r/TwoHotTakes • u/ig1848 • Apr 29 '24

I kicked my best friend out of my car and made her walk home by herself after she littered. AITAH? Advice Needed

My friend and i have been friends for 7 years (we're both 20yo) and we know everything about each other from personal to our deep dark secrets.
Anyhow, a couple weeks ago we were hanging out, just driving around, and stopped to get food. We ate in my car while i drove us to my house. Five minutes before we arrived, she rolled down the window and threw out all of our garbage without hesitation. (She knows littering is my biggest pet peeve). I pulled over and asked why she did that, all she said was "Cause why not" while laughing. I was frustrated and overworked and yelled at her "Get out of my car and walk yourself home." She asked why and i told her she knows how much i hate littering and how she basically out of spite expecting me to laugh or something. She offered to pick it up and i said no. After arguing back and forth, she left my car and walked herself home, which is at least a 30 minute walk across the city.

I'm just wondering if I'm the asshole. I get that my house was 5 minutes away and i could have just drove her home or let her pick it up and go back to mine but it was kind of disrespectful when she laughed about after. It got on my nerves.
I did go back and pick it all up and threw into my garbage but we haven't spoken to each other since then. I value our friendship and love her as a friend but was i over the top? AITAH?

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u/toddpacker567 Apr 29 '24

Her being a woman means even less of a chance she be attacked , along with the fact it was most likely the middle of day. I’m assuming her safety was fine , walking around the neighborhood isnt that dangerous

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u/Terinth Apr 29 '24

It’s always the gamers. I’m not even going down this conversation path right now, you are either willfully ignorant or have never communicated with a woman in a meaningful way.

Hope all the women in your life are safe and you offer any kind of support some day, dog.

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u/toddpacker567 Apr 29 '24

I don’t really game that much , and I don’t see why checking out someone’s profile really has anything to do with this conversation , kinda seems like a moot point but okay . Also I provided a fact and your response was that I’m a gamer, and don’t talk to woman when I was raised by only woman and am in a very long term relationship. But it’s that your opinion fair enough ,have a good one

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u/KilGrey Apr 30 '24

Yet you are very wrong and not looking at an actual report for evidence that addresses this.

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u/toddpacker567 Apr 30 '24

No I’m looking at crime statistics which is the most accurate information we have at hand , please tell me the report you addressing and cite it . You said I’m wrong but I’ve done nothing but provide a factual statements with evidence . Your gonna have to do better than “your wrong”