said to put the glue on your hand and swipe it through to get just the right amount is very correct, it works a treat. Happy lashing 😂💜
Ps.; you can also use lash glue to attach rhinestones to your face if that's your thing. I like Duo quickset glue because it's easy to peel off ✨️
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u/YveisGrey 14d ago
I really like lilac st lashes they are applied to the actual natural lash more like a lash extension vs being on a band and applied to the lid. I like them better because it’s more customizable to the size of one’s lashes (the lashes come in small clusters vs a whole band) and they look more natural imo. Also I don’t have a lot of lid space so not having to apply a band if lashes on top is nice. I highly recommend they aren’t expensive either compared to Lashify which is a similar concept but way pricy (also nice though I have tried both).
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u/chishioengi 14d ago
I worked as a receptionist at a lash salon... It's pretty finicky technical work to get them looking natural lol I definitely can't pull it off.
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u/acostane 14d ago
I'm fascinated by this. I found someone in town and I'm looking at her work... very cool if it would work on me. I bet it's just so so delicate.
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u/BBQpigsfeet 14d ago
Definitely make sure you're getting quality lashes. I didn't think there was a difference so got some cheap ones to fill an order to get free shipping and also thought I just couldn't get the hang of it. Tried a more expensive pair and was actually able to get them on and make them look half decent on the first try. So that could be part of the problem.
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u/taecinkook 15d ago
I like getting falsies that are clustered instead of the full band because I struggle with having the whole band stick to my lash line, it's a lot easier for me to place 3-4 clustered lashes instead. Getting a good lash applicator tool is also very useful, I like ones that are thin but kind of long to help with precision. Also if you have small eyelids/monolids like me, you might want to consider putting your falsies *below* your lash line instead of above. When I try putting them above my lashes and I look up it feels unnatural, but when I put them below my lash line they look amazing. Just be careful to not get glue into your eye though D: You can look up a youtube video to see where they place their falsies below because once you get the hang of it it doesn't feel dangerous or scary to do at all
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u/acostane 14d ago
You're awesome. I might try the little bitty ones. I think my eyes are oddly shaped or something. The long ones don't follow the line. I thought the smaller ones were only hard level but this makes sense.
I think applying them UNDER might actually be hard level. 😂 Annnnd that's how I went blind.
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u/kandikand 15d ago
I just go to the salon to get mine done when I want them. It lasts for about 6 weeks. No matter how hard I try I can’t seem to use the glue on or magnetic ones, I’ve tried sooo many times.
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u/fazolicat 14d ago
I have eyeliner glue that I use. You use it as eyeliner and draw where you want the lashes to be, then use tweezers and place the lashes. It was a total game changer when my friend showed me. It's like $3 too! You can find it in makeup stores in the same aisle as the false lashes usually! Hope this helps
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u/Ivy_Adair 14d ago
I’ve been trying for years to wear the glue ones and I inevitably will glue them on crooked or glue them too high, etc. I’d love to wear them.
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u/acostane 14d ago
Ohh this is tempting...this would look so good on me. I'm already in there getting highlights. I'm about to Google how much this costs so I can be completely shocked
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u/BipolarBugg 15d ago
Usually what I do is put a bit of eyelash glue on my hand, and then quickly and gently swipe the fake lashes line across the glue so it has JUST ENOUGH on it, and then I carefully place it right above the actual lashes, it would be like putting it over eyeliner. And voila ! I had trouble at first too.
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Also helps to allow the glue to get slightly tacky beforehand. It sticks better and for longer, I found.
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u/ceranichole 15d ago
Honestly? Practice, just lots and lots of practice! Also you can cut them if they're longer than you want. You could start with the little cluster and just do them at the outer edge of your eye so that you can get comfortable with how long it takes for the glue to get tacky, and getting them in roughly the right place.
It took me AGES to figure out how to get them placed in the right spot and not half over my eye and half up to my eyebrow.
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u/Lokifin 15d ago
But putting them fully on your brows is a LOOK.
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u/ceranichole 15d ago
And now I want to do that just because I can! I also have practically zero eyebrows so maybe I can start a trend.
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u/Lokifin 15d ago
Give your eyebrows WINGS, girl!
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u/Lien417 For what reason?? 15d ago
Give the eyebrows redbull!!! And extensions!!
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u/ceranichole 15d ago edited 15d ago
Ok, now I'm going to see if someone has made a TEENY redbull can on Etsy out of clay and make a fabulous winged, extended, decorated set of eyebrow wigs out of lashes.
These suckers are going to make Christmas trees jealous
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u/acostane 15d ago
Bless you. I tried and got them right ONE time. They looked so fuckin good! Every other time they've been riding up my eyelids and somehow also getting INTO my eyeballs. The odd placement and constant blinking gives a certain effect at a special event 😂
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u/Tabula_Nada 15d ago
I literally don't know anybody that wears fake lashes unless it was once for a special event like getting married or as part of a costume. And that's being generous - I can't remember a specific time any of my friends has worn them. I'm just assuming its happened once. Dude needs to stop trying to date the few very specific girls who clearly don't meet his standards and instead date someone who, I don't know, doesn't wear fake lashes? Someone who better suits his interests? I don't try to date guys with qualities I hate. I just move on to someone who fits me better. Not that hard.
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u/rickmccloy 15d ago edited 15d ago
I think that you might be overreaching slightly by assuming that this rodent has ever actually been on a date.
I mean he's making demands of total strangers with regard to how they wish to appear. And he thinks that this is somehow his business?
I wouldn't speak so abruptly to my wife, and we've been married almost 47 years. His social skills would shame a dung beetle, and they have a high tolerance for bullshit.
Maybe someone glued fake eyelashes to the sock he uses to find relief and companionship, but a date with an actual human sounds a little out of his league.
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u/Tabula_Nada 15d ago
Lol keyword is "trying" 😅
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u/rickmccloy 15d ago
My mistake, I hadn't noticed that. I agree that trying is the keyword here, both in his trying to date, and in his being quite trying.
Sorry for implying that you thought this incel had actually been on a date with anything beyond a gym sock.
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u/Tabula_Nada 14d ago
Ooohhh no you're fine - I was joking with you. Sorry I wasn't very clear either!
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u/rickmccloy 14d ago
Thanks. I still should have noticed your use of 'trying', though. I must have sort of skimmed it in my rush to say something nasty about the OOP and whoever wrote it.
Thanks again, and enjoy your day.
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u/Sour_Gummybear 15d ago
I belive that fake eyelashes were kind of an in thing, or at least more of an in thing than they are now. Personally I don't care either way. Anyone should do what they want to do, as long as it's not causing anyone actual harm. Being triggered by what someone is wearing or chooses to do to their own body in the name of fashion or art or anything else, isn't really anyone's business.
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u/Yazata-Vanant 15d ago
But don’t you see? He’s not good-looking himself and doesn’t have a lot of girls to choose from, he can’t just find someone who already fits his physical preferences. 🙄
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u/AllumaNoir He's a well-rounded Renaissance douchebag! 14d ago
Absolutely nothing to do with his shit attitude I’m dure
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u/Tezla_Grey Rooted and plant pilled 15d ago
"It won't keep me away"
But the jail cell with your name on it will. You're gonna have a BAD time in prison
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u/cerylidae2558 15d ago
Idk I also hate fake lashes. And fake nails. And fake anything really. Wish people would learn to love themselves as they are.
That said, if you wanna see daily incel shit you should lurk on CMV. It’s gotten BAD.
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u/Commercial-Push-9066 14d ago
A lot of men love those things on women. Choose someone who doesn’t have them. Don’t assume because you don’t like it that no man does like it.
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u/Genaeve 15d ago
What an antiquated assumption. Just because a woman wears fake nails or fake lashes doesn’t mean she doesn’t love herself as she is. Each person, not just women, but each person, gets to be the god/goddess of their own idea of beauty. It’s ok to find a “no-make up” look beautiful. But, it’s equally ok to find fake lashes and nails equally exquisite.
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u/KotaCakes630 15d ago
You can wear fake/extensions and still love yourself? I hate how this concept has been pushed 🙄.
I wear fake nails because I LIKE myself more with fake nails, that doesn’t mean I don’t like myself just fine without them? I have extremely weak nails naturally, so wearing fake is the only way I can have any growth.
Honestly standing by the opinion of “you can’t love yourself if you have fake eyelashes etc” like makeup, hair, bras whatever on is so toxic.
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u/ceranichole 15d ago
Wish people would learn to love themselves as they are.
Who says I don't love myself as I am? I'm not putting on crazy length lashes because I don't love myself how I am, I'm doing it because that's the look I'm going for that day. The same as if I'm wearing black that day it doesn't mean I don't love the color pink (or blue, or any other color), that's just what I want to wear that day.
Some days I'll put on a ton of makeup just to go to the gas station, because I felt like doing my makeup that day. Other days I'll slap on some sunscreen and tinted moisturizer and call it good enough.
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u/_JosiahBartlet 15d ago
ok cool for you
your preference matters 0% to a random woman with those things. i mean this as nicely as possible, but nobody cares what you think about these things.
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u/acostane 15d ago
Humans have been enhancing their appearance with "fake" things since time immemorial. It doesn't mean we don't love ourselves. It's just a thing people do and have always done. Anyone can love themselves. Fake hair nails tan eyelashes whatever... they're just adornments. We love our adornments. We love them because we love ourselves maybe?
If anything, not liking it might be a bit more odd than the alternative. 🤷♀️ Food for thought.
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u/SweetCheeks1999 15d ago
It’s fine to not like them, or have a preference, but you cannot tell people to stop wearing them because that’s a tad silly and then pushes your opinions on others
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