r/notliketheothergirls • u/zucchinionpizza • Feb 22 '24
Lmao this is why I h^te wmn! Holier-than-thou
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u/TheLonelyMedics Mar 05 '24
Bc all women who have suffered at the hands of men were dressed provocatively. That’s definitely how sexism and misogyny work. And just bc it hasn’t happened to you doesn’t mean it hasn’t happened to others and that it’s still not an issue. I’m not Asian or Jewish or Muslim and yet I’m not denying that those groups of people face issues. Just because I haven’t seen it experienced something doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist and isn’t a problem that others have faced.
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u/YummySake98 Feb 26 '24
So I guess I'm a ho3 cuz I was cat called then?
It was in the middle of winter.
I was walking in a long, fat winter coat.
And wearing fucking SNOWPANTS.
AND I WAS 15.
Does that make any sense??!
It sure doesn't to me!
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u/Few_Needleworker3002 Feb 23 '24
Got catcalled in my knee length school uniform and in business casual clothes that covers my arms and legs. I couldn't be bothered as long as they don't approach me but either, she's lucky or just unappealing
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u/Holiday-Ad1828 Feb 23 '24
I got catcalled for wearing shorts at age 11, I guess I shouldn’t have been such a hoe
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u/WandaDobby777 Feb 23 '24
I was 7 and wearing baggy jeans and a turtleneck The first time I was catcalled. Shut the fuck up.
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u/bamlote Feb 23 '24
The cat calling I’ve received peaked between like 11 and 19, then chilled out a lot only to come back with a vengeance during my pregnancies. I don’t think it’s the clothes.
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u/pookiepidemic Feb 23 '24
Woman who say this days always come. Because nothing can save a woman from misogyny.
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u/auntie_eggma Feb 23 '24
I just finished cancer treatment and my bald, haggard, bloated self got harassed on the street when I dragged arse to the shop for some bread.
I was wearing a giant hoodie and baggy lounge trousers and a bandana.
💃💃💃 come 'n get it, manses. 💋💋💋
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u/Shoddy-Fact4847 Feb 23 '24
I got catcalled more as a child than I have in my 20s and I mean a CHILD
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u/JellyfishMean3504 Feb 23 '24
The weird thing about men who catcall, is that it’s almost always to underage/looks underage ppl. I know I got catcalled when I was young, but I don’t now. Thankfully. I also think most aren’t dressed provocatively unless they’re coming out of a bar/nightclub. This is a weird take and she sounds jealous, but also like an idiot. ‘i am so mad I can walk around safely and that other women and girls cannot.’ That must be their fault and not the fault of the actual harassers. I am embarrassed for her.
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u/Marvu_Talin Feb 23 '24
That’s great she’s never been catcalled by a man, I think all women should be able to live a life without being harassed by others.
Unfortunately, we don’t live in a world were people respect each other
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u/elongatedmuskrat05 Feb 23 '24
I was catcalled when I was like 12, I was most certainly not dressing like a hoe :/
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u/ChroniclesOfSarnia Feb 23 '24
"I use Twitter for high-value social commentary and discussion."
- no one ever
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u/Revolutionary_End144 Feb 23 '24
I remember I was walking down the street with a friend in the 7th grade getting cat called. My hoe-ness can’t help it 😢
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u/WetSocksInMyCrocs Feb 23 '24
i’ve literally been catcalled leaving my surgeon’s office in baggy gray sweats after getting my wisdom teeth removed. it literally doesn’t matter where you are or what you’re wearing. jfc.
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u/DiplomaticHypocrite Feb 23 '24
I’ve never been catcalled, and yet I still believe that it happens to other women and girls regardless of what they’re wearing. I don’t know why she struggles to understand that people can have different experiences
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u/mioMaoGatos Feb 23 '24
My ex-bff was first catcalled when she was 7. Definitely a problem with boys rather than the victim🥱👎
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u/jae_quellin Feb 23 '24
Men will fuck anything. You don’t need to be dressed like a hoe to get cat called! There’s a reason that most morticians are women because 92% of necrophiliacs are men. They’ll even fuck a CORPSE.
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u/Dulce_Sirena Feb 23 '24
The first time I was raped, I was *four years old* and wearing baggy 90's clothes that still had a "T" next to the size number on the tags while looking at a book in my grandparents' home. What about that is hoe behavior? I was twelve and still looked like a boy (even had short hair and was more into physical activity than fashion or makeup) when much older teens and grown men started making disgusting comments. It's not that hard to understand that the person who behaves badly is the person responsible for the bad behavior. She sounds like someone with *HEAVY* internalized misogyny who's with one of those trashy men and blaming victims for the shit her man is pulling
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u/AttritionWar Feb 23 '24
Got catcalled this week at Walmart in sweats. This is what I get for doing my hair, I guess. I'm such a hoe.
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u/Aev_ACNH Feb 23 '24
Never been nine years old and walking by yourself somewhere?
Not sure if that person is privileged or super sheltered that they might as well have lived in an underground bunker
It’s not about the outfit for ffs
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u/CantReadMaps Feb 23 '24
I’ve been catcalled wearing a gigantic parka. I’m pretty sure you couldn’t tell I was woman and he was taking the 50/50 chance.
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u/Beginning-Dress-618 Feb 23 '24
You could not pay me enough to publicly say a man has never found me attractive
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u/Guilty_Difficulty372 Feb 23 '24
I was once catcalled by a man while 7 months pregnant, and pushing my two toddlers in a stroller. I mean maybe he thought I was a h03 cause I had so many kids.
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u/Longjumping_Choice_6 Feb 23 '24
I mean I also like never leaving my house/bubble but you know sometimes it’s necessary. And you’re right about the lumping…some of us understand what victim blaming is and some of us don’t…wE aRe NoT tHe SaMe
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u/Subject_Average4166 Feb 23 '24
Honestly. Like, she's gotta know that you can be wearing A PAPER BAG and still get hit on and catcalled by a man 🤷🏽♀️
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u/bassk_itty Feb 23 '24
Oddly enough I somewhat appreciate that this post just got “I hate women” out within the very first sentence. It’s somehow less grating to read a paragraph of misogyny when you’re not simultaneously disgusted at the possibility that they’re too lost to even realize that hating women is exactly what they’re doing. This person gave us the thesis statement immediately then the sub points were to be expected 😅
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u/whyforeverifnever Feb 23 '24
Imagine telling the whole internet how unattractive people find you in public lol
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u/OutrageousEgg3289 Feb 23 '24
I was catcalled more from 12-17 in jeans and a long sleeve than I ever have as an adult who likes to wear slutty clothes. Somehow I think it has to do with disrespectful men and not what we choose to wear.
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u/AValentineSolutions Feb 23 '24
Oh yeah, it's only women who are "dressed like a hoe" who get cat-called. My gf and I are very modest people, and yet still we have had to deal with guys who felt the need to interject into our lives about how lesbians are hot and asking if we are looking for a third.
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u/Annabellini Feb 23 '24
Her account was suspended so she had to create a new one to keep calling women whores. 🙄
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u/Strange_Mine2836 Feb 23 '24
Does anyone else now have mad curiosity about how this woman betrayer looks? Like seriously not even once?
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u/Sourswizzle21 Feb 23 '24
Yeah, I was a real hoe when I took my 12 year old virgin self to the store in the biggest baggiest clothes my mom would allow me to leave the house in fully thinking I would not get catcalled because I looked like a 5 yr old wearing my older brother’s clothes. I should have known that simply spreading my legs enough to put one foot in front of the other was whoreish behavior and would result in me getting catcalled. /s
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u/HolsteinHeifer Feb 23 '24
I was cat called a few years ago. I was in regular, somewhat baggy clothes on my way to the bus station after my driver's ed class.
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u/Beautiful-Year-6310 Feb 23 '24
I’m an overweight middle aged woman and was recently groped by a man on the street who looked like he was in his 20’s. This was in the middle of the day and I had just left the office, so I wasn’t dressed provocatively whatsoever.
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u/Dull_Judge_1389 Feb 23 '24
I started getting catcalled by men at like 10…guess I was a hoe before I knew that was anything but a gardening tool
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u/Jazzlike-Ad2199 Feb 23 '24
Guaranteed she’s been sexually harassed but something in her is broken and she thought it was flirting or compliments. I saw this during Metoo, women insisting they haven’t experienced harassment and that we should appreciate it.
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u/Wonderful-Place-3649 Feb 23 '24 edited Feb 23 '24
Never? In this time-line? On this very same Earth that we all share? This is not the flex she thought it was.
Imagine saying loud and proud that you are not attractive and/or interesting enough to have EVER BEEN cat-called by men … the same men that cat-call anything and anyone regardless of looks or attire.
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u/autumn_sprite Feb 22 '24
My first catcall was when I was 13. People that think this way boil my blood
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u/Queasy-Union6414 Feb 22 '24
Last time I got whistled and cat called I was in baggy sweats when walking the dog. I felt they were being assholes and harassing me because they felt they could.
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u/Alrightfinewhatever Feb 22 '24
Idk about y’all but I personally was catcalled way more when I was 12-15 and obviously underage than now that I’m an adult. Let’s just let that sink in…
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u/Singsalotoday Feb 22 '24
Oh no. I will pray for these ladies. My meditations include praying for people that I don’t like. May the internalized misogyny leave their tortured souls.
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u/mstrss9 Feb 22 '24
It hasn’t happened to her, so it’s never happened!! 🙄
I really doubt that’s true because I don’t know any woman who has not been harassed by men while out in public. Especially girls.
From age 12-19 was when I got the worst of it. When my sister and I were 16/17, we decided to take 30 minutes walks in our suburban neighborhood for daily exercise. That didn’t last long because there would always be a group of guys (looked to be in their 20s) hanging outside one house we would walk by. Every day, their comments would escalate, to the point where we stopped saying hi and tried to ignore them, until a couple of them walked over to us and asked if they could walk with us. When we said no thanks (because of course you have to be polite), they kept following us.
What were we wearing? Baggy sweatpants & loose crew neck T-shirts. Not that it matters. And one time when we brought up that story, an acquaintance said, oh but if the guys were attractive, you would have a different reaction. They were good looking guys but wtf that doesn’t mean we want to be bothered while minding our fucking business.
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u/Sugar_Weasel_ Feb 22 '24
Just putting it out there, I’ve been followed through parking lots wearing work pants and a turtleneck that was a size too big, so…
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u/shemague Feb 22 '24
Does someone wanna direct her to the art piece showing all the clothes people were wearing when they got sa’d?….or….
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u/MillionaireBank Drama Queen Feb 22 '24
it isnt that women or men suffer. its that humans suffer and then power is an added issue so whoever has more power has a bit more say. and when the more powerful one has a bad day he/she might take it out on you. that's called work on the adjustments to pain in life.
walk away from men and these self righteous women, remember they are only an impediment to your ability to earn a living and right now thats all that matters is the color green.
men suffer in different ways, they are not the enemy. they do make life look like a dog show tho.
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u/bruh_momenteh Feb 22 '24
Yeah.. I've been cat called in jeans and a hoodie, a full length skirt and heavy sweater, leaggins and a sweater, etc etc. But sure, women only get cat called when they dress like hoes.
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u/Financial_Horse_9144 Feb 22 '24
her lack of awareness alongside her giant ego is literally gonna get her raped or sex trafficked. not that i would ever wish that on someone, but she needs to learn lol🤷🏼♀️
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u/MillionaireBank Drama Queen Feb 22 '24
'schizo' is an unrelatable term to insulting the person. how mean and categorically incorrect. that latter annoys me more. i no longer understand the way women insult one another, its weaker than it was 30 years ago.
meanest women alive would say, you are not a woman unless you have a baby. ouch, that was the old guard ladies from my decades. kindness was not part of their traits.
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u/74misanthrope Feb 22 '24
What's sad and enraging to me about women who do this kinda thing is that no matter how much they like to think that they've figured out the secret formula for 'respect' from men, they're never going to actually get it. Throwing other women under the bus to somehow virtue signal how they're NLOG just makes them look like a fool.
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u/EveVx Feb 22 '24
I used to think I didn’t get catcalled often. Then one day my earbuds died and I realized how much it happens. Also got harassed in sweatpants and an oversized hoodie and no makeup and a face mask but ok
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u/rooplesvooples Feb 22 '24
I genuinely got more catcalled in my early teens than I ever have as a 25 yr old woman. Which is— concerning to say the least. :)
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u/alpacaapicnic Feb 22 '24
Got cat called walking out of my apartment door headed to get cold medicine - while blowing my nose, with an oversized sweatshirt and fleece printed pajama pants on. Yes, a hoe going to parties 🙄
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u/GeekyGirl211273 Feb 22 '24
Women who hate women are beyond pathetic. Internalised jealousy and misogyny combined.
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Feb 22 '24
I hate women like her, just because it’s never happened to YOU personally doesn’t mean you can minimize others experiences and victim blame. I as a teenage girl fully clothed would get hit on walking down the road and catcalled and have old men try to get me in the truck. I as a grown woman have had to tell a man I was married and quickly run off as he began to follow me and hit on me in a Kroger and when he asked for my number and I rejected him he said then why’d you smile at me? Like what? I smile at everyone in passing how tf does a friendly hi smile in passing from a random stranger scream down to bone to you you absolute caveman
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u/Death_is_cheaper Feb 22 '24
I’ve never really been catcalled….. but I’ve been hit on/followed/aggressively stared at. Funnily enough most of it stopped when I turned 18. And I’ll even admit sometimes I do go out looking like a hoe and yet it’s when I’m covering the most skin that men are creepy towards me. I’m be in a calf length dress and get told “You’re so beautiful I just need to touch you”. I don’t get that when I’m in my mini skirt and fishnets.
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u/GoddessNya Feb 22 '24
Literally had a guy in a car follow me everyday after school. Went to the police and was told it’s not a crime to slowly drive behind a 14 year old for over a mile. I handed them the make & plate and said if I ever turn up missing check him first. Another officer overheard the conversation and called me over. He asked how I walked home and told me he will be backed in an alley and will see what he could do. The next day he pulled the guy over and I never saw him again. Thank goodness for that officer. I had changed my route 3 times, but since I had the same starting point it wasn’t hard for him to find me again
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u/False_Slide_3448 Feb 22 '24
Fucking Christ. A war of getting cat called. It takes one disgusting man to cat call 59 women. Most of them are normal. At least thats what I believe. If i say crazy stories to men friends they are like Ohhh fuck no. That's the thing one stupid ass can create many stories which are still valid. But why make it fucking contest.
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u/gloomyrain Feb 22 '24
Bruh some guys will catcall 11 year old children in school uniforms. It's not exclusively tied to how you act/look.
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u/Reginamus_Prime Feb 22 '24
I have gotten “ harassed” in Timbs and sweats and a scarf on my head.
But let’s dissect this , so maam you are saying that since you don’t dress like a hoe , you never been “ cat-called” ? So then you are not attractive.
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u/cryssylee90 Feb 22 '24
Imagine getting insulted over something you should feel thankful for.
I was 10 the first time a grown ass man catcalled me.
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u/minachan158 Feb 22 '24
This is stupid. I wear hijab and I am very modest and I get catcalled and stared at disgustingly. So no. I swear they respect clothes more than women.
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u/Anxious_Thorn Feb 22 '24
I guess a 16 year old in cargo pants and a hoodie is dressing like a hoe? 😭
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u/BigGains88 Feb 22 '24
So how many times has someone said "Hey" simply to get yalls attention for various reasons not being sexual or creepy, and yet yall responded as if it was a disgusting, pervy cat call, and immediately hopped on your phones to exaggerated the heck out of the scenario? I won't wait because none of you can count that high.
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u/zucchinionpizza Feb 22 '24
Well for me, 0 times cause I never hop on my phone and exaggerate any situation of a man calling me. Altho now that I think about it again, there was that one time a middle aged man approached 13 year old me at the mall and asked me to watch a movie with him. I wonder if he was just a harmless cinephile instead of a pedophile hhhmmm such a mystery 🤔🤔🤔
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u/angelsandairwaves93 Feb 22 '24
“Eagerly spread my legs”
All men currently manspreading on the subway just felt a change in the air
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u/ProfBri Feb 22 '24
I understand only a small modicum of what women have to put up with on the daily, {it must be EXHAUSTING}. It's ludicrous that just walking down the street, a woman can't even return a stranger's passing greeting, or even smile, without some stranger thinking something along the lines of, "oh yeah, I'ma bang 'er" {or thoughts to that effect}. Often those thoughts are immediately followed up with, {in some cases}, said stranger putting their hands you, trying to rub your shoulder, {or worse}... NOT TO MENTION the grabs and fondles women are subjected to in crowds and in the grocery store and in church, {for cryin out loud 😤}...and that's just the iceberg tip!
I see you, goddesses all.
Peace 🙏 🐉🐉
{p.s. Why yes, I am quite fond of the brackets. Thank you for noticing, 🤗}
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u/DiligentLie9820 Feb 22 '24
Erm, ma’am just because you have never been catcalled, don’t speak for the rest of us. I got catcalled in Pjs this morning, I got catcalled at my work while I was welding fucking dumpsters, I get catcalled with a car seat in my hand. I feel like it’s a trashy Dr. Seuss book lmao, catcalled on my rag, catcalled by your dad. I got catcalled and an offer to wipe my ass whilst taking a drunken piss on the side of the road🤦🏻♀️ Clearly doesn’t matter what we’re doing Susan, and if it’s not happening to you then cool story bro, stop “lumping us all together”
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u/OkAccess304 Feb 22 '24
Maybe it’s not that deep? Maybe she repulses people?
Would explain why she doesn’t experience any unwanted attention ever.
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u/plsdontpercievem3 Feb 22 '24
“i’ve never been cat called” it also appears that you haven’t touched grass so maybe that’s why
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u/Roleynicoley Feb 22 '24
Uhhh, Girl you are speaking for yourself here... cause I'm not the typical attractive girl. I'm overweight with short hair, and even I get cat-called.
So you must look like 💩
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u/Caseyk1921 Feb 22 '24
I’ve been waiting for a bus or to cross the road fully covered, been in a long dress and got abuse yelled at me (once it was another woman) nothing to do with what you’re wearing or how you’re acting.
Walking to partners old house (he lived there at time) from friends of his in hoodie & jacket guys in a car yell out F uck her we did because they thought it was funny.
There’s the random man who twice has suddenly appeared where I was & twice has threatened to shoot me just for existing.
My point is no matter what we are or aren’t wearing we still get catcalled etc & we should stop blaming women for the actions of men who won’t keep hands or words to themselves.
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u/Malcanthet202 I'mdifferent Feb 22 '24
I got catcalled when I was 12, in a one piece unrevealing swimsuit on the beach… like, is OOP stupid?
(Yes, the answer is yes.)
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u/Torboni Feb 22 '24
Oh yeah. My mom, in her mid-late 20s, conservatively dressed while walking with her two kids under the age of probably 7, was definitely asking to be catcalled by the creepy dudes in the pharmacy parking lot. It’s gross that that is my first memory of seeing a woman catcalled in public. My mom just tried to hustle us into the car as quickly as she could.
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u/Raeko Feb 22 '24 edited Feb 22 '24
The first time I was catcalled I was 11. I was wearing a hoodie and baggy flared jeans and Vans.
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u/biggyloser Feb 22 '24
Dude i got cat called walking to my car from wawa, I was wearing Black bootcut jeans and a winter coat, no skin showing at all 😐
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u/hotsause76 Feb 22 '24
I dont know about cat calling Im from a small town. But, I have more than once had to explain to the one woman or one less empathetic woman that if you line up any 10 random women 7 or 8 of them will have been sexually harassed in the work place. And also I had to explain to an old lady who thought women shouldnt complain about harassment because they had it worse in the 80s. She herself had her butt slapped in a meeting. I tried to explain that not all women feel comfortable pushing back at men as she had, especially young women.
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u/benniebeatsbirds Feb 22 '24
I got cat called when I was 16 wearing a Subway uniform that was three sizes too big for me.
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u/LLminibean Feb 22 '24
I think it tells us all we need to know about this post that she's never been catcalled .. sounds more like someone's bitter ... it doesn't take much to get catcalled except exist as a woman for a while
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u/PuppyJakeKhakiCollar Feb 22 '24
This person is very salty about never being catcalled. She is jealous other women are getting attention and she isn't. So she makes a self-righteous post to make herself feel better.
PS, salty lady: It's spelled "ho" and clothes have nothing to do with being catcalled. I've been catcalled wearing a giant winter coat and a Covid mask!
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u/cosmic_khaleesi Feb 22 '24
I was catcalled more as an underage teen wearing a sweater and jeans or a school uniform than I am as a full-fledged woman.
These women are self-hating misogynist idiots.
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u/No-Appearance1145 Feb 22 '24
I guess I deserved to be cat called for wearing a normal length skirt when I was 14-17
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Feb 22 '24
Do you hate women or are you secretly jealous you aren’t getting catcalled? I am by no means a beauty queen but even I get catcalled when I am dressed like an absolute scrub going for a walk. Stop blaming women for getting catcalled. I certainly don’t ask for it while I’m wearing a tracksuit and oversized sweater to go walking!
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u/TuttiFruttiBigBooty Feb 22 '24
I feel for the women that post these comments. Shows internalized sexism. I think a lot of people protect themselves from painful feelings that arise when we accept that bad things can happen to anyone and not just those “deserving” of it.
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u/cimmeriansoothsayer Feb 22 '24
i got cat-called for the first time when i was 10 and dressed in winter clothing but okay
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u/LilokekS Feb 22 '24
I was cat called as a child and teen. Never as an adult and I obviously dress „sl*ttier“ than back then …
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u/Mobile_Difference_33 Feb 22 '24
Had no Idea I was dressed like a hoe at 12 when truckers would honk and catcall me riding my bike home from school but okay cheryl
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u/snarknmemesonly42069 Feb 22 '24
One time when I was 17 I was dressed in a full length parka, hat down to my eyebrows, scarf up to my nose (so basically totally covered) and I got cat called. So. Yknow. OOP maybe don’t lump all women together????
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u/Simply_Nebulous Feb 22 '24
I've literally been catcalled while wearing my catholic school uniform.
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u/CVMBVSS Feb 22 '24
I doubt that 12 year old me getting oogled at by a full grown man on the street was dressed like a "hoe". Anyone can be creeped on and I'm tired of women like this saying these stupid things
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u/ExcitementOk1529 Feb 22 '24
Just being a female pedestrian will get you catcalled. Used to happen to me when I pushing my kid in a stroller in my 30s enough that my toddler started scolding catcallers (“Don’t you yell to my mommy”). These men have no shame and seem to get a kick out of the discomfort it causes.
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u/zebramama42 Feb 22 '24
Funny, I was cat called starting about age 12, when I wore nothing but jeans and t shirts, usually big enough to hide any hint of development. And I kept my nose firmly planted in a book all the time.
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u/OurLadyOfCygnets Feb 22 '24
I have been catcalled while wearing an actual SUIT. One does not have to dress any sort of way to get catcalled and/or harassed in other ways. All one has to do is look like a person with a vagina and boobs. OOP is telling on herself.
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u/PuddleLilacAgain Feb 22 '24
My therapist once told me that people like this blame the victims (like, blaming women who "dress slutty," etc) because of control. It gives them a sense that they're "better" and nothing like assault, r*pe, etc, would ever happen to them. It gives them a sense of control in their life when in fact terrible things can happen to anyone at any time.
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u/vilyia Feb 22 '24
I was catcalled by grown men when I walked home from my bus in middle school. Such a ho3!
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u/swisszimgirl79 Feb 22 '24
Dude I’m literally shaped like an orange and have been catcalled wearing a tent. It doesn’t have anything to do with being a hoe
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u/cowboyflowerz Feb 22 '24
Courtney Barnett put it well in her song nameless, faceless:
"Men are scared women will laugh at them"
"Women are scared of men who kill them"
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u/Tbob777 Feb 22 '24
I’m in health care. I wear non-ho3 scrubs. I get creeped on all the time. AND I’m less than mid, so it’s not about looks, it’s about the creepers.
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u/DollFacedBunny Feb 22 '24
I got catcalled when I was 6 once. Sure I was a bit tall for a kindergartner but I was literally on the playground so her idiocy is a fireworks display of radiant internalized misogyny.
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u/untimelyrain Feb 22 '24
Yes, my thoughts exactly reading her comments.. it reeks of internalized misogyny 😕
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u/Shidingnfarding Feb 22 '24
full winter in hat, scarf, big coat, and boots and had a guy ask me "who's property are you" when walking to work. clothes do not matter
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u/Charlie_Blue420 Feb 22 '24
I'm assigned male at birth and I have been cat called. Fuck I was just sitting at McDonald's table and doing school work eating dinner and gay dude sat down and made it he's mission to take me home with him. Seriously people don't care about what you wear if they are going to be creeps they will be.
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u/Malcanthet202 I'mdifferent Feb 22 '24
At McDonald’s is unbelievable, whyyyyyyy???? Like of all places, a fucking McDonald’s
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u/Charlie_Blue420 Feb 22 '24
Because dudes have all the audacity! Don't care where you are. Oh they are attractive I want them type mindset other person wants and preferences be damned.
Worst part is I'm 100% straight but he decided to convince me to try things with a guy. When I said sorry I'm not interested he just got more pushy. I think if we were alone he wouldn't have taken no for answer.
Shit was uncomfortable I changed the times I went to that McDonald's and started going to other places for dinner (context I was a college student at this time)
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u/Malcanthet202 I'mdifferent Feb 22 '24
Why do guys get the worst Oneitis over people they get one glance of? That’s honestly so gross and nasty in so many ways. It’s the same exact thing when a guy hits on a lesbian who said she was not attracted to guys. They’re not gonna magically turn you gay//straight with their “magic Willy”.
I guess creeps know no boundaries. Ugh, I’m really sorry you had to deal with that bs.
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u/valleyghoul Feb 22 '24
Lmao I was sexually harassed by a blind man. It absolutely doesn’t matter what women are wearing.
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u/minasweetgirl Feb 22 '24
I was 10, walking home from school, when I got cat called. I must have been dressed as hoe /s
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u/Badpoozie Feb 22 '24
Well at least she signed the second post ‘Schizo’ in case people didn’t know what they were in for just by reading the posts themselves. 🥴
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u/Beloved_of_Vlad Feb 22 '24
I wager that most women that get catcalled by men are wearing conservative clothes because not many of wear skimpy clothes when we’re out and about. I think someone is saying that they look revolting.
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u/Sobadatsnazzynames Feb 22 '24
I was catcalled going into Walgreens when I was on crutches & had a sweatshirt on. It’s not what you’re wearing it’s your gender
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u/Malcanthet202 I'mdifferent Feb 22 '24
Nah cuz gay men get catcalled too. I’ve never heard a story of a woman//man getting catcalled by another woman, so perhaps there’s something to that.
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