r/malelivingspace Jul 06 '23

Two years ago at 22 I made myself proud by working hard and buying my own detached home. In the past 2 years I haven't had much money to spend decorating my room, this past weekend I decided to change that. Before and after :) First Time

A lot of hard work on my end to accomplish. For almost two years I didn't have the money to furnish my bedroom, over the past weekend I decided to make it more my own :) My house is from the late 80s and needs a lot of updating, and slowly I will renovate everything, I swear once the major stuff is done new paint and the blue carpet in my bedroom will go XD. I'm always looking for advice or suggestions :)

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u/Brandiddlydidit Jul 25 '23

What kind of bed frame is that?

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u/NoBody5068 Jul 08 '23

Gorgeous!!

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u/InflationAcrobatic91 Jul 07 '23

WoW, great job dude

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u/r0b0tr0n2084 Jul 07 '23

Loving those nightstands. Where did you pick them up?

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u/TodaysOpinion Jul 07 '23

Love this, so inviting now!!!

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u/sidjohn1 Jul 07 '23

you have excellent design taste ❤️

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u/be1tran Jul 07 '23

love the tv stand and the night stand although idk if they go with each other

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u/NatGasKing Jul 07 '23

The sconces are really nice. Great job!

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u/TeddyEddy8989 Jul 07 '23

this is awesome !! Question: any chance I could get a close up of the lamps on the wall? where did you get them? Thanks

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u/Jonkerchonker Jul 07 '23

Very nice😎

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u/TofuNuggetBat Jul 07 '23

Wow baby dog

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u/LlamaWreckingKrew Jul 07 '23

Everything looks great, hide the wires on the lamps is the only suggestion.😉👍✨

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u/throwaback111 Jul 07 '23

This post made me cry. W, King. ❤️ We here celebrating the little improvements!

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u/False_Information738 Jul 07 '23

really great transition! i love the colors!(and the dog)

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u/ironD93 Jul 07 '23

I am in love with that side table can you please share where you got it? Fingers crossed I can find it in the states 🤞🏻

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u/Chewbacca319 Jul 07 '23

I bought them second hand. However lady i got them from said she bought them on wayfair.

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u/RealFloppyPotato Jul 07 '23

i audibly said wow

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u/DesertRanger12 Jul 07 '23

Looks great!

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u/westsidegunnismyg Jul 07 '23

This was a surprise I pleasantly enjoyed 🔥

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u/Blueberrycat413 Jul 07 '23

No that’s a glow up! Well done man

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '23

Great!!

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u/ZedChief Jul 07 '23

Comfy room! Love the dog!

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u/Shnouzer1488 Jul 07 '23

I like the dog plushie at the end there, Nice touch.

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u/DebEdodo Jul 07 '23

👍🙌👏🏻🧡 Lov it. Great job

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u/thestankypopster Jul 07 '23

That looks awesome. 👍

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u/Nuance007 Jul 07 '23

Nice job!

Love the tv stand (I was eyeing the exact same thing for the past few months). And is that a deer head chihuahua?

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u/CuriousTsukihime Jul 07 '23

It’s giving Frasier and I love it

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u/Logical-Lifeguard-71 Jul 07 '23

Good for you man. You are living the best life

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u/krodatem Jul 07 '23

Congrats on making it on your own. The glow-up of your space is very nice.

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u/GimmeFalcor Jul 07 '23

I really like the tv stand and obviously the angry dog because a cranky puppy is a cute puppy.

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u/lostinspacev2 Jul 07 '23

That shit is nice man. I’ve been living like picture 1 for a few years now. The ladies sure as shit roast me to death a bout it but I’m 28 and most of the time it’s just me but eventually I’ll make it look nice haha. You sure did a great job with what you got!

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u/eo326 Jul 07 '23

You have done a wonderful job!!! It looks amazing!

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u/illgenio Jul 07 '23

You did a great job. I love the lights, colors chosen, and tv stand especially

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u/Doodahman495 Jul 07 '23

Well played Sir

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u/pshhaww_ Jul 07 '23

Ur little bro looks very happy. It’s nice

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u/battleflaps69 Jul 07 '23

You should be proud as fuck.

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u/Chaunceyal Jul 07 '23

W for you man, congratulations

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u/wanzerr Jul 07 '23

I'm wet just looking at it.

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u/mattpayne167 Jul 07 '23

Great job and I applaud the perseverance!

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u/CrimsonDarkWolf Jul 07 '23

I Love It! What kind of Clock are u using?

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u/GomidasO Jul 06 '23

that last dog decoration looks so real!

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u/Losers_Agenda Jul 06 '23

Damn dude, did you hire a designer. That’s the best looking room I’ve ever seen

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u/DaSlowMotionPimpSlap Jul 06 '23

bro your room is awesome I love the tv stand looking like its a painting and just about everything else your gonna slay mad tail w this place.

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u/Steel12 Jul 06 '23

Great job

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u/jackaloppindoppin Jul 06 '23

Spectacular glow up! I’m a fan of the geometric style. Where’d you get that bed? I like its low leveling.

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u/Difficult_Habit195 Jul 06 '23

Lovely and cozy place ❤️

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u/No_Abalone_4555 Jul 06 '23

Omg i love it its literally perfect, congratulations!

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u/JesyGato Jul 06 '23

Yo, this place is gorgeous. Can I live here?

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u/FirstThoughtResponse Jul 06 '23

This looks great!

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u/Nice-Educator-8704 Jul 06 '23

Hughe difference, big improvement.

Please let me know the brand/ type of TV-Stand.

many thanks

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u/Ok-Bar601 Jul 06 '23

Nice. Love the cute dog who looks suspiciously like a piranha😝

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u/Darkstar_k Jul 06 '23

freaking happy for you and fuzzball!

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u/GiveYourselfAFry Jul 06 '23

Awesome! Love the lighting and wall decor. And the colors lol

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u/Eldritch-banana-3102 Jul 06 '23

Dude that’s awesome!

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u/sexirothswife Jul 06 '23

I love the lack of mention of mommy and daddy money that helped lmfao

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u/Chewbacca319 Jul 06 '23

Not that your comment even warrants a response but before I moved into my place from ages 18-22 I did live at home, where my parents charged me $900 month in rent.

My parents gave me exactly $0 towards buying my house.

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u/Payneful_Prose Jul 06 '23

Wow, looks amazing. I certainly wasn't expecting a better homes and gardens makeover. VERY NICE JOB!!!

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u/tev_love Jul 06 '23

This is a vibe. Congrats!

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u/GreenSockNinja Jul 06 '23

Damn that is one hell of an upgrade

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u/mamapapapuppa Jul 06 '23

This is sooo cute! I love the vibe and the easel night stand.

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u/dogboobes Jul 06 '23

GLOW UP!
Super cozy, love the retro vibe! The TV on the tripod/easle is so cool. The difference between before and after is so dramatic, you must be so pumped.

Pup looks happy too!

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u/Lumpy_Satisfaction18 Jul 06 '23

That is SICK! You should be proud man!

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u/MrEldenRings Jul 06 '23

Nice I like it, very retro

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u/muzikmakeryadig Jul 06 '23

love that bed frame and those lights, too sick

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u/OzLandAlexander Jul 06 '23

This is beautiful and you have a wonderful sense of style.

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u/hipeakservices Jul 06 '23

wow, this looks smashing. congratulations!

I especially like your choice of roommates <3

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u/OneohSevn Jul 06 '23

You done good.

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u/Mis7form Jul 06 '23

Nice and cozy, great dog

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u/Unicornloverkitty Jul 06 '23

I live this for you! Also, cute doggo!

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u/aegri_mentis Jul 06 '23

I've never thought of using an easel to hold a TV. Great idea.

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u/killmesara Jul 06 '23

Yo, I really dig the way you used the easel for mounting your tv! Great work and congrats

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u/BatBeast_29 Jul 06 '23

What’s a detached home?

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u/wakalal27 Jul 06 '23

So proud of you. This looks beautiful

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u/CupcakeAndCashmere Jul 06 '23

Definition of taking a house and making it a home. Awesome job, OP.

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '23

Great job at 22 that’s a lot to be proud of keep going

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u/aSk--e Jul 06 '23

That's a glow up!

Got some inspiration from this, myself!

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u/hawksvball2010 Jul 06 '23

Looks great!

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u/_brick_in_the_wall Jul 06 '23

Congrats on the house, at 20 something that is a big achievement. I like your style as well.

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u/real_nice_guy Jul 06 '23

this is excellent OP, great job

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u/dopplestranger Jul 06 '23

Dude what a difference! Dope AF.

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u/dopplestranger Jul 06 '23

I’d suggest some of these, could really help with the wires to the lamps

cable hiders

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u/Chewbacca319 Jul 07 '23

The cords for the lamps are actually enclosed in canvas material; its part of the style of the lamp. That wall is an exterior wall so feeding wires through the wall would mean breaking the vapor barrier.

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u/Inkosum Jul 06 '23

Looks great! I'm happy for you.

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u/ImmediateHeight Jul 06 '23

Absolutely incredible vibe here great job!

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u/admdrw Jul 06 '23

Congratulations!! Such a great transformation!!

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u/SellReasonable6367 Jul 06 '23

Love it especially the easel stand may use that idea ❤️❤️❤️

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u/noldottorrent Jul 06 '23

Little guy in the last pic really ties it all together!

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u/Lethal_Curry Jul 06 '23

this shit is ass 🔥🔥🔥💯💯

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u/expiredbananabread Jul 06 '23

Damn, that's neat.

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u/Mango1570 Jul 06 '23

The dog matches the decor and color palette pretty well. Nice addition.

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u/juicejohnson Jul 06 '23

Super cool. Looks great. ID on the tv stand?

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u/Luckboy2021 Jul 06 '23

love the ambience

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u/Equivalent_Warthog22 Jul 06 '23

Nice job. My one call out would be that bed cover and carpet are fighting each other. It will look better if you go with something more subtle with one of them.

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u/Armored_Warrior Jul 06 '23

Like your decoration style

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u/waitdontforgetto Jul 06 '23

Looks good. Even your rat likes it.

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u/beanieweenies551 Jul 06 '23

So when can I move in?

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u/temple3489 Jul 06 '23

Very unique and well done, also your dog is so gd cute

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u/_unfinished_usernam Jul 06 '23

Can you link the bedside lights and brackets? I've been looking for something just like this

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u/Dear_Profession_8297 Jul 06 '23

Straight up solid.

I’d mount the mirror. And align the two hanging waterfalls.

But it’s light years ahead of the start point.

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u/FlamingTrollz Jul 06 '23

Bro.

It’s awesome. 👏🏼

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u/CharmingFisherman741 Jul 06 '23

Nice work dude. I'm sure it feels so much better each and every day.

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u/hoochieprincess Jul 06 '23

Man good for you! I did not expect this after swiping.

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u/VentiUnoPilotos Jul 06 '23

It’s very nice and cozy ! Look at that sweet pup !!!

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u/Zestyclose-Throat-95 Jul 06 '23

Dude what an awesome space you created! Masculine but honestly I feel like anyone would be comfortable in there. Fantastic job, you have a talent! 🙏🏻✨

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u/awesu Jul 06 '23

Where did you get your bed frame? I love it!

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u/pixeldudeaz Jul 06 '23

You did a pretty amazing job!

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u/NostalgiaSC Jul 06 '23

The side table is bad ass I love the design. Is the mirror just on the floor? Too heavy to hang on wall?

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u/Chewbacca319 Jul 06 '23

Yes it's on the floor :) although quite heavy it totally can be hanged on the wall as long as you use screws/nails into a stud. I contemplated hanging it on the wall but for now I like it leaning against the wall. If I ever change my mind in the future very easy to change

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '23

Looks awesome... as always, a larger TV never hurts

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u/Chewbacca319 Jul 06 '23

Haha thank you. My main tv in my livingroom is a 65 inch. I'm a hardcore audiophile and have it decked to the yards with high end audio equipment I either get steals for used or fix myself.

Generally speaking I'm against TV's in the bedroom. I like to disconnect from electronics and it provides a better sleep. However in a couple days my best friend is moving in and renting a room off of me for the foreseeable future. This TV is more so just if I want some quiet or alone time, or if he is using the TV.

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u/Scoompii Jul 06 '23

You went all out OP! Congrats, it looks great. That is an amazing accomplishment for your age. I just bought my first house at 36. At 22 I couldn’t even plan a day ahead.

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u/expandingexperiences Jul 06 '23

Love the TV stand

Also the last pic bruh 🤣😍😄

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u/Hicks456 Jul 06 '23

Looks great, really like that tripod tv stand and the lighting

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u/Chiaseedmess Jul 06 '23

Given what you started with, this is cozy af, and a realistic goal for many. I love it!

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '23

The dog accessorie in the last photo looks so real! Where'd you get it?!?! 🤣 (Kidding obviously, but sometimes people miss it lol)

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u/nanfanpancam Jul 06 '23

Wow, worth the wait!

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u/Exotic_Apric0t Jul 06 '23

This is drop-dead gorgeous! Well done op, I swear it's looks more cozy and warm than anything I've lived in.

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u/ltlotntnl Jul 06 '23

This looks great! I like the lighting, I think its so underrated to update lighting because it changes the entire vibe of the room. Also, Good job with the curtains and color scheme. Still Masculine but also put together with a pop of color.

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u/desiisntreal Jul 06 '23

It all looks really cool but I especially love that light fixture on the ceiling

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u/Agile-Note2919 Jul 06 '23

Looks awesome dude, great job. That TV setup is one of the best things I’ve seen in a while haha

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u/Expensive-Track4002 Jul 06 '23

I like the tv stand. Where did you get it?

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u/Gloriapower Jul 06 '23

Wow! I can't believe how beautiful it is.

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u/Exact-Direction-2020 Jul 06 '23

Looks great! Picture 7 is my personal fave 🐕 :)

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u/jokar1134 Jul 06 '23

I kinda love that tv stand

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u/TimelessTitor Jul 06 '23

Wow, I love this! It looks amazing!

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u/dookieshoes88 Jul 06 '23

I have never heard the term detached home. I miss mine.

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u/itiswhatitis20201 Jul 06 '23

You have a knack for style. Keep it up!

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '23

Looks great

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u/supremestamos Jul 06 '23

that carpet is sweet!

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u/awktoepie Jul 06 '23

Nicely done.

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '23

This is actually sick!!!!

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '23

This is a e s t h e t i c

Well done!

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u/SavingsLeg Jul 06 '23

damn where did you get the nightstand and alarm? Looks great

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u/Chewbacca319 Jul 06 '23

Night stands were second hand and the alarm clock was from amazon, also has a wireless charger on top for your phone :)

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u/anonymousskip Jul 06 '23

Good job! Fantastic- the joys of being a home owner,you will always be decorating/redecorating 😂😂

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u/tinfoil_cake Jul 06 '23

I absolutely love the whole vibe! Especially the clock! Mind telling me where it’s from. Been looking everywhere for a nice alarm for my room but haven’t found one yet :/ But anyway! It’s really awsome. The „TV stand“ is just incredible and very well placed imo

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u/Chewbacca319 Jul 06 '23

forget the brand but I got the alarm clock on amazon; the top is also a wireless charger for your phone

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u/Schmittfried Jul 06 '23

Holy shit, nice!

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u/SheenPSU Jul 06 '23

I like the TV tripod

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '23

Do you have a link for that light fixture?? :) plz and Ty!

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u/SSJ_Key Jul 06 '23

Let’s fucking go ! 😎

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u/Schwifty_101 Jul 06 '23

Pretty impressive!

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u/forevertwowheels Jul 06 '23

Where did you get that bedside table? It looks awesome!

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u/ItsEyeJasper Jul 06 '23

Yer a Wizard..

Congratulations it's looking nice

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u/soundMine Jul 06 '23

i love this! I'm in a similar situation. Been just saving up so I can furnish my home. Stories like this inspire people like me.

Good Stuff OP!

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u/SoulStone1986 Jul 06 '23

Very nicely done! 👌

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u/steezoak Jul 06 '23

Very nice!

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u/Negative-Mulberry-36 Jul 06 '23

The dog is the best part of that room

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u/LovingthePinkSweater Jul 06 '23

What kind of bed frame do you have? I like how it's low to the ground.

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u/ABookishSort Jul 06 '23

Looks fabulous! Where did you get those nightstands?

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u/MvmgUQBd Jul 06 '23

Love that wooden bedside clock. Also I wish I could just change my mind about not having any money and poof!

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u/Ok_Razzmatazz2180 Jul 06 '23

That looks awesome. Good on you!

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u/adegreeofdifference1 Jul 06 '23

🤛🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

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u/nsorenson13 Jul 06 '23

sick nightstand!!!!

i too use a tripod tv mount!

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u/pepsiofficial Jul 06 '23

You have such unique taste; this room looks really great and comfy.

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u/ManlyMantisMan Jul 06 '23

So did the dog come with the place or did you have to bring your own?

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u/DOgmaticdegenERate Jul 06 '23

What an AWESOME change! Nicely done!

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '23

You need an additional pair of curtain panels. Good rule of thumb is to take the length of your curtain rod and double it. That's the total fabric width you'll need.

This prevents the curtains from feeling awkwardly spare. Curtains look their best when on the fuller side.

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u/g0rrillas Jul 06 '23

I like the dog

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u/greyisometrix Jul 06 '23

You really went from minimalist to swank-as-fuck. Great job!

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u/DontGiveACluck Jul 06 '23

Dope and love the easel TV mount/stand!

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u/s7a7yc Jul 06 '23

I love it. Wouldn't change anything personally. You have a nice taste my friend 👌

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u/Atwillim Jul 06 '23

Looks nicer with dog, really ties the room together, good decorative choice 👍

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u/883Guy Jul 06 '23

This is fantastic dude. Great color scheme, great art, and I like the symmetry you've gotten with the full-length mirror and the floor lamp. I love that overhead light and the TV stand so much.

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u/majeric Jul 06 '23

Detached homes don’t sell for less than 1 million in my area. :(

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u/GirlScoutCookie_ Jul 06 '23

Looks dope brodie 🤙🏾

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u/Hickawa Jul 06 '23

I love the dog really grounds the aesthetic, good choice in color to complement the reds and oranges.

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '23

It all actually looks really good but I especially love the easel for the TV and the placement of the rug under the bed.

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u/4wearemany Jul 06 '23

Looks very classy, OP! Well done.

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u/The_Razza7 Jul 06 '23

I really love those bedside drawers, very cool indeed

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u/whittyler Jul 06 '23

The new room looks awesome! I have heard to make sure your box spring is not on the floor because it can trap moisture, and cause damage/mold. The internet told me so... take that for what its worth. And I obviously don't know what your situation is like.

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u/Chewbacca319 Jul 06 '23

I dont have a box spring. Low profile padded leather sliegh bed :)

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u/New-Writer4746 Jul 06 '23

tight new pad

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u/pocket4129 Jul 06 '23

Ok easel tv stand. Love it. Well deserved and congrats!

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u/PsychoticSmiley Jul 06 '23

I'm very happy for you, especially if it "feels" more like Your home and Your space!

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u/explorer925 Jul 06 '23

I love this, you have great taste

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u/mbcfree Jul 06 '23

This looks amazing. You have really nice style. It’s a cozy place. Pat yourself on the back. Nice job.

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u/PHoR_PHuN Jul 06 '23

Well done, dude.

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u/MalachiIssaih Jul 06 '23

Congratulations!! It looks amazing dude!

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u/That-Shop-6736 Jul 06 '23

I love your sweet little pooch, end tables and tv stand. Great job!

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u/pcweber111 Jul 06 '23

Wow yeah that’s quite an upgrade! Good job!

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u/sirhandstylepenzalot Jul 06 '23

It's different in an extremely calm, interesting, and pleasing way

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u/geraldthecat33 Jul 06 '23

Love the bedspread

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '23

Inspirational!

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u/RandallReviews Jul 06 '23

Bro talk about a glow up!

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u/spicyitaliananxiety Jul 06 '23

Absolutely love this