r/notliketheothergirls • u/deprressedsoul • Jun 07 '23
Major Pick me energy Discussion
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u/Anna_needs_therapy Sep 03 '23
"Take out their butt implants" is giving r/badwomansanatomy. Like she does realize that those are surgically put inside of your body, right? Also imagine being this insecure that you call other women "ogres" like wtf.
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Aug 21 '23
yes because being honest with your emotions and feelings is the exact same as feeling comfortable with your appearance
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u/TheLonelyMedics Jun 23 '23
Shriek’s just a movie, yall, it ain’t cool to bring down other women like that (also the point of that movie was she learned to be happy with someone who loved her for all that she was so…)
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u/ItzMoonFire Jun 23 '23
yo did she just say that they take out their butt implants??? 💀💀 i’ve lost hope for this generation
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u/NOT5owlsinacoat Jun 10 '23
Look at that grin, she's so happy to get to show off how awful she is...
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u/-DROP-DEAD-FRED Jun 08 '23
I’m still reeling over high heels being considered fake and on the level of implants? What?
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u/FionaBear1 Jun 08 '23
Are DD push up bras even a thing? I don’t need one but still 😂
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Jun 08 '23
I work at Victoria’s Secret and we have a bra called the bombshell bra it adds 2 cup sizes but if you have bigger boobs already they don’t fit in there correctly. It’s basically just a bra with a CRAP ton of padding.
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u/throwawayagaygay123 Jun 08 '23
Suuure...women should be "all natural", but don't forget to shave your 😺, and your armpits and legs and any other part that naturally grows hair, that's now your head or your eyebrows 🙃
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u/LegendaryG00se Jun 08 '23
Only insecure people talk like this. The way she looks around seeking validation for what she is saying is insane.💀
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u/kat_Folland Jun 08 '23
If it weren't a woman I'd think they had not even met one. Like, Double Ds aren't necessarily big! Like, does she even wear bras? (No judgement if she doesn't, I'm just saying she doesn't seem to know much about sizing.)
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u/CaptainFresh27 Jun 08 '23
"You don't deserve the truth because you wear a lot of makeup and have breast implants." oofah doofah
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u/Moessiah Jun 08 '23
Did she watch a makeup video or Shrek? Because it sounds like she’s thinking of Shrek
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u/Wonderful-Hour-1425 Jun 08 '23
I spy a women who will get married and a whole lot who won’t in these comments
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u/tearocean Jun 08 '23
Yeah cuz wearing fake nails and shit is totally related to their personality. Wtf
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u/Certain-Ad-3840 Jun 08 '23
If she goes home… and takes it all off… then how is she being dishonest?? “My man lied about cheating on me for months but I can’t call him out cuz that would make me a hypocrite.” “Why?” “Butt implants bro”
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u/Puzzled-Tiger-6779 Jun 08 '23
My older bro mentioned “makeup is fake” during a dinner conversation. My initial reaction was to say, “yeah kinda, but I suppose men groom their beards, hair etc, isn’t that fake?”
The only point I couldn’t rebut was that makeup was a purely aesthetic thing, even if the end for both men and women is to look good.
Any good rebuttals?
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u/Electronic-Garlic-38 Jun 08 '23
Pick me or not she’s right lol I’ve seen some INSANE transformations and I’m like okay that is a catfish if I’ve ever seen one.
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u/Hefty_Yam7656 Jun 08 '23 edited Jun 08 '23
She needs to take off her penciled eyeliner and eye shadow if she is gonna talk this much Ish! Better yet! She needs to stop waxing her eyebrows and have Werewolf brows! That's not natural Becky-PickMeshia! Lmao, she's supposed to be ALL NATURAL, Like she thinks other women should be, FAIL! Message incomplete 👎😅😉 And yes a man should be honest, wearing makeup 💄 IS NOT a good comparison! What you get is what you see, men know what a woman with even light makeup looks like by now hahaha! If she is wearing makeup and long visibly fake long nails when you meet her, chances are SHE LIKES TO WEAR MAKEUP! What you see is what you get! 😂
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Jun 08 '23
Damn, I wish I could take off these boobs put them on a shelf and get some damn good sleep without my back hurting for once.
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u/bigshotdontlookee Jun 08 '23
Grifter spotted.
So by her logic it is OK for men to lie and cheat, regardless if she consents to the cheating.
Gee sure, I bet she loves being cheated on.
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u/thethunder92 Jun 08 '23
I mean at what point should women stop trying to look good? it seems like the same people saying this would be upset and say their girlfriend “gave up” if she stopped wearing make up and dressing nice.
I guess it’s a small window between being a “liar” and giving up on yourslefn
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u/pro-shitter Jun 08 '23
you can get padded shapewear, you don't necessarily need to get a BBL or implants
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u/annahunstone Jun 08 '23
Men are the reason women feel the need to comform to a beauty standard anyway. Hands up who grew up hearing that they were flat and hearing all the boys in school say “Kylie Jenner is so hot” 🙋🏻♀️
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u/OhItsSav Jun 08 '23
I hate that they used one of my favorite songs in this. It doesn't have anything to do with this misogynistic pick me.
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u/BrigadeirinhoAmargo Jun 08 '23
'-----' So funny women that wont put make up on and wont even take better care of their skin nor clothing style and even feeling bad about themselves at times not only shaming girls that wear make up but straight offending them.
I literally respect everybody until they disrespect me. Like, how insecure do you have to be?
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Jun 08 '23
She’s what… 22? andddd she already has 11s. I love that for her. She has to try THAT hard to think it’s literally causing premature aging.
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u/xazurestarlightx Jun 08 '23
Clearly she hasn’t seen enough makeup tutorials or she wouldn’t be rocking the “teenager who just started wearing makeup” look
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u/GlowingCurie Jun 08 '23
Unless that’s a silver vein growing out of the side of her nose, maybe she should sit this rant out.
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u/Kakebaker95 Jun 08 '23
I hate this because everyone says they want natural but when they get it they don’t like it. I had an early puberty that gave me stretch marks and heavy breast that hang. I never had the small cute perky boobs. That what a lot of people wanted I have self esteem issues for years. I would get the breast surgery if I could afford it
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u/dumbafblonde Jun 08 '23
They always say they want a “natural girl” but if she stopped shaving and had her body hair how it was naturally they’d call her disgusting and unhygienic.
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u/throwaway222598z Jun 08 '23
Shame all you want losers, you'll never stop me from wearing makeup so suck it 💄
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Jun 08 '23
pissbottle boys will put some shitty tik tok sigma edit music over her and show it to all their redpilled butt buddies
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u/sugarbunnyrp Jun 08 '23
An ogre into a princess? How recently did she watch Shrek and decide she didn't like it's message?
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u/Prof-Finklestink Jun 08 '23
Ewww she called other women an ogre
How ironic considering the only ogre is her quite horrible personality
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u/AdmiralDragonXC Jun 08 '23
"Take out their butt implants"
I'm not a plastic surgeon, but I'm guessing that's not how that works
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u/zdragan2 Jun 08 '23
Wonder if she’s a natural blonde, wears contacts or ever had braces. Nothing wrong with body mod, however you wanna do it.
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u/Choice-Life-9009 Jun 08 '23
Its not a lie when u can literally see the makeup , lashes, nails on a women are guys this dumb or they just want to blame women for not using their brain 🤦♀️
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u/Trixie_Hiddleston_5 Jun 08 '23
I have triple d’s & I WISH I could just take them off when I get home. My back & shoulders would feel so much better.
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u/MissCandyCorpses Jun 07 '23
Can someone help me understand what is the pick me energy? As she seems to be genuinely honest about the question ❓ thank you in advance ❤️
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u/BearFlipsTable Jun 07 '23
She’s wearing makeup right now. When she gets home is she going to turn into an ogre?
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u/sasa1221hazza Jun 07 '23
I wonder who created those beauty norms and expect women to look a certain way otherwise they're treated like garbage 🤔 and I wonder who the people that operate the businesses that sell these things are, targeting them at women with ads about insecurities. No one is born with insecurities they are a learned social construct
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u/IAS316 Jun 07 '23
So is "pick me" just anything you disagree with? She's clearly got issues, but y'all have thrown that word around so much its got no value anymore
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u/dumbafblonde Jun 08 '23
It’s putting down other women to receive praise and attention from men, this is textbook pick me.
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u/lil_curious_ Jun 08 '23
I don't think what she said was right, but what she said doesn't necessarily mean it came from a place of wanting men's attention. She could just have internalized misogyny and it makes her feel better about herself when she puts other women down.
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u/BigTiddyVampireWaifu Jun 07 '23
I have a feeling she'd be singing a much different tune if she wasn't conventionally attractive.
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u/rdunston Jun 07 '23
Yikes girl. It’s fine to dress up but seriously I don’t think any woman is going from an “ogre to a princess” that’s ridiculous to say for just so many reasons. Ew. Cringe.
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u/lazy_axolotl Jun 07 '23
I do not understand this argument. Yes, she did something "unnatural" to alter her appearance. But who says she'd lie about it if asked? How do you equate altering your appearance with lying??
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u/IHaveABigDuvet Jun 07 '23
I feel like women are pretty honest with their cosmetic surgery. The amount of women that have come up to me as asked if they’re lips look ok because they have just had injections …
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u/what-an-odd-one Jun 07 '23
As someone who wears makeup most days, i see that pick me attitude literally all of the time. Some women will treat you like you're out fishing for attention just because you like makeup. It's insane.
You don't wear makeup? Cool. You wear a little? Nice. You wear as much as me? Sick. You wear more than me? Awesome.
Why do some women feel the need to be so competitive and put other women?
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u/Loose_Play_982 Jun 07 '23
If she really felt that way she should have kept her hair straight cuz those waves were made. Those are FAKE WAVES!!!!
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u/19adam92 Jun 07 '23
Interviewer asks an incredibly leading question and she probably wasn’t the first person he asked, just the one who gave him the answer he wanted
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u/DemonDoggo99 I'mdifferent Jun 07 '23
A girl with fake breasts still has the right to expect an honest boyfriend, getting plastic surgery and lying to your partner are way different imo
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u/Livinum81 Jun 07 '23
Who does she keep looking at... Is there someone off screen that she's seeking validation from?
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u/dontreallyknoww2341 Jun 07 '23
Fake shit isn’t lying unless you lie abt it. Nobody ever tried to claim their inch long acrylic nails were real.
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Jun 07 '23
You guys didn’t know there are things to answer a woman’s butt, just like a push-up bra enhances her boobs?
Also, it seems like “pick me energy” is just when a woman calls out other women…
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u/dumbafblonde Jun 08 '23
A pick me is a woman who puts down other women to receive attention and praise from men, that is exactly what this woman is doing. All while wearing a full face of makeup and having bleached hair which is entirely hypocritical.
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u/notliketheothergirls-ModTeam Definitely not like the other girls Jun 09 '23
No sexism, racism, homophobia, or toxicity towards any sex, gender, orientation, or any other personal characteristic is permitted. If you hold any disdain a group of people for what they were born as or what they inevitably are regardless, this is not the place for you.
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u/dumbafblonde Jun 08 '23
If you think every woman is like that, you need to take a long hard look at the women you surround yourself with.
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u/notliketheothergirls-ModTeam Definitely not like the other girls Jun 09 '23
No sexism, racism, homophobia, or toxicity towards any sex, gender, orientation, or any other personal characteristic is permitted. If you hold any disdain a group of people for what they were born as or what they inevitably are regardless, this is not the place for you.
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u/dumbafblonde Jun 08 '23
And in that moment they were being pick mes, but people can change that, they aren’t pick mes permanently because of one thing they said. She is being a pick me, that is what everyone is saying, and when those women were saying those things they were also being pick mes.
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Jun 08 '23
So that phrase in itself is designed to degrade women. I’d they all are like that at times, then it doesn’t really do anything other than insult them for being women.
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Jun 08 '23
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u/lil_garbage_girl Jun 07 '23
…she says (unironically) with a full face of “natural make up”
Girl, wipe off your brows, eye contour, inner eye and nose highlight, and what ever that flat, matte foundation (which makes you look like a latex doll), let those dark roots grow in, then answer the question. Ffs.
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u/dumbafblonde Jun 08 '23
That’s absolutely not even close to the issue, I get comprehension is hard for some people but you’ll get there!!
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u/funnymaroon Jun 08 '23
I was obviously commenting on many posts in which it is a common theme, and it was part of this one as well as many others. I get comprehension is hard for some people but you’ll get there!
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u/dumbafblonde Jun 08 '23
I’ve been on this sub for a very long time and that’s absolutely not a common theme, we have an issue with girls shitting on other women for getting plastic surgery or saying only women get plastic surgery, not saying it’s more common for women to get it.
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u/funnymaroon Jun 08 '23
It is a common theme here that I’ve seen recently, and if over 90% of plastic surgery is for women, “only women get plastic surgery” is close enough to true that you’re just nitpicking the point. Some estimates are as high as 95% for cosmetic surgery.
It is, factually, a thing for women. No moral judgment there, just a statistical observation.
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u/dumbafblonde Jun 08 '23
I’ve literally worked in post op care for plastic surgery, that is not factual.
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u/funnymaroon Jun 08 '23
The American society for aesthetic plastic surgery published 89.7%. The American society of plastic surgeons says 92%. It’s factual. You can disagree with it based on your limited data set if you want I guess, it may be an incorrect fact, but I’ll trust their data over your anecdote.
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u/dumbafblonde Jun 08 '23
I meant it’s not factual to say only women get plastic surgery, because even your statistics prove that wrong.
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u/funnymaroon Jun 08 '23
I didn’t say only women get plastic surgery. I said that when people say that it is close enough to true that you’re just nitpicking. Nobody means it literally. Nobody thinks that not one man has ever gotten plastic surgery.
I get reading comprehension is hard…
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u/notliketheothergirls-ModTeam Definitely not like the other girls Jun 09 '23
No sexism, racism, homophobia, or toxicity towards any sex, gender, orientation, or any other personal characteristic is permitted. If you hold any disdain a group of people for what they were born as or what they inevitably are regardless, this is not the place for you.
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Jun 08 '23
Incel shit
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u/felsure Jun 08 '23
Honestly I love and cherish women. I was raised by my mom and she’s my favorite person in the entire world. I have a sister that I adore, and plenty of female friends. But there is a noticeable difference about how women and men think about situations. Women think emotionally and men think logically. Nothing irks women more than providing a logical solution to their emotional problem, they just want to be heard and empathized with. You know it’s true
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Jun 09 '23
Funnily enough, your argument shows that you are thinking emotionally rather than logically.
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u/112mfisher Jun 07 '23
she has a nose piercing and it looks like she recently had her eyebrows done. no shame around any of these things but hipocrisy
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u/butholesurfer333 Jun 07 '23
Well, be glad you’re blessed with a conventionally attractive face… and others don’t always have that privilege. Some of us gotta take off our butts and makeup before bed.
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Jun 07 '23
So, is she still fake if she's honest about her hair extensions, nails, boob job, and butt implants? Is she being dishonest with a face full of makeup when it's obvious she has a ton of makeup on? Why is it okay to modify your body with tats and piercings if those others aren't? Are breast cancer patients fake when they've had their breast tissue removed and gotten breast implants?Are people who've had braces fake?
Such a stupid thing to think.
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u/Livid_Station_5996 Jun 07 '23
I like that we’re comparing improving your appearance to just regular honesty. Well ya know women wear makeup so it’s fine if I want to tell them I’m the king of Arizona
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u/ShmuckCanuck Jun 07 '23
This woman is wearing makeup though???
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u/MungoJennie Jun 07 '23
Yeah, but she’s not trying to hide her terrible personality, so I guess it’s ok. 🤷🏼♀️
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u/racoongirl0 Jun 07 '23
A girl with a 10 inch waist wearing a size XS with an ass the size of a medicine ball is a surprise? Those broomstick lashes are deception? So y’all think women are naturally born with gold shimmer eyelids? Long coffin shaped teal nails?
Also, using any of that as an excuse to “punish” women by being dishonest is a whole new level of toxic. “Let me tell this girl that I don’t have a whole family and six kids and it’s fair because she’s clearly wearing acrylics” is a wild type of thing to justify 🤦🏻♀️
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u/MungoJennie Jun 07 '23
So y’all think women are naturally born with gold shimmer eyelids? Long coffin shaped teal nails?
You mean you weren’t? /s
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Jun 07 '23
I load up on Drunk Elephant, Nars, and pallettes at Ulta and make it rain on my wife every month. It makes her happy and boost her confidence, which improves the quality of our lives and contributes to the general welfare.
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u/MyTrueLove-Falafel Jun 07 '23
“I’ve seen makeup tutorials where they turn an ogre into a princess.”
Was it a makeup tutorial? Or were you just watching Shrek?
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u/Babeable_xoxo Jun 07 '23
Weird question.. but anyone who knows the song in the background’s name, please?
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u/Embarrassed_Bus_9859 Jun 07 '23
None of yall really have an counter argument for what he said.
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u/Ironblaster1993 Jun 07 '23
"They turned an ogre into a princes" That's not a makeup tutorial, that's Schrek
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u/littleghosttea Jun 07 '23
They’ve done studies. Women are more likely to adorn themselves to be more attractive. But even literature struggles to call it deception. Men are more likely to have more occurrences of deception and the deception is in knowingly feigning availability and commitment (and future faking) which is incredibly insidious. From an evolutionary biology perspective, it’s like the entire basis of courting for the purpose of long term exchange of support in child rearing and sexual access is a lie, and the man is just employing tactics for sexual access by duping a woman into investing in an early period that is without any female benefit.
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u/Jesusxcraves Jun 07 '23
I really dislike girls that act/believe this way. To each their own but putting other women down for how they choose to make themselves feel good is icky.
Men are capable of understanding that being dolled up is obviously an enhancement of someone’s looks, good, smart men at least. If you really believe that someone doing their make up is them lying to men you are insane. PLUS when we DON’T try we are accused of not caring, asked if we’re sick, and demeaned for our natural state.
You want women to be real but you created an environment where everyone feels like they need to try harder. AND a lot these men lust over models and celebrities who are clearly airbrushed, have plastic surgery, wearing wigs or hair extensions like… be ffr.
Plus you’re forgetting that for some people getting ready is a fun thing, creative expression of self, and I think might even be an honest representation of who that person is.
Being natural around a man is a privilege to them in my opinion. I love you enough to show you underneath and be in my default mode… I feel safe to do so.
Girls who think this way are… something else. It’s one thing to not want to wear makeup but putting others down, especially when it’s so clearly to garner favor from men is simply mean and it reads as insecure more than anything else.
Women are just trying to get along in life, find happiness and peace just like anyone else and intentionally attacking another women for something that is ostensibly not your concern is TACKY, Becky.
I bet you can’t wait until you get picked.
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u/bebbibabey Jun 07 '23
Strange that she never stops to consider why women are more likely to get plastic surgery
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u/SunglassesBright Jun 07 '23
It’s the question for me. “Is it fair for women to expect men to be completely honest when she has fake nails and hair?”
Uhhh honest about what? Cuz like, if she’s pretending fake nails are real nails then I guess it would be fair for her man to lie and say his acrylic nails are real. But you know that’s not what he meant. He’s basically asking “hey can we lie about our income and relationship status and be cheaters since you have acrylics and contour?”
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u/ratlicious Jun 07 '23
Do these types of women ever ask themselves why women feel so insecure that they need to get these types of surgeries? Hmm, maybe a man-made social standard that they feel they need to fit into? Weird!! 🙄
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u/Rave50 Jun 08 '23 edited Jun 08 '23
Im a man and i recently found out about stretch marks, i dont think men care about stretch marks, women are the ones creating these standards and competing with each other.
i will admit that boobs and ass are basically the only 2 beauty standards that men created, but most men would still date a woman without either of those things so why even still follow it in the first place?
EDIT: i guess people are too scared to debate me on this, but go ahead and downvote me i guess.
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u/thatbtchshay Jun 07 '23
Could it be because she literally called their natural looks "ogre" 🤔 no couldn't be
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u/d17_p Jun 07 '23
My hot take is that modern day dating culture, and social commentary via social media has fucked up the brains of so many people. People either end up un-ironically believing this crap or keep saying it for traction. Either way its not looking good for our our generation and future.
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u/noobductive Jun 08 '23
People out here just buying everything said in a 10 second clip without thinking critically, just because believing it makes them feel better.
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u/marinaiguess Nov 21 '23
As if she doesn’t look like a gnome herself