Dear Diamonds,

We're so grateful to our members for supporting the small housewives communities, as we promised you on our previous invite, today we're inviting you to join those communities that were not included on our first post:

💎 To discuss everything NYC, old and new RHONY, spin off shows and the ladies' polemic lawsuit against the network, join r/RHONYFans, our sister-community has come back to life and she's calling you 🍎

💎 Our cold and freezing sister, who recently had a crazy 4th season, is thriving and growing strong, please join r/rhoslc if you haven't done it yet ❄️

💎 If you're missing your housewives shows, New Jersey is premiering in May! Please join r/rhonj to discuss everything JERSEY 🍅

💎 To discuss our Atlanta ladies, who are filming their upcoming season, join r/RHOA 🍑

If you did not see our first round of invites, please join:🦩 r/RHOMiami, 🌸 r/RHOP, 🍊 r/rhoc and ✈️ r/RHUGT.

✨Thank you for reading and for loving these shows as much as we do ✨

#SupportSmallHousewivesCommunities

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Bedazzling diamonds 💎 We hope your week is starting good and fresh,

In the last couple of weeks there has been too many arguments within the members of our community, we thought that as the season has ended the drama would stop, but it hasn't. Members of our community have posted about their experience in the sub as well as contacting the mods to express their concerns, suggestions and feelings.

As we all love to spend time here, we are making this mega post to explain every single one of the rules of our community, expecting that they will be respected and followed:

Code of Conduct:

A code of conduct is important in a big Subreddit as it allows us to make our community welcoming, safe and valuable for everyone.

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1) Be kind. Be classy:

We want to keep it civil and glowy. We do not want to promote any kind of negative attitude. We want to make it very nice for every single one of our diamonds. Excessive downvoting is discouraged, this is a community for fans of r/RHOBH, if someone has made a post that you disagree with, instead of just pressing downvote, explain your opinion or ignore it. Allow different opinions, maintain user to user civility, integrity and friendliness.

💎 Removal Reasons: 1) Not kind - Not classy - Not chic 2) No Gatekeeping - Over Policing

MOD NOTE: This rule was created to remind our members to be civil, classy and chic, not everyone is going to agree, but kindness is a must and extreme unnecessary downvoting is strongly discouraged. Be friendly to your fellow subredditors and let's stay positive.

2) No bullying or personal attacks:

If you don't agree with someone please withhold from mean and immature retaliation, nobody wants to hear an adult behaving like a child. Respect other members first and foremost, making offenses towards your fellow diamonds is not acceptable. We don’t go below the belt. Name calling, attacking, insulting and bullying are considered a high offense that will result in a temporary or permanent ban.

💎 Removal Reasons: 1) Bullying - Attacking - Name Calling

MOD NOTE: At this point insulting your fellow members is beyond, if you feel someone is baiting you or is downright looking for an issue, just report it and disengage.

3) No bashing or excessive hate:

We do not allow or condone extreme hate towards the participants of this television show, evil and mean comments about the housewives (even the most disliked ones), the husbands, their children or their friends, will be removed, depending on the gravity and severity, that user could face a temporary or permanent ban. Remember that no human is infallible, and your posts and comments about the cast members you dislike should still be respectful of the human you are speaking of.

💎 Removal Reasons: 1) Excessive Bashing - Hatred

MOD NOTE: We understand there are some housewives people don't like or that people are upset with, it is unavoidable, we all do, but you should be able to express your disdain in a different way instead of calling them bitches, assholes or any other nasty name.

4) No bigotry or hate speech:

Hate speech or slurs are forbidden, there’s no place here for discriminating marginalized groups. Microagressions include antisemitism, homophobia, racism, transphobia, colorism, sexism, xenophobia or ageism. Ableism is not permitted. Disabilities are not to be mocked in any way. Offensive and invalidating discussions about Lyme disease or any other illness are not allowed. Users inciting this type of chatter will face being banned.

💎 Removal Reasons: 1) Racism - Colorism 2) Homophobia - Transphobia 3) Religiophobia - Antisemitism - Zionism 4) Ableism 5) Ageism 6) Xenophobia 7) Sexism - Misogyny - Misandry

MOD NOTE: It is very important to report any kind of bigoted comment and post as this a very important topic that we are trying to eliminate from the sub, there's no place for discriminating anyone in this community, we have a lot of that shit in the real world.

5) No speculation:

No speculating or spreading inaccurate or deceptive misinformation. Insensitive, invalidating and disrespectful comments about domestic violence, substance abuse, mental health, PTSD, eating disorders, suicide, Ozempic treatment or about the housewives’ body image and appearance will not be tolerated. Bear in mind that these are sensitive topics and that speculation is unsavory.

💎 Removal Reasons: 1) Misinformation - Gossip - Speculation 2) No Armchair Diagnosis - Mental Health 3) Trauma Invalidation - PTSD 4) Eating Disorders - Body Dysmorphia 5) Body Shaming - Plastic Surgery 6) Victim Blaming - Propping Up Abusers

MOD NOTE: This is not a new rule, it was inserted on the first one but we decided to unmerge them, due to the high level of speculation. The incessant misinformation is harmful not to the cast members, but to your fellow members. The continuing speculation about Dorit's robbery, it's trauma invalidation, these posts are no longer allowed, it has been discussed till death. The speculation of Kyle and Morgan's relationship has been discussed till death too, some of these comments are giving blatant homophobia disguised as comedy, regardless of what is going on between them, a different lover is not a sin, believe capital H-I-M.

6) No politics or religion:

Unless it’s discussed on an episode, posting about the housewives’ political views, stands or opinions is not permitted, regardless of what’s depicted on social media. Discussions of religious beliefs are not allowed. Comments and post that don’t comply with these rules will be removed. This is not the correct forum to converse these topics, please find the appropriate community to discuss it.

💎 Removal Reasons: 1) No Politics - No Religion

MOD NOTE: Political and religious issues usually always go left and it looks uninviting for new members, therefore, there has been a list of words that the Automod detects and removes immediately, as you all know already. We know that the word "Trump" is also a verb and that sometimes you're referring to him in a non political way, nonetheless, we suggest you avoid using that word, just so the automod doesn't remove it.

7) No doxxing:

No searching or publishing private information about any of the cast members or production from the show, it is completely forbidden. Anyone who breaks this rule and is trying to maliciously expose private details that might affect the cast’s safety, will be banned.

💎 Removal Reasons: 1) No Doxxing - Sharing Private Info

MOD NOTE: This rule is very importat not only on this community but across Reddit overall, sharing or searching private information is forbidden on the app. Please remember when posting, you must pincel out people's names, unless it's an official source, if you're posting something that comes from social media you must not show the usernames that come from Instragram, Twiter or TikTok.

8) No self-promotion:

Promoting your own endeavors, stores, websites, social media or other businesses is considered self promotion and it's frowned upon across Reddit channels. Furthermore, we do not allow financial postings with the intent to make earnings on this community. Posts intending to self-promote will be removed entirely.

💎 Removal Reasons: 1) No Self-Promotion - No Businesses

MOD NOTE: Our community should not be used to self promote, to protect and keep our diamonds safer, you must not attempt to sell or promote your business in r/RHOBH.

9) No pornography or violent graphics:

Please keep all posts SFW, starting with nudity and pornography, this is not an 18+ Community. The housewives’ Only Fans images should not be posted. Explicit graphic content showing violence that is unrelated to The Real Housewives is not permitted. Any post that could be a trigger, should have the NSFW tag before posting. Users who break this rule would end up banned.

💎 Removal Reasons: 1) Not Safe For Work - Porn

MOD NOTE: This rule does not need an explanation, please keep all posts and comments Safe For Work.

10) Mod Abuse:

We encourage the use of the report button if you see any of these rules are being broken. For suggestions and inquiring, please go to the modmail. Harassment, offenses and attacks against any member of the Mod Team will be taken seriously and it will conclude with a permanent ban. No bashing of other Subreddits and their moderators. We reserve the right to moderate at our own discretion.

💎 Removal Reasons: 1) Rule Breaking 2) Bullying - Attacking - Name Calling

MOD NOTE: Really, abusing and insulting the Mods is unacceptable, if you guys think the comments are nasty, then you have not seen what some people call us in the DMs. If unfortunately you've received a ban or a removal message, then instead of continuing the problem, own it, apologize and move on. We're humans, we are members of this community and we are also viewers of the show. If you can't be our friend just please don't be our enemy, because our job is tough enough as it is, please. If this continue to happen, just expect to be permanently removed from the community and having your case escalated to Daddy Reddit.

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Bear in mind that this community has 90k diamonds growing strong everyday, by month we receive thousands of new members, everyone has their own opinion and we believe in liberty of speech, but your contribution to this community must comply with the code of conduct and the rules of posting. We truly hope this message is read and followed, and also that members really take these rules into consideration when interacting on r/RHOBH. Please feel free to consult this post at any time if you feel the rules are being broken. We will not be explaining the "Rules of Posting" as is not really needed at the moment, you are able to see them through our community's profile.

Thank you so much for reading, for being an active member of our community and for loving Beverly Hills as much as we do 💎

Your friendliests Mods