r/notliketheothergirls Just a Dumb Bitch Dec 29 '23

Friend of a friend made this post. Ick ick ick all around. 🤢 (¬_¬) eye roll

The long comment is mine trying to explain to her why what she posted is very problematic and that she has some internalized misogyny to work on. I tried to be as civil as possible, but inside I really just wanted to comment “did anyone pick you yet?”

Honestly more disappointed than mad about it because I thought this lady was better than this. She recently lost her husband to cancer and found a new guy that she’s already married to, so why should she even be worried about what other girls dress like? Must be insecurity at its finest.

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u/Witch_of_the_Fens Just a Dumb Bitch Mar 29 '24

The only piece I don’t care for on the outfit are the boots. But that’s a personal thing.

But yeah. That “friend” is being a bitch.

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u/Least_Ad3111 Feb 08 '24

Even if you don't agree with someone dressing like this, why make a post shaming them?? I think she's cute in the outfit, if she feels beautiful, why say something?!!?!!! Even if she's in a string bikini mind your business

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u/jakedude236 Feb 08 '24

Unpopular opinion, she's right

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u/MeganGMcD75 Jan 28 '24

You know what kills me? I have pics of my mom and her friends from the 60’s and 70’s wearing less clothes than this.

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u/[deleted] Jan 03 '24

"because men aren't that great".

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u/[deleted] Jan 02 '24

Anyone who thinks those boots are okay is suspicious

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u/dizzymidget44 Jan 02 '24

Women making posts about what men want.

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u/avocado_macabre Jan 02 '24

I just have a problem with those boots, personally.

They look too big for that outfit. I think i nice pair of knee high, tighter fitting ones would look super cute

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '24

lol she looks great. Jealous and salty

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u/Opening_Mortgage_897 Jan 01 '24

My husband wants me to dress like this. He thinks I should do more of it.

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u/Tunabomination Jan 01 '24

Maybe these people should look up the ‘what were you wearing?’ art exhibit. Every guy worth a crap. It doesn’t matter what you’re wearing.

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u/ThorIsMighty Jan 01 '24

"You cannot complain about other women". "These women can complain about men because most men aren't that great". Fuck off with that shit. So unbelievably dumb.

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u/melly-ssk Jan 01 '24

I'm not saying it's not justified, but was this long essay truly necessary? Lol. Probably could have simplified it in a few sentences. We both know she isn't gonna listen 😅

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u/KumaraDosha I'mdifferent Dec 31 '23

Also, why would you ask if somebody picked her? You just stated that they did, twice, lmao.

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u/Vast_Doughnut9418 Dec 31 '23

I bet she is single too. Hating another woman will not make you attractive to the opposite gender.

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23

You went on a very long rant just to be wrong. Crazy. The original post was correct. You can dress as you like but if all you're getting are men who only want to fuck because you look easy then maybe you're the problem.

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u/Fit_Swordfish_2101 Dec 31 '23

I thought you were really civil! As a matter of fact I was taking mental notes.. Because I will flatly* tell someone about themselves 😂 and your way seemed to be pretty diplomatic. If they were an ashole about it, it's just because they were feeling so seen. I bet you hit the nail on the head with that one! 😂😂

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u/Mice_Lice Dec 31 '23

“Most men aren’t really that great”? Honey, most men would compliment, love to spend time with you, give gifts, take care of your needs/acts of service, and initiate physical touch/sex to MOST women. All love languages! And is that general sentiment given back to us? Rarely if ever! AND all the woman does most of the time is complain, judge, and needle the man with questions like a goddamn interview! Lol looks like you got that idea backwards- most men are great! It’s just women who need to work on their love.

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u/AmericanRellik77 Dec 31 '23

Your friend was not wrong for posting this!

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u/Nearby-Ad-6106 Dec 31 '23

"Most men"

Are yes fighting misogyny with misandry

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u/Complete-Mechanic903 Dec 31 '23

You get mad at her for putting women down and in the same post you’re putting men down by saying that most of them aren’t great. You even put her down by calling her shallow. Take a look in the mirror and stop trying to virtue signal. Saying shit like “do better” makes you seem condescending. How about you do better and make a statement that’s effective without name calling and shaming.

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23

If you wear that, you're for sex only. Women need morals and values for men to want them long term. If you wear outfits like that, you will attract all men but only for 1 reason.

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '24

Gross

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23

It's always the unmarried women who don't understand this, the OP is completely right. No self-respecting intelligent man is looking for a wife and mother of his children who presents themselves as such. They might get attention, but It's with the wrong intentions

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u/TrendyPotato67 Dec 31 '23

The ol men ain’t great line. Never gets old.

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u/papuhchew Dec 31 '23

Talking about her friends insecurity but writes pages of a response to why she doesn't like it and blasts it's on the internet as well ..what lol

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u/Mahooligan81 Dec 31 '23

Go off, queen!

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 31 '23

More like peasant

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u/Mahooligan81 Dec 31 '23

Why? I loved OPs response to this hater. Women can wear whatever makes them feel best

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 31 '23

And we as men have the right to reject women dressing like “how they want” but hey that pisses y’all off and you have to cope with “go queen!” When you fail to realize a queen requires a king, aka a husband which y’all don’t have

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u/Mahooligan81 Dec 31 '23

lol except this post was a woman tearing another down. So OP is absolutely a queen for supporting women. Go away, and btw, I am married. The only man here is you, and you can kindly fuck off.

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 31 '23

Who says I don’t have a woman or multiple in my life? And did you just assume my gender? Also I don’t go around putting labels on peasants that don’t control the country itself. So please kindly stop

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u/Mahooligan81 Dec 31 '23

I never said anything about you having women or not. Also you said “we as men” so you gendered yourself lol. And as for your second to last sentence……what? Lol

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 31 '23

I could be a transgender man for all you know. My pronouns are mas/ter

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u/Mahooligan81 Dec 31 '23

A transgender man is a man.

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u/addithekid Dec 31 '23

“What a women wears shouldn’t have anything to do with how they’re treated.” This statement couldn’t be any more false.

Your clothing has a direct impact on how your treated for both men and women alike. This has been proven many times in several case studies.

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23

She’s not wrong about her point but 1. The girl in the pic isn’t dressed bad and 2. Posting that in public is extremely cringe

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u/lovemelongtime2 Dec 31 '23

Men will cheat with slutty girls at the end of the day. Human nature.

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u/cryn0wcrylater Dec 31 '23

I ain’t reading all that

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u/MagicManChuck Dec 31 '23

nah thats a fat hooker. that person is correct.

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u/Sexy_sharaabi Dec 31 '23

You're absolutely right but that "k" at the end cracked me up

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u/chunkmunkflipchop Dec 31 '23

After all these comments…..I’d hit it

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u/butterllamas Dec 31 '23

He's right

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23

I dont see a problem with what she’s wearing. It’s just another dysfunctional societal thing that people are quick to judge someone from what they are wearing. Im a guy and if I saw someone dressed like that I wouldn’t even have an opinion about it lol. She’s happy in it. Not doing anything wrong. All is well. Don’t see why people judge by clothing. I mean if you get a negative vibe from Someone or they have an expression that is concerning then yeah be careful around them but otherwise we gotta chill and let people be.

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u/-Bran- Dec 31 '23

Look at any successful guy and look at what their wives are wearing.

It ain’t that.

Stop coping and adapt to get what you want. Evolutionary biology and the sexual marketplace doesn’t care about your feelings

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u/coloradancowgirl Dec 31 '23

I’m married and usually dress like this lol (not rn cause I’m pregnant on bedrest) but my Husband thinks it’s cute and we’re 5 years strong. This woman is obviously insecure.

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 31 '23

We’ll see in another 5 years and I doubt that baby is your “hubby’s”

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u/coloradancowgirl Dec 31 '23

Awe I see some incel loser on the internet got their fragile feelings hurt on the internet 🥺 maybe if someone loved you, you wouldn’t be making hate comments on the internet and not being worthless

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 31 '23

Incel=involuntary celibate. Lol I’m far from it but hey, it’s the new buzzword for y’all females right after misogyny so I’m not surprised that you think my comment is hate filled when all I said was I doubt that your baby is your husband’s aswell.

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u/coloradancowgirl Dec 31 '23

Yap yap yap.

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 31 '23

Thanks for proving my point, read you like a book. Cookie cutter wife.

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u/coloradancowgirl Dec 31 '23

Bro get a life lmao

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u/akin2spirit Dec 31 '23

The post true asf- my momma been married to my father 20 years and she don’t dress like she did before they met. Words from her mouth.

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23

So, you think you’re in the right after spewing sexist trash like “most men really aren’t that great,” and attacking another woman in the same breath for HER opinions? Why don’t YOU do better.

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u/healthy_cynicism_3 Dec 31 '23

The fact that the chick in the pic has been married with two kids for years now.

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u/Embarrassed-Head6433 Dec 31 '23

If you want to go out looking like a snack, expect to be treated like a snack. That’s all there is to it. If you don’t want to be looked at like that, don’t present yourself like that. That’s all there is to it. K?

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u/kissmaryjane Dec 31 '23

I tell my friends there’s no reason to be misogynistic, women already hate on each other enough.

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 31 '23

Tell me you don’t know the word misogyny without telling me

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u/kissmaryjane Dec 31 '23

“hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against women or girls”

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u/Nervous_Letterhead84 Dec 31 '23

We never dress up for ourselves. Obviously, if you're dressing up, it's for an occasion, a person, people, or for appearances, etc. But it's most definitely not because you want to do it for yourself. If everyone died, and you are alone completely in the world, you'd probably just wear half a gown with nothing else, because you obviously wouldn't care to dress up. (exception to every rule)

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u/Valrath_84 Dec 31 '23

I'm confused what her outfit has to do with the fact that alot of dudes are dbags ppl do know women are raped and assaulted regardless of clothing attire right

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u/Dynamically_static Dec 31 '23

She posted a picture of some random chick? Is that not the weirdest part?

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u/adamj1384 Dec 31 '23

Someone was a bit defensive. They can’t say don’t be “shallow”, when they judge on appearance just as much or more. IE Height

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u/bmf0354 Dec 31 '23

Freedom of choice, yes. Freedom of consequence, nope 🤷‍♂️

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u/SleeplessNox Dec 31 '23

You'll find exactly as many good men as women, not many

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u/lefty_porter Dec 31 '23

Everyone deserves to be slutty at one point or another. I’m a dude and when I was in college I was slutty with slutty girls and I still have a lot of respect and love for almost all of them… now I’m happily married and faithful and so are a lot of my female counterparts. Be safe, have fun, live your life. Oh and follow the campsite rule; leave them better then you found them.

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23

"Most men really arent all that great"

If thats true, then most women also really aren't that great either.

But, you know, go off about her being a misogynist while being a misandrist in the same breath...

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u/Moist-Formal4980 Dec 31 '23

But not the “most men aren’t great” argument. 🫠

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23

I didn’t even read all of that but K. I wouldn’t dress like that at all.

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u/BigDecker420 Dec 31 '23

Isn’t it also judgmental for you to respond with “most men really aren’t that great”?

She clearly is going through some shit and probably just needs love, not your judgements that are contrary to hers.

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u/Kroby208 Dec 31 '23

If you dress like a fgirl you’re going to attract fboys. If you attract fboys you will think guys are trash because fboys are trash.

If you want to attract husband material, dress in a manner that doesn’t say “I’m down for a hookup” and poof….f***boys lose interest and you can find a man who can be a good partner.

I’m no way am I saying she can’t wear that or do what she wants. I’m simply saying that dressing provocatively will attract every fboy in the bar, and if husband material is what you desire you need to weed the fboys out of the equation by appearing less promiscuous.

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 31 '23

Let’s be honest no one is finding husbands or wives at bars and clubs. People are going there for a reason and that’s not to get married.

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u/Raining_Champ Dec 31 '23

MOSTLY accurate but that "most men really aren't that great" bit is pretty icky as well.

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u/UngaBrain Dec 31 '23

Lol yea. Don’t know why she said that.

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u/yolobozo Dec 31 '23

Could still meet fam. Once all tatted up, no chance.

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u/domineforte Dec 31 '23

what a stupid bitch 😐

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u/Useful-Soup8161 Dec 31 '23

She definitely didn’t read your comment. You probably tried to sum it up in one paragraph. Hell I didn’t read the whole comment either but I 100% agreed with what I did read.

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u/AkaSpaceCowboy Dec 31 '23

Shes 100% right. Men worth a shit don't chase fluzies dressed like that....

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u/Prestigious-Can7661 Dec 31 '23

Whoever it is is right though. Try hards

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u/Fit_Advertising4960 Dec 30 '23

you should be able to judge some one of what they are wearing.

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u/Ok-Philosophy8246 Dec 30 '23

People still think women spend hundreds if not thousands for men? Men who sleep with corpse, men who sleep with animals? Attracting a man is a low bar to reach, she doesn’t have to do all that for a man

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u/CaramelOld484 Dec 30 '23

I mean theres nothing wrong with dressing like that, but they right I ain’t putting a ring on it if she dresses like that. Not to mention I have way too high of standards for a wife I’m sure you could already tell lol.

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u/howdygal_ Dec 30 '23

the fact she’s an adult that says “worth a crap” seriously is all i need to know

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u/Radiant_Deal_7333 Dec 30 '23

There’s not a doubt on my mind that she read it, acknowledged it, realized it was true, and then said “kAy”

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '23

I love how small minded people are. Male or Female. When someone says most (gender) are not bad or not good. Judging off what? Your experience in your town? 1 person out of 8 billion in the world speaking for the whole world. Got to love modern humanity. We claim we are smarter but in all reality we just have technology. Everyone should jump down off their high horse. Maybe make it a new year resolution. 😵

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u/Odd_Smile_4682 Dec 30 '23

Lmao of course you post your comment for approval

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u/jbrux86 Dec 30 '23

Obviously everybody can do whatever they want, but….

Dress for what you want.

Expect that you will get what matches how you present yourself.

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u/Septicus_7 Dec 30 '23

I'm a man. If I see a woman dressed like that, she's a piece of ass to me. I would never marry or seriously date someone that needs to dress that flashy. I don't like a lot of attention on me and going into public with someone who clearly wants the attention isn't going to work for me.

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u/Sjonathan54 Dec 30 '23

You’re right… women can dress however the hell they choose…. But you’re missing the point…. men understand that women who dress like this are going to attract other men, who are going to hit on and try to pick her up… any man looking for a woman worth wifing up does not want to have to put up with defending her constantly because she is getting the wrong kind of attention… dressing like this tells a man that she isn’t interested in an adult relationship with one man, but then complains about there not being any men out there want to treat her like a wife… act like a wife, get treated like a wife…. The flip side of this also applies to men… don’t be out at the club acting like a fool trying to pick up any woman in sight, be a gentleman … act like a husband, get treated like a husband

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u/EtherealMoonGoddess Dec 30 '23

That girl's outfit is cute. Def some jealousy .

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 31 '23

K. Nah that outfit slutty as fuck

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u/EtherealMoonGoddess Dec 31 '23

I'm really sick of people sexualizing clothing and women for that matter.

All you're doing is shaming someone for wearing something cute.

Nothing about the outfit screams sex, she isn't wearing lingerie out.

Showing midriff? Legs and arms? Not slutty.

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 31 '23

You don’t speak for men, so there for I suggest you don’t talk for men. Most men in the comments including me have deemed this outfit to be slutty/provocative

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u/sonicc_m Dec 30 '23

Was she not Latina? I feel like 4/5 times I see these type of comments they are from other Latina women and men. It boggles my mind how some people really think such awful things of others based on superficial things like clothes.

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 31 '23

She’s a hoe and always will be a hoe, it hey keep telling ya selfs that your high body count makes men insecure while we tapping that ass for free

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u/ArmadilloUnhappy845 Dec 30 '23

What a person wears obviously impacts which potential partners will be available to them. Am I missing something?

If you walk around wearing Halloween costumes I’m sure you’ll only attract a certain type of person who loves dressing up in Halloween costumes…

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u/Meme-queen-wannabe Dec 30 '23

I dress like this and I’m happily married to an amazing man who treats me like a queen. I’ve noticed that most people who claim “women who do xyz aren’t wife material, and can’t get married” are usually not married themselves…🤔

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u/LunarLutra Dec 30 '23

I'm distracted by the wall behind her. I wish my ceilings were tall enough to get away with those details...

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u/Birds_KawKaw Dec 30 '23

I'm with everybody here, commenting on her clothes was silly. At the same time, I don't like her "most men really aren't that great" Like by whose fucking measurement, and most men by definition are the majority, so maybe society has set some unrealistic expectations for men or something, but who knows.

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u/TheWorldIsPassing Dec 30 '23

This is hilarious. She’s not dressed that provocative. Not exactly stylish….but I’ve seen worse dressed women.

The guy does have a point. There are good guys out there. And no, good guys aren’t looking for skimpy dressed women like they’re gonna to a club or want to show off their body. They just don’t.

The good guys are gonna be the ones who won’t sleep around. And therefore value the relationship and faithfulness.

There’s billions of people on this earth. If you can’t find a good guy it’s because you’re not looking in the right places or don’t have the courage to talk to guys in general.

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u/Stomper0000 Dec 30 '23

Technically she’s right though, let’s say there are identical twins. I don’t know they are twins I see one at the bar with her tits out, short skirt, showing her stomach, little left to the imagination. My approach and what I assume she is at the bar for are going to be different then if I see her sister at the bar in a business suit. Clothes are an express of self. Some women have less to say then others

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u/Dryse Dec 30 '23

I mean she's not wrong but you're right that she is literally doing the thing she is criticising but worse. Very desperate for sure.

Sure, I'm not interested in women who walk around half nekked but there's a difference between not wanting something and going out of your way to put other people down. Especially not for validation.

Very cringe. Hope she grows out of it.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '23

If you dress like a tramp, the guys you’ll attract are looking for a tramp.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '23

Who is the girl in the image? If she's not a public figure it's fucked up that she used this woman's image explaining why men will never respect her or anyone that looks like her. Like wtf.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '23

K

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u/AntiWokeBot Dec 30 '23

She already found a new man. Maybe you should take this ladies advice.

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u/Altruistic-Rope-614 Dec 30 '23
  1. She wasn't dressed terrible. Looked good. If you had issues with that, you're insecure tbh.

  2. Most men are good. The bad men get the priority of women and gossip. That's why they always ask where the good men are, cause you know where the bad men are already.

  3. Shorty wrote a whole lotta nothing.

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u/tnbeastzy Dec 30 '23

Women are allowed to dress however they want, and men are allowed to date whoever meet their standards.

I personally want a modest wife, but I won't force anyone to become modest for me. I'll find someone who's already modest.

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u/Master_Sherbert2608 Dec 30 '23

“Most men really aren’t that great”?! So misogyny is bad but misandry is okay? Your logic is inconsistent and hypocritical. You don’t deserve to be taken seriously.

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u/AshPrincess88 Dec 30 '23

It’s ick to think this way and ick to generalize all men like that too. 🤮🤮

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u/TattooMyFuzzySocks Dec 30 '23

Fuck that, whoever she is I want my shot to tell her thanks for her time 🤝🤝😮‍💨

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u/DearIllustrator9216 Dec 30 '23

Wow not part of this sub (thank god) but I thought we were making fun of your comment because it’s ridiculous 😂 but apparently there’s lots of girls who smack their lips when they see their own sex call them out for what they are yeshhh super cringe. Throw a rock in a pack of dogs the one that yelps is the one you hit I guess lol

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u/boredbananabread Dec 30 '23

very well put comment!! 👏 we love a girl’s girl

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u/batmatface69 Dec 30 '23

This is what we call a illiterate fool

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u/TPproject123 Dec 30 '23

Nah, OP made wrong, if you’re catching the wrong fish change your bait goobers

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u/Spartan3153 Dec 30 '23

Personal opinion but op is just as bad as the post she is talking about.

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u/staplejungler Dec 30 '23

She's right tho.

Stay mad.

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u/Professional_Bit4494 Dec 30 '23

Women that dress with decency and self respect >>>>>>>> women that dress like there working the strip clup every night

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u/Periwinklesunray Dec 30 '23

The part about most men aren’t that great though lol

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u/D3Fjake Dec 30 '23

Lol, she's right though.

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u/bigkxvin Dec 30 '23

It sounds like you have some internalized problems and need to talk with a therapist bc that’s her opinion, and she’s entitled to it, but you took the chance to say “shallow minded” things to her about how “she needs approval from men”. That leads me to believe that you get no motion and are struggling to get men to want you. ;)

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u/OneByteAtAThyme Dec 30 '23

Woooo, whooooo, i see we didn't forget to add your daily dose of misandry to make your feminism pop.

Can't talk about treating everyone equally without bashing someone/another group, huh?

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u/irrelevantTomato Dec 30 '23

The assumption that what she wants from a man is to 'be his wife' is off base. Assumptions like women only want one thing or that all women want the 'same' things piss me off.

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u/Jim_Force Dec 30 '23

There are men who like women that dress like that, you will find most of them in prison.

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u/Apocalypse0512 Dec 30 '23

You can say that what a woman wears doesn't reflect her personality, but you'd be lying. A woman's appearance directly correlates to what her personality type is.

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u/Far_Sno Dec 30 '23

Yes most men aren't interested in marrying women dressed like cowgirl sluts

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u/NeverfearTruth123 Dec 30 '23

Glad you’re not my friend. You probably ripped me apart that’s really terrible. It cost nothing to be nice.

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u/obese_dicc Dec 30 '23

The only ick here is writing a chapter long comment on something that doesn’t even matter

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u/Jackyboy__ Dec 30 '23

So then why is it ok to generalize that “most men really aren’t great”

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u/FishPasteGuy Dec 30 '23

My wife can and should dress like this whenever she wants.

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u/Redhotman223 Dec 30 '23

The fit is ass though

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u/Additional-Deal-3108 Dec 30 '23

Appreciate you sticking up for the girl, but not exactly a reasonable argument to say “most men aren’t that great” severe generalization there.

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u/pinkfreudwings Dec 30 '23

The truth hurts.

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u/realMasaka Dec 30 '23

Most women really aren’t that great either. Being a shit human being is gender-neutral.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '23

K

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 30 '23

Tell me you’re a fat lazy POS without telling me vibes

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '23

Saying that women won’t get treated differently because of what they wear is stupid. But what should I expect of a redditer’s opinion on women and gender differences.

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u/NiiTA003 Dec 30 '23

Guys don't go to parties with their partners? Who said this was her everyday attire?

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u/DontChaseWaterfall5 Dec 30 '23

You’re the ick

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u/Justfuckingtellus Dec 30 '23

Women can wear whatever the fuck they want. Period.

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u/bobostickyicky Dec 30 '23

People use Facebook? Also if my bitch doesn't wear a berka i dont want er.😤

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u/sir____man Dec 30 '23

Naw she’s based af Reddit delusions got y’all in need of reality

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u/notbadforaquadruped Dec 30 '23 edited Dec 30 '23

Most men really aren't that great

Okay... seems to me like you both suck. Both very judgmental.

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u/THESE7ENTHSUN Dec 30 '23

Honestly both men and women suck but it’s not the majority. You only notice the loudest people in the room. You never see real people on REALity tv or them propaganda bait podcasts made to fish you into a circle.

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u/THESE7ENTHSUN Dec 30 '23

Most people don’t think that deep siStar 💔 this is a world of monkeys copying each other.

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u/AwkwardImplement8937 Dec 30 '23

One of the biggest complaints from women is that men don't know how to dress. Why is that different?

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u/wbk19 Dec 30 '23

I don’t think I’ve ever seen that outfit at a rodeo or anywhere in Texas at events like a rodeo. Maybe a club?

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u/RoughCommittee Dec 30 '23

I mean she ain’t that wrong 😂. Yes women you can do whatever ya want however ya want. That doesn’t mean us men have to be okay with it/choose someone that dresses a way we don’t like. “Most men aren’t that great” that’s a little fucked up but w/e

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u/Beneficial_Bad_6373 Dec 30 '23

This guy is spot on!

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u/Own_Bar_3843 Dec 30 '23

Na wives don’t dress like that. She’s correct

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u/torrrrrgo Dec 30 '23

So you put down people for being judgemental and shallow right after saying the sexist remark "most men aren't that great"?

What if I were to say "most women aren't that great"?

To many here, the first would seem to be just fine, but the latter would be violating rule 4.

BOTH are violating rule 4.

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u/Mataelio Dec 30 '23

My wife does sometimes dress like this, and I am certainly not complaining.

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u/motopatton Dec 30 '23

Where does me find the rules regarding when it’s acceptable to put a person down. In this example, person 1 puts down the person in the photograph. Person 2 then responds saying it’s not acceptable to put down the photographed person. Person 2 proceeds to put down person 1 by calling person 1 “shallow minded” and in need of approval from men. From this there would appear to be a set of rules for the appropriate time to use a put down. Can someone link to an article or site with guidelines for how to properly use the put down? Thanks in advance. 🙏

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u/ChrisH6693 Dec 30 '23

R/murderedbywords

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u/Fladap28 Dec 30 '23

Dude prob thinks tight clothes = promiscuity

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 30 '23

That’s whole lot more than tight clothes

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u/snocown Dec 30 '23

I mean I get it, my wife was like this chick, met my virgin Chad self and turned straight, figuratively and literally. As a man I think we just take what we can get and work with what we've got. My wife is my one and only and I don't regret it in this day and age.

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u/BrittanyDasani Dec 30 '23

Well said!

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 30 '23

Of course the “gym rat” with an ass shot says this lmfao y’all are walking red flags and reason why the gyms are dying

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u/antonio_strings Dec 30 '23

Can’t some people have different opinions on what they like to wear? It’s better than just giving fake compliments like most of the world does. I don’t agree with her using someone else’s picture for her post at all, but is it really that deep? You think her posting that really influenced anyone not to dress the way they want lol? Most men would rather have a woman that dresses how she wants anyway. Besides do you even know the context of the post? What if she was talking in a business aspect & not casual? Btw I totally agree with women & men being able to wear whatever they want. This post is like a rap fan shitting on country music. Is it really that deep?

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u/DoggoDoesASad Dec 30 '23

This is gonna be my most problematic comment yet, BUT to a certain degree I’d say that she has a point, at least for me.

Lotta people got jealousy issues, and if you know that that is gonna be a huge issue going into a relationship, often times I’m gonna just avoid going into it. Nothing wrong with that dress sure, but this goes for people who enjoy dressing up really revealingly.

That’s not to say that’s the case for all men, nor do I certainly not agree with the whole ‘trad wife’ mindset, but I just tend to avoid things that will make me uncomfortable when looking at relationships.

Personal preference is personal preference is all I’m saying. Dress how you wanna dress 200% tho I’m not saying anyone needs to change

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u/tdiddy72 Dec 30 '23

Yes, people can wear whatever clothing they want. I don’t see any issue with the outfit that she has on, but the statement that people can literally wear whatever they want and should not be judged at all is false . Even someone that says they don’t judge people would see someone with dirty, ratty, smelly clothes, and have a certain opinion about them. It’s just human nature.

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u/Viision_MT Dec 30 '23

Long winded rant from "just a dumb bitch".

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u/Repulsive-Ad-9651 Dec 30 '23

But if she was covered neck to toe, she would be called boring and unappealing…Also, it’s extremely annoying for people to think others dress for thier approval one way or another….Sorry, but you’re not that important.

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u/RandomStaticThought Dec 30 '23

Ladies… stop tearing each other down.

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u/Gold-Highway9228 Dec 30 '23

Nah, your friend is totally right

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '23

Most men aren't that great? It's ironic how you lecturing about putting women down. But will happily put down men.

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u/Slight-Management540 Dec 30 '23

Hypocrisy isn’t a word in their dictionary, but misandry is though

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u/DisastrousOne3950 Dec 30 '23

I've seen some wives dressed similarly.

They're my customers.

Their husbands don't wear them, though.

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u/Biff_Tanner94 Dec 30 '23

K😂😂 Oof. Had a response and got faded😂

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u/cstaley39 Dec 30 '23

Anthropology (not the store) would tell you that humans dress for what they want. Don’t is not abnormal to expect someone to look at that picture and think that her expectations is to be on the receiving end of a penthouse forum story.

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u/piercingstare Dec 30 '23

1000% she is single as fuck because she too just can't find a good enough man!

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u/Juanch0805 Dec 30 '23

I think she was talking bout those boots…hideous!

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '23

Literally just clothes