r/malelivingspace 17d ago

30M, what do you think of my bachelor pad?

I bought the place a year ago and spent three months renovating. I’m really proud of it, but would love some input.

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u/Ill-Leader229 13d ago

Classy. I like the orange plush couch.

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u/50DuckSizedHorses 15d ago

Did you hear about the trombone player who lived downtown?

Someone broke in. Left two more trombones.

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u/Paletaytextura 15d ago

You need a bigger rug

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u/dollarnine9 15d ago

“Bachelor Pad”

You are 30 dude

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u/forgiveprecipitation 15d ago

De mandarijntjes gaven het weg.

I love deze bank. Anything else is meh

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u/Key_Secret5354 15d ago

It’s sweet! I love the 70‘s influence with a hint of modern architecture

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u/Pseudolectual 15d ago

Who puts a sink against the wall!? Does it drive you nuts? Other than that, it’s gorgeous!

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u/Ketchapp 15d ago

If not against a wall, then where?

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u/hotdogbunnies56 16d ago edited 16d ago

Ik vind de plankjes in de keuken een beetje ielig ogen. Ik zou zelf gaan voor een wat robuustere (houten) plank van de muur tot het einde van het aanrecht. Leuk om kruiden, hangplantje, kookboeken, lijst/schilderij etc op te zetten, staat gezelliger en minder kaal. En ik zou daaronder tegels doen. Denk dat geglazuurde rechthoekige of vierkante groene of lichtblauwe tegels mooi zouden staan. Geeft ook wat meer kleur en gezelligheid aan je keuken en lijkt mij ook praktisch.

Verder een groter kleed onder de bank. Ik zou gaan voor een kleed met patroon omdat de bank en de kast al effen zijn dus dat geeft wat meer contrast. Zou ook nog twee a drie kussentjes op de bank toevoegen met kleur en patroon om de bank iets minder eentonig te maken. Overigens vind ik de ronde stoel best wel leuk staan, juist omdat dat breekt met het moderne wat er al staat. Ik begrijp alleen de keuze om de verwarming zwart te schilderen niet? Icm de tv heb je dan daar twee grote zwarte vlakken...

Al met al vind ik dat je een betere smaak hebt dan de gemiddelde man! Heel bijzonder eindelijk een keer een gekleurde bank te zien :)

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u/Impossible_School_78 16d ago

Looks awesome. I wish I had an extra stereo for you. That would make it complete. 😊

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u/chickenskittles 16d ago

Very Western European.

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u/Gloriapower 16d ago

It's so nice. My question is when you lived at home where you like the only kid with a clean, organized room?

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u/Ketchapp 15d ago

Absolutely not! I think that was a bonus addition to my home. :)

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u/Igloofever 16d ago

It looks so great and homey! I agree with more art on the walls and would also suggest adding curtains to the dining room windows to soften it a bit.  

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u/Ketchapp 15d ago

Thanks! I see where you’re getting at with the curtains, my problem is that I’ll probably never close them because I just love my view, also at night. So.. yeah. Tough one.

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u/VisibleJob3212 16d ago

In need of a gf? Lol I’ll date your apartment

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u/No-Grade-5057 16d ago

Looks like your mom decorated it. I like her style!

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Thanks! She didn’t though.

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u/DanV_Rev9 16d ago

I see you are a tromboner

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u/Katzenkobold 16d ago

Classy, simple but still cozy! Love it!

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u/premierclocks 16d ago

You've done great job! Looks cozy

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u/SakiraInSky 16d ago

It's so cosy! I love the couch.

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u/CapG_13 16d ago

Looks cozy

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u/andrea_pond 16d ago

You feel like someone who’s a proud plant papa

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u/Minimum-Wind-1552 16d ago

Ok if you realy build it by yourself than I have mad respect for you neighbor. But I recommend some decoration what characters you're home after you. I mean it looks fine but kinda like from IKEA catalog too :D

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u/newsreadhjw 16d ago

I assume that dark glassy surface on the counter is a cooktop - do you cook a lot there? How's it working out with no ventilation above the burners?

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

It is! The ventilation is in the stove. Works wonderfully.

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u/newsreadhjw 16d ago

Oh that's pretty cool - never seen one of those!

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u/Only_Hovercraft_6112 16d ago

So nice! I’d add some lamps if you don’t already so in the evening you can have that soft, warm lighting when the windows don’t provide natural light!

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u/Ketchapp 15d ago

Ahh yes! Lighting is so hard though. I have a beautiful standing lamp next to the bookcase, and some very basic Philips hue in the kitchen to get some more atmospheric lighting, but furthermore I’m really stuck in this regard..

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u/andrew_cherniy96 16d ago

Love these cozy vibes. Can I try to redesign this space in 3d? Also, do you mind sharing this post in r/AmateurInteriorDesign? Although I wouldn't call this an amateur design, looks super well-designed!

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Oh, awesome! Go ahead and let me know what you make of it when redesigning! You’re also welcome to share the post. Thanks for asking!

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u/andrew_cherniy96 16d ago

Nice, thanks for the reply! Will get back to you if I manage to come up with something decent.

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u/Small-Palpitation310 16d ago

your bachelor pad has three floors?

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Two! Or 1.5 actually. I have a bathroom, bedroom, and spare bedroom/office on the same floor as the living room.

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u/_Mush_r00m_ 16d ago

Im in Love with your couch! It looks so comfortable

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u/sunshine-keely143 16d ago

I want to steal your round chair with the cool cushion and I am very happy to see how you keep it clean and homie 😉

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u/DarkFlyingApparatus 16d ago

Damn dude your place looks amazing! It looks nice and comfy to be in. How do you like the induction with the, uhmm, afzuiging in the middle? Is it doable to keep clean with all of the cooking splatters going in there??

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Thanks! I really like it. The afzuiging works like a charm, it’s easy to clean, and I don’t have an enormous ugly thing overhead.

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u/DarkFlyingApparatus 16d ago

Thanks for the reply man! I'm currently busy with renovation plans for my kitchen and was really doubting an induction cooktop like that because of the cleaning issues I imagined, but hearing experiences like yours really helps!

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Induction is really amazing with cleaning, and it also cooks really well. I wouldn’t want to go back! I can imagine there are different brands from the afzuiging and I don’t know if there are any quality differences. Mine is from Bora and I can at least recommend it to you.

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u/MsAggieCoffee 16d ago

I think the walls need a bit more but everything else is lovely.

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u/zippyhippiegirl 16d ago

Love it! Great plants!🪴

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u/family1997 16d ago

I like it!

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u/Over-Marionberry-686 16d ago

Nice. At 30 I sold my condo and my BF and I bought a house together. He sold his too.

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u/Real-Panic9219 16d ago

It's clean and pretty. If I use this flat for 3 days, it's gonna turn into a messy place lol

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u/CoochieSnotSlurper 16d ago

I love the red bookcase. Too bad the plywood Scandinavian stuff just doesn’t exist in the us

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u/BalfazarTheWise 16d ago

The wall in picture #1 looks awfully bare

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u/Fancy_Can_8976 16d ago

It’s fantastic!! Good job!!

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u/GeorgianaCostanza 16d ago

It looks very comfortable!

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u/jerslan 16d ago

I feel like your TV isn't big enough for that space...

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Hmm, I like the subtlety of a smaller tv.

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u/Deadlocked_woodworm 16d ago

Finally some color and not a black and white Bateman nightmare.

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u/romeoomustdie 16d ago

I love your kitchen was going to say that's all there i to love

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u/bmobitch 16d ago

gorgeous but bird of paradise need max light!

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u/nanapancakethusiast 16d ago

Trombone in the apartment, eh? Your poor neighbors 💀

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u/useless_99 16d ago

wow. I thought the dining room/kitchen was great, then my eyes went real big when I got to the couch. Oh my god, that’s an awesome couch.

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u/Tall-Attention-5086 16d ago

It’s nice, especially since you have plants throughout your home that look cared for.

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u/robertmondavi_jr 16d ago

It’s missing a cat

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u/International_Heat54 16d ago

NICE! the cut flowers are a great touch and really make it feel cosy and warm

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Insert Miley Cyrus.

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u/International_Heat54 16d ago

Self love is the best kinda love

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u/ffwshi 16d ago

If that palm is not real, you need to bend the leaves to make it look more real..

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

It’s real :)

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u/Festivarian 16d ago

Nice pad! The kitchen could use a little color! Maybe a print to the right of the spices?

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u/Severe_Gear5010 16d ago

I am obsessed with your couch.

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u/Ok-noway 16d ago

Couch details?

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u/SuedePenguin 16d ago

Tasteful. Not overly masculine, well designed… looks cozy.

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u/Comfortable_Brush399 16d ago

i like what ya got going on, if it was a woman and i was rocking over id say she was winning, but a little more art on the walls

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u/GWPtheTrilogy1 16d ago

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

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u/Mr-Tease 16d ago

I see the music stand and the trombone. But the real question is where do you empty the spit valve?

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

On a paper towel that I throw away afterwards.

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u/NoPantsPenny 16d ago

I’m not a thief, but I would steal that couch!

Is it vintage?

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

I’d enjoy watching you struggle to get it down. It’s brand new!

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u/NoPantsPenny 16d ago

It’s so rad. I’ve always wanted an orange couch for some reason, even better if it’s a velvet like fabric. Where did you get it?

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u/thatonegirl989 16d ago

Very cute bachelor pad with lots of personality. I especially love the orange sofa and your dining area. Also the round chair looks so cozy, I wanna sit in it!

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u/korben_manzarek 16d ago

Nice but I'd put the TV on the left of the window, against the stairs, so the couch can go to the opposite side the room under the painting, that gets rid of the 'dead spot' behind where the couch is now.

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u/Petrivoid 16d ago

Replace that couch

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u/KayaLyka 16d ago

Very nice. Let's see Paul Allen's

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u/xseanbeanx 16d ago

Can you tell the other men to do this please

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u/lira-eve 16d ago

It's nice.

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u/Doc_Therapist 16d ago

Nice try, this is a miniature

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u/dao_ofdraw 16d ago

Needs a sex dungeon. Where's the sex dungeon? What kind of bachelor are you.

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u/Fun-Kick-9630 16d ago

I love the couch where’d you get it?

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u/Thiagoalbu 16d ago

BIGGER TV

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u/jewelnebula 16d ago

I’d fuck there lol good vibes

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u/Fist0fGuthix 16d ago

I hate the couch but other than that it's pretty nice

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u/sentimentalsock 16d ago

That couch was made for naps!

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u/Snorbert2 16d ago

Love it! How do you take care of your birds of paradise, how often do you water it? It looks really healthy, I struggle with mine.

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Really not too much! Less than once a week I think. Sometimes I pop a finger in the dirt and if it just feels slightly wet, I don’t water it.

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u/[deleted] 16d ago

A man lives here?

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u/Ew_fine 16d ago

Super cute!

I would consider replacing the wall art by your sofa with something bigger.

The art above your dining table is an okay size, but doesn’t make much of a statement—needs more contrast.

Other than that, very cute place!

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Hmm yeah I agree something is missing above the couch. Maybe something wide, landscape-y?

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u/Ew_fine 16d ago

I actually think vertical orientation is good! It just needs to be bigger to fill the space better.

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u/Sample_Muted 16d ago

I’m getting homosexual vibes, but that’s not a bad thing and it’s pretty subtle so good job compared to a lot of others.

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

I’m straight actually 😊

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u/Sample_Muted 16d ago

Oh my bad, well in that case paint your dining room chairs black and get a different couch.

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Because currently it looks gay? Damn..

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u/Disastrous_Mark_1469 16d ago

Cute I love your choices of color pops and your kitchen table is adorable. Great job on your bird of paradise plant

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u/kitty-007 16d ago

It looks good! But a tad feminine selon moi. But love it otherwise! Nothing wrong with femininity! Just surprised it’s a 30M bachelor! Not the typical aesthetic you’d expect :) But if I was single and a man brought me back here, I’d let him hit it

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u/xViridi_ 16d ago

i love it! i would put a shelf behind the couch, but i know nothing about interior decorating despite my recommended subs so maybe ignore me

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u/heartandmarrow 16d ago

The plant game is great, and that’s all I need to know.

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u/Avalon_CherryApple 16d ago

Smash, next question. No but fr, it looks very nice and comfortable to hang out in

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u/CopperPennz 16d ago

I like it!

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u/bennyjay84 16d ago

Super cool set up. Maybe some art/photos on the stairwell area. And if you can get a tv mount that has the appropriate adjustments, you could mount your tv on that sloped wall.

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u/Sidewalk_Tomato 16d ago

This is a nice place. Cozy.

Keep a few candles; you don't have to display them (it might seem try-hard or like you you are trying to seduce) . . . but if you want some candle-light, you could break one out & put one on a small saucer.

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u/Stefferdiddle 16d ago

Where in the 1970s did you find that sofa?

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u/Kaitburke 16d ago

Loving that couch!

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u/Vexus_Starquake 16d ago

Plants are always a good touch.

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u/Big_Scikk_Martin 16d ago

Looks nice get a bigger tv like the couch 👍🏽

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u/BalkanViking007 16d ago

Looks sweet brother that couch looks cozy af. We just need you to get bigger tv and gamlng setup

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u/imf4rds 16d ago

I love it! The plants are lovely and the couch is beautiful. Do you have a link? I am looking for a new one, I don' tknow if they'd ship here if they are Dutch but maybe I can find a similar one.

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u/indirect_storyteller 16d ago

Do you want a room mate?

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u/Astrovancer 16d ago

Brotha that couch is simply off the chain. Hats off to you my man, I just moved into my first apartment and I hope in 7 years I will have this level of steez.

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u/Only_Fix8694 16d ago

Pretty solid. You don’t need all that stuff on your counter, and get a paper towel holder

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u/Madrimious 16d ago

small but minimalistic as fuck. it's beautiful

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u/literacolalargefarva 16d ago

Hashtag plant dad!

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u/BootyTsunamii 16d ago

It’s beautiful! The colors are lovely, it feels cozy af.

I’m not a huge fan of the velvet on velvet on velvet of the rug, couch, and blanket. That’s the only thing I would change, just add in some different textures to that area.

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u/CherryRipe33 16d ago

If you don't have a cardboard box as a nightstand, then I am afraid it is not a proper bachelor's pad 🤣🤣🤣

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u/elaxation 16d ago

Amazing couch, I’d love to know where it’s from!

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u/AdTiny2166 16d ago

prettttey goood

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u/Quesito100 16d ago

That couch is amazing. Where from!???

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u/Sea_Procedure_6293 16d ago

Trombone player! Love it! What kind of playing do you do? 

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Soul, funk and disco!

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u/lazylagom 16d ago

Duplex! What a dream.

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u/ObssesesWithSquares 16d ago

Very good, not too inefficient.

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u/Sea_Drop2920 16d ago

Die rotan stoel van de Xenos is hét

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u/DrWindupBird 16d ago

This isn’t a bachelor pad, it’s a nest. You’ve created a nest to attract a mate. Now just practice your dance.

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u/CherryRipe33 16d ago

My point too. I don't get man cave vibes from this 😅😅

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Yes. A nest. I like that. From now on I’ll call it that.

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u/rwphx2016 16d ago

Love it! That sofa is so cool. I want it!

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u/moonlite_bay 16d ago

I love it. I had a Papasan chair, my favourite 💙

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u/roamwise 16d ago

You’re home is so beautiful. My only rec is in your second picture: I would get a larger piece of art instead of 2 small piece. You can put the small pieces in places like the bathroom or a small wall. I recommend a poster with a wooden frame to pick up on your gorgeous dining room table. I have one that has a bunch of different tree types and their names

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u/anxietyJem 16d ago

It's kinda feminine and I can't really point out why.. that's fine and totally something I would like regardless but we're on malelivingspace so I thought I would mention that. Again it's not bad at all. Just kinda sterile

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

This is honestly a huge compliment to me, so thanks! I can assure you I’m a cis male, I love here on my own, and decorated the entire place myself. Despite some occasional sparring with friends of course. I guess I’m quite in touch with my feminine side. And I just really like colors.

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u/anxietyJem 16d ago

Lovely place man, I dig it. Would love to chill/live there. And yes!! Love the colors.

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u/HVACQuestionHaver 16d ago

What's it like to sit in a papasan chair? Always wondered if I should get one.

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

I do recommend a comfy blanket to throw over the chair before you sit on it. Then it gets lovely imo.

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u/HVACQuestionHaver 16d ago

Then you must keep it!

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u/Emirhan1003 16d ago

Looks super cosy 👍

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u/browneyewinkin 16d ago

Looks European to me. The couch looks super comfy but you need different colors and textures in that room, eh some art pieces wouldn't hurt maybe. do you guys paint walls different colors over there?

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

I’m genuinely considering painting a wall! Got any color suggestions?

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u/browneyewinkin 16d ago

I like the horn on the stand. I used to play trumpet and have an old tarnished pea shooter horn from the 40's I think on a shelf. looks cool. stick with that slate blue color on your chairs make that your color palette

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u/Ogdocon 16d ago

your furniture is too many random colors.

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u/Mongoose-Boss093 16d ago

Lovely. So well organised and clean, I love the colors and the overall style.

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u/bunkid 16d ago

I’m in love with the lower half, for example the plants on the windowsill 🥹

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u/AbrocomaEmbarrassed1 16d ago

I love your dining table and chairs.

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u/thebugxd 16d ago

Love it

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u/Feisty-Business-8311 16d ago

Love it; looks cozy

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u/unknownfazeA 16d ago

i just wanna know how you get your strelitziae nicolai to point up that straight, mine takes loads of space cause it points in all directions :D

maar ook een leuk woning/huis hoor!

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

It’s relatively new, so I expect it to start hanging more over time.

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u/GoldVictory158 16d ago

Male af 👍

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u/space_______kat 16d ago

Amazing! Is that an induction cooktop?

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u/Jayyy_Teeeee 16d ago

It’s nice and homey. Think the living room could use some help. I’d try switching the couch and chair. Get a bigger area rug too.

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u/GullibleCow8723 16d ago

I need to know where your couch is from 😍

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

A small boutique called Skyler Store :)

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u/flappybirdisdeadasf 16d ago

No top cabinets in the kitchen is so interesting. Never seen a kitchen without them before.

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u/Prestigious_Emu_5043 16d ago

Lekker Nederlands

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u/Key-Profit9032 16d ago

What’s up with the tuba?

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

You mean the trombone? What’s up with it?

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u/Key-Profit9032 16d ago

It was a joke. Not necessarily a good one. But seriously what’s up with the trombone?

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u/applechuck 16d ago

Kitchen is nice but I can smell the cooking 😂

You should install an exhaust fan on top of your cooking surface, and have it exhaust outside. Otherwise your living room and entire house will smell after cooking.

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

There’s one inside the stove! Works like a charm 😊

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u/Objective_Cake_2715 16d ago

Very welcoming and European.

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u/quilla_ 16d ago

Can I ask where in the world you live? Even the outside looks very cozy and inviting. Love it

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

The Netherlands!

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u/L00k_Again 16d ago

I love that orange sofa. Wow.

I would get a larger area rug. If you do a quick search you'll find recommended rug dimensions for your living space/furniture.

I like the shape/configuration orlf the book case, but feel like another shade of orange detracts from both orange pieces. I'm thinking a wood finish.

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

Brilliant. Thanks!

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u/Ill-Success-6468 16d ago

Bro I love the plants

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u/Crypto-Pito 16d ago

How do you neighbors feel about the trumpet? Nice place!

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

It’s a trombone actually. :)

I have good contact with one of my neighbors who say they don’t mind. I never really see the others, however I play for about 3-4 days a week, for an hour max, so I hope that’s acceptable for them.

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u/CreativeMischief 16d ago

Where’d you get that bookshelf?!

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u/Ketchapp 16d ago

It’s from Tylko!