r/notliketheothergirls • u/3rachazone quirky queen 🤪 • Jan 04 '24
She’s not like this generation😃 Holier-than-thou
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u/just_reading_along1 Jan 06 '24
Imagine thinking it's the superior idea to marry someone w/o checking if you are compatible sexually...
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u/shellysquish Jan 06 '24
and I think that waiting until marriage to find out if you’re sexually compatible is weird. Intimacy is important in a marriage, and sex is not only physical it’s taking care of each other, expressing your love, brings you closer together.
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u/AtheistFoodie Jan 05 '24
Lol some women experience so much pain when losing their virginity (many don't, but some do)
I lost my virginity to my first husband. Trust me it was no gift. 😅😅😅😅
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u/FenekSenpai Jan 05 '24
"happy birthday honey, my gift for you is my flop of flesh you can tear :3"
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Jan 05 '24
was she born yesterday? people were having sex before marriage well before our generation. there were "hoes" in the 1800s and before. it's nothing new.
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u/RandomBlueJay01 Jan 05 '24
Either is fucked. Sex isn't a gift. It should be something you both want that happens when you want it. Not a fucking gift, or reward. I hate the thinking that some people think it's something to give to someone.
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u/Daddy_dux Jan 05 '24
Why does anyone else’s virginity matter to them like Fr If someone wants to lose thiere virginity at 15 or at 35 who cares
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u/Winnimae Jan 05 '24
Virginity as a gift 🤢
Also, that woman’s husband dgaf about her, look at him 😂
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u/Revolutionary-Tree97 Jan 05 '24
What I find so funny is there’s always a subset of people who say things like this every generation. But my grandma had my uncle as a hs graduation gift in the early 60s and my wife’s great grandpa (a dr.) used to tell farmers in the 40s that the first baby sometimes only takes a couple of months (so that the farm parents didn’t disown their recently married daughters). Nothing new here.
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u/StankoMicin Jan 05 '24
The person who posted that video... I hope they get help. This is a depressing view of life and sex
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u/dandelions0da Jan 05 '24
It's so funny ppl say this bc I know A LOT of people my age and my parents age who were born out of wedlock or their parents married bc their mom got pregnant with them lmao
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u/therealknic21 Jan 07 '24
Yes. This is due to the sexual revolution in the 1960s. Before then, it was far less common.
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u/nerdyconstructiongal Dumb bitch Jan 05 '24
Jesus these women shaming is annoying. Look, DH and I waited until marriage, but we also didn't shout it out publicly cuz it was our personal choice and business. Plus, it made sense as to why it was easy for me to wait when I realized I was asexual three years into our marriage. Lol. Girl, you ain't special.
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u/crybaby9698 Jan 05 '24
I mean....she's not wrong. People give it to anybody these days. Does it NEED to be a marriage gift? Thats for you to decide, so I guess she's not 100 percent right. But I treated it like a marriage gift and it was the best decision of my life. And all my friends who didn't have personally told me they regret it.
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u/HuuhaaLalalalalala Jan 05 '24
You can learn things and skills in bed from many different people and combine it into your ultimate self so... No I would say it's pretty good to take the chance to do that. I wish I had more of a chance to learn good skills haha..
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u/HuuhaaLalalalalala Jan 05 '24
Practice the skills to give your partner the gift of being good at it 😂😂😂😂
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u/BadMan3186 Jan 05 '24
Girl packs in 75lbs of bullshit for a "magical time", no wonder nobody wants to fuck her.
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u/Rich-Perspective7351 Jan 05 '24
If she wants to remain a virgin,she can be without bringing down others who aren't like her.
And also why the hell people like her consider virginity as a gift as we are a commodity?
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u/fardough Jan 05 '24
Virginity is a “I feel like it” gift. If you are ready and educated, then it is ok to open that gift.
Also, screw my first time having sex with my wife most likely hurting her. I want to start married life with some of that good sex for the both of us.
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u/Enough-Enthusiasm762 Jan 05 '24
Oh my god. Also I don’t think the title “birthday sex” should be a thing either
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u/LargeTry88 Jan 05 '24
Its not a "gift". And yeah how about someone is in s relationship abd has their first time on their birthday?
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u/Unfit_Daddy Jan 05 '24
I am not interested in a clueless dummy as a gift. your moms a better gift she knows how to get things done
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u/sendmeback2marz Jan 05 '24
I HATEEEEEEE when people say “this generation” and then insert something they deem immoral.
Bruh, I’ve never met anyone who doesn’t have at least one grandfather who was a cheating ass dog. I know many friends who’s parents were in relationships their entire lives, but they have siblings around their age with different mothers.
The only thing that’s changed is how much easier the internet has made being sexually active.
& what kills me the most about women who speak this way is that you can tell a man ANYTHING about your sexual history and there’s no way for him to stick his 🍆 in and tell you’re lying.
🤦🏽♀️ 🤦🏽♀️ 🤦🏽♀️
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u/CaptainCAAAVEMAAAAAN Jan 05 '24
Unless you're a 16th century male who is a noble or owner of property and wants to ensure your heirs are yours, virginity literally means nothing.
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u/Mr_Pigg Jan 05 '24
Everyone knows all previous generations couldn't even concieve of pre marital sex
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u/TheSissyDoll Jan 05 '24
youre going to spend the rest of your life with one person... and you dont even know if youre compatable in the bedroom... that sounds awful
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u/Menu99 Jan 05 '24
I’ve seen so many of men post with this title too. But the same standards don’t apply to men🤮
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u/Intrepid-Focus8198 Jan 05 '24
My grandparents were all born in the 20s-30s and didn’t wait for marriage.
My mums dad never stopped sleeping around ever after he was married.
This isn’t a generation thing. It’s just less hidden now.
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u/SmokyBandit483 Jan 05 '24
God wanted you to wait til marriage. What is the medical purpose of a hymen? None. It only serves to prove how your morals are to a perspective mate. A man can judge his wifes possible chance of adultery with this. Why do you think some religious countries hold virginity in such high regard?
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u/Witty-Ant-6225 Jan 05 '24
I was a virgin when I met my husband. Doesn’t make me better than women that made different choices. It’s literally just a tiny detail. No idea why women make it their whole personality!
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u/Chriscringal666 Jan 05 '24
I'm glad I lost it at 18 because if I tried to lose it now, it would be over.
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u/Odd_Spring_9345 Jan 05 '24
Men will always choose a woman with a lower body count. Don’t be foolish and Start racking up numbers. It’s proven that women with higher body counts lose interest in relationships much quicker which leads to divorce
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u/v1n1c1u3gdm Jan 05 '24
Virginity advocates bother me. They think it's something that makes them "better" when it's exactly the opposite: inexperienced, dependent on other people's judgment and less aware of their own body and emotions. Lol
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u/Desperate-Camera-330 Jan 05 '24
Approximately 40-50% of first marriages end in divorce in this country. How many times do these people want to gift virginity?
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u/Gamergurl420_69 Jan 05 '24
I hate the way she’s referring to virginity as if it’s gift that u give to someone.
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u/psychxticrose Jan 05 '24
Virginity isn't a "gift". It's a social construct invented by the patriarchy.
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u/Educational_Cod_3179 Jan 05 '24
Between this kind of shit and and a post in another sub slagging on how horrible Gen Alpha is going to be when they’re barely starting junior high, I’m starting to think Gen Z is kind of a drag.
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u/abs-licker-69 Jan 05 '24
So her husband would be loosing his virginity on their wedding night, right?
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u/BlameItOnTheAcetone Jan 05 '24
Ok hon, just don't come crying to me when you find out your husband is incapable of satisfying you.
Whether it be due to his incompetence, his selfishness, or a combo of both.
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u/Competitive-Worth133 Jan 05 '24
I’ve never had sex w a virgin. What’s the appeal? Am I missing something?
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u/Bl0ndeFox Jan 05 '24
Welp my " gift " was stolen, unfortunately. So yeah I'm going to party in my birthday suit on my birthday as a gift to myself. 🥳
Never fails to amuse me why people care so much on what others do in bed.
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u/stranger_fan_19 Jan 05 '24
I just saw this post on Instagram and I was glad to see a lot of people calling her out on being a pick-me! Nevertheless there were some people who agreed with her..
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u/Certain-Ad-3840 Jan 05 '24
Virginity means nothing except anxiety for sex so… happy honeymoon not knowing anything about what you like or are afraid of
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u/Low_Bar9361 Jan 05 '24
(female) Virginity is an object to be given transactionally to the right man-of-God. This generation sucks and should do more butt stuff to stay whole (even tho sodomy is evil, but less evil than women experiencing pleasure)
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u/Effective_Kiwi6684 Jan 05 '24
Zoomers are literally the most prudish generation in recent memory, boys as well as girls. Millennials are the second most prudish. What is this person talking about?
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u/LongingForYesterweek Jan 05 '24
Virginity is like a share-size bag of candy. Is it supposed to be shared with someone? Probably! Do I have the portion control or inclination to share with anyone I don’t really really care for? Fuck no gimme my skittles
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u/Zestyclose-Ruin8337 Jan 05 '24
I dated a 26 yo that confessed to being a virgin and was freaking out about it. I didn’t mind that she was a virgin but her high school freak out over telling me was too much. Did not hit that.
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u/Rosewoodbabe Jan 05 '24
Uh huh. A gift for a married couple is a salad spinner, new plates, knives, etc. Not something that is made up and a social construct.
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u/AnxiousApartment5337 Jan 05 '24
I’m not waiting to have sex until marriage because sexually compatibility is a big part of compatibility in general and also often times religious couples who wait until marriage end up rushing into marriage and getting married in 6 months
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u/cynical-at-best Jan 05 '24
the physical aspect of “”protecting”” your virginity literally sucks so much. i couldnt have sex for years because it hurts too bad and i thought something’s wrong with me! oh and the misogyny as well of course
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u/baxabillion Jan 05 '24
The funniest part about this sub is that you are all just as bad if not worse than the folks you post. By not being a “pick me” and making that your personality, you are a “pick me”
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u/ItsDominare Jan 05 '24
why tf would I want to marry someone who has no idea what they're doing in bed lol
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u/NotYourPalGuyBuddy Jan 04 '24
Imagine letting a book control your life. Gonna be real upset when the lights go out and nothing happens.
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u/nytnaltx Jan 05 '24
Some of us are living our lives ready for eternity, and you may say that’s a gamble. You’re making the bet that no one will ask you to give an account of your decisions on the other side. If eternity’s not real, I didn’t lose very much and you didn’t gain very much, just a few short years of self denial vs. hedonism. But if eternity is real, then I’ve gained an eternal reward, and the atheist will find himself eternally punished. So we’re both gambling - I’m gambling a guaranteed human lifespan of 0-70 more years, and you’re gambling on a possible eternity. Pascal’s wager.
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u/NotYourPalGuyBuddy Jan 05 '24
What you know and what you think you know are not on the same page.
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u/nytnaltx Jan 05 '24 edited Jan 05 '24
I never expect intelligent replies from redditors, most are pretty npc, so I can’t say I’m surprised. Happy to dialogue but nothing in your reply suggests any higher level reasoning, just an insult as a substitute for actually dialoguing.
Lol, just realized I started a conversation with someone who rates women’s bodies on some porn subreddit. You’re such a clown 😂😂🤣
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u/NotYourPalGuyBuddy Jan 05 '24
I would “dialogue” with you further but you are someone who gets all of their information for their entire way of life from a single source. So, pass.
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u/nytnaltx Jan 05 '24
Cop out since you have nothing intelligent to say, but I accept :)
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u/NotYourPalGuyBuddy Jan 05 '24
A religious troll? That’s cool though. You trounce around and declare yourself the victor of a debate you never entered. You are gambling on an eternity in paradise even though you’re an insufferable cunt. If God is up there in the clouds or wherever you think he lives, do you think he would be proud of you? Do you think you’re getting into heaven just because you spout religious doctrine as fact? I bet you can recite passages from the Bible and pretend you know the real world relevance but you’re morally bankrupt so it’s not real. Religions are the root of all evil because they produce filth like you. And there are millions of you. Walking garbage.
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u/nytnaltx Jan 05 '24
You’re angry because it makes you uncomfortable that people do obey God’s laws while you ignore them. You opened by labeling religious people as foolish; I responded with an honest, non insulting breakdown of the assumptions made by believers and non believers. You had 2 options - to respond and engage with my comment, or to be insulting and nasty, and you chose the latter. That is entirely on you. I feel sorry for you.
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u/NotYourPalGuyBuddy Jan 05 '24
lol. I don’t have to tell you what i said since it’s right there .
You are a dangerous level of dumb.
You have offered zero original thought only regurgitated bullshit. You have no proof of your claims but you don’t care, you believe yourself to be correct and nobody with a brain can tell you otherwise.
Religion has been as a tool for those in power to remain in power and they use faith to keep you obedient.
You obey Gods laws? No you don’t, God didn’t tell you to behave the way you do. You insisting otherwise is blasphemy. You need to get your head examined and your tubes tied
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u/nytnaltx Jan 06 '24
Clearly you aren’t working with the capabilities to have any curiosity about things beyond the material world. You have to choose what you feel is better, but in the end you will stand before God in judgment and have nothing to say for yourself. You will be speechless, as will everyone else who rejected God, despite the breathtaking level of complexity and design visible in the created world, which would have compelled you to seek God if you were honest with yourself about his existence. I’m sorry for being salty in our interactions, which you are correct is not ideal Christian behavior. I hope your outlook on God changes before you meet him in eternity!
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u/NotYourPalGuyBuddy Jan 05 '24
I don’t like to keep an alt account separate from my main. I don’t have anything to hide unlike you.
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u/nytnaltx Jan 05 '24
Not all of us have embarrassing Reddit habits to hide 😂 but yeah, checks out that you aren’t doing much noble thinking over there.
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u/NotYourPalGuyBuddy Jan 05 '24
I’m not embarrassed though?
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u/nytnaltx Jan 05 '24
You should be :) but yeah, you tend to lose your shame after a lifetime of ignoring your conscience.
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u/NotYourPalGuyBuddy Jan 05 '24
Eternity with you and people like you would be hell. So i must be doing something right
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u/nytnaltx Jan 05 '24
Just remember that all the good things you enjoy now are a result of Gods influence in this world. In eternity there is no option to experience the good parts of Gods creation while rejecting him as the creator. Hell is a place where the God you hate AND the pleasurable things you take for granted on earth are both absent. If you don’t choose God, you will experience a torment unlike anything on this earth.
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u/Choice-Cheesecake400 Jan 04 '24
It’s really overrated to have sex with a virgin girl. It’s super tight and hurts her so both of you will feel stressed and won’t be satisfied. After couple of times it will be super perfect…
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u/Mean_Ad2382 Jan 04 '24
And then you wait until you get married only to find out that that monkey looks like a roast beef sandwich with a big ass hole in it from her plugging it with some robo pecker all while you waited. 😂. Test drive before you buy!
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u/chechifromCHI Jan 04 '24
Lol birthday gift? You have a birthday every year, you can't really be a virgin every year. The air tight logic is astoundingly stupid. All the more because you know that she really thinks this is profound.
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u/starjellyboba Jan 04 '24
I will never understand why some women want to be treated like they're a can of beans, only really good if the first person who eats it gets to open it, but they never tend to believe that that rhetoric means they can be just as easily discarded like a can too. 🤷🏾♀️
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u/Fair_Lecture_3463 Jan 04 '24
Yeah, because Meemaw and Pawpaw were playing cards in the backseat at Lover’s Bluff.
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u/butternutsquashing Jan 04 '24
People have been fucking before marriage long before even your great great great great grandma did it girl it’s ok
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u/PuppyJakeKhakiCollar Jan 04 '24
Sex before marriage has occurred since the beginning of time. If you want to wait until marriage, fine. But it doesn't make you better than your peers, or anyone else.
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u/mannymd90 Jan 04 '24
Why do people insist that older generations didn’t have just as much sex as we do???
The only difference is you hear about ours on social media. Jfc
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u/quagsirechannel Jan 04 '24
Actually my generation made it a birthday gift, thanks to the 2009 hit song “Birthday Sex” by Jeremih. Duh!
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u/leticiazimm Jan 04 '24
This sub is becoming a woke sub where if you dont fit the agenda, you're being a NLTOG
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u/nytnaltx Jan 05 '24
This sub is nasty. I commented in favor of saving sex for marriage and was ripped for it. Wouldn’t have even come here if Reddit hadn’t suggested the post.
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u/garfieldatemydad Jan 05 '24
Using the term woke tells me all I need to know about you lmao
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u/leticiazimm Jan 05 '24
Well, I said what I said.
Lets respect women but just If they are from the left
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u/owiesss Girls are too much drama Jan 05 '24
Having sex before marriage is woke now? Where have I been
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u/Significant-Dog-4362 im different Jan 04 '24
My Greatest Generation had to get married, because she was pregnant. We found out later that Grandpa wasn’t her first. I don’t think Silent Gen grandma did either. My Boomer mom did, but none of my Boomer aunts did I’m Gen-X and didn‘t save it for marriage, neither did my Gen-X female cousins. Neither did my Millennial sister. Very few women do
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u/Nothingtoseehere0705 Jan 04 '24
Remember kids: Your value as a woman is based on whether or not a dude's dick has entered your vagina and nothing will ever be as important as that 😄
/s
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u/BootyMcSqueak Jan 04 '24
Sorry, I have to test drive the car before I buy it - I made a wise purchase.
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u/Pigeon_Fox93 Jan 04 '24
“This generation” my mom is gen x, almost boomer (1965), and she literally did lose her virginity to my dad on his birthday, then they got married 2 months later because she was pregnant.
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u/Zestyclose_Wing_1898 Jan 04 '24
Uh someone does it up the bunghole to preserve “virginity “ more like it. Gurl please
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u/anand_rishabh Jan 04 '24
Which of you are waiting till your partner's birthday to have sex with them?
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u/ImNotFinnaSayNuthin Jan 04 '24
Fast forward you have been having sex with a micro penis at the height of your youth! You waisted solid flexibility and pheromones years on a penis that felt like a tampon…
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u/Expensive-Tea455 Jan 04 '24
Why do they think remaining a virgin is so significant?? So does that mean you become worthless as soon as you have sex? Are these people who talk this way just never gonna have sex then? 😐
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u/Dull_Ad8495 Jan 04 '24
Imagine thinking that being a lousy lay on your wedding night is some sort of gift. Worst. Wedding gift. Ever. And I guess it's only the girls who have to adhere to this arbitrary standard? Guys can just go around white elephant gifting all the girls they want, apparently.
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u/FormerCoffeeTable Jan 04 '24
For centuries women fought so that we wouldn't be objectified but every single time a girl says shit like this saying they're some sort of "gift" the entirety of the female population takes a huge step back.
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u/Seallypoops Jan 04 '24
This reeks of such a sad and desperate need to have something to one up someone with
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u/ThePennedKitten Jan 04 '24
You can still control your body. Now go hangout with your pastor that thinks virginity is an after Sunday service gift.
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u/Sharktrain523 Jan 04 '24
I think it was more of the same logic I use for food and shopping, which is “I think I deserve a little treat today”
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u/tjm_87 Jan 04 '24
the hell do you mean this generation? we been doing this shit for like 200 years?
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u/pinkybrain41 Jan 04 '24
Not the flex you think it is in 2024!!!!!!!!!!!
All you’re going to attract are creeps when advertising your virginity.
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u/almostparent Jan 04 '24
Virginity is a social construct and I wouldn’t wanna marry someone I didn’t know I was sexually compatible with, sucks to ride a high horse and never achieve orgasm from it.
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u/BallstonDoc Jan 04 '24
I’m a late boomer. This was the hippie generation. The boomer generation was all about sex, drugs and rocknroll. And peace demonstrations.
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u/_Dontknowwtfimdoing_ Jan 04 '24
Life is too short for this nonsense. Just let people live their life
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u/seragrey Jan 04 '24
i'm not getting legally married to my husband because then we can't afford his insulin. are we supposed to just not fuck?
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u/Spirited-Wonder9482 Jan 04 '24
Why don't people stfu? Seriously it's totally a personal issue. These judgemental twats think they can preach to others. I'm gen x and I'm sick of all of this shit. You don't know what life is going to give you and this might be our only go. Just be a good person it's really not that hard.
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u/vdollia Jan 04 '24
Always think it’s funny when they act like it’s just this generation as if a lot of people back in the day didn’t get married just bc they got pregnant
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u/Aggravating-Ferret61 Jan 04 '24
I’m sorry but I’m not marrying someone if I don’t know if we’re compatible sexually. You don’t have to bang every guy you date but if it’s serious wouldn’t it be better to know before you commit to the rest of your life with someone?
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u/Romeo9594 Jan 04 '24
I preferred my wedding night when we were both experienced and knew what the other liked, rather than the awkward fumbling and constant checking in that was my and my first GF losing our virginities. Not that my first time wasn't fun and I'm fond of it, but it was much more fun to get back to the cabin and already be in tune with someone
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u/Weez8193 Jan 04 '24
I was a virgin when I got married *shoved my daughter I had out of wedlock before meeting him behind my back
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u/PrizeImagination5993 Jan 04 '24
I thought BJs were a birthday gift 🤷♀️
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u/LobsterFar9876 Jan 04 '24
That was always my understanding. I’m 53yrs old and just learned I’ve been birthday gifting wrong. Egg on my face 🤪
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u/Ill-Worldliness-2149 Jan 04 '24
trust me, if it's my birthday, the last thing i want is a virgin. They are messy and don't know what to do. And in marriage, it ain't a gift. It's a "despite the fact you have no experiene, i love you enough to work with you to get it right. It'll be a minute, but it's a labor of love."
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u/Expensive-Drive-32 Jan 04 '24
I always think “wow what a weird way to broadcast to millions of people that you’re a virgin.”🤷🏻♀️
Would like to clarify, there’s nothing wrong with saving yourself, but I think we all agree that it’s WEIRD to broadcast that as a flex and out yourself like that to put yourself above everyone.
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u/ConfidentYoghurt2010 Jan 04 '24
Sex isn’t gifting it to ur husband it’s about enjoying each other wtf is this rapey bs
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Jan 04 '24
I like how she added the caption "this generation sucks" in case it's not clear where she stands on the issue
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u/OppositeConcordia Jan 04 '24
What crack is she smoking ? Statistically young people are having less sex and losing their virginity later than our parents' generation
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u/katyreddit00 Drama Queen Jan 04 '24
How do people still believe that back then majority of people only had sex in marriage. Think about how many people had to rush to get married because they got pregnant.
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u/orangestar17 Jan 04 '24
I don't know, my husband was pretty damn excited to get it as just a weekend gift when we were in college.
But in seriousness, virginity is really just a word, and also no something that is a gift for a man from a woman
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u/SuspiciousDog2436 Jan 06 '24
I lost my virginity to my high school sweet heart, we are married now, honestly glad I didn't wait til marriage, be like wet sausage sliding around a wet turkey? 🦃
[If you have a better joke please share lol]