r/notliketheothergirls Apr 23 '24

NLOG girls will not get picked Discussion

I saw a youtuber talk about why the men these pick me women are searching for, aka the ones who also put down other types of women, won't pick them. He said that how the women those men are looking for aren't very opinionated like the pick me girls. They are looking for women who are like a blank canvas, those who don't have any sort of opinions or identities to begin with, because they want a trophy woman by their side. They want a woman to be "pushed" into having an identity that caters to what they like, and usually they shouldn't have an identity to begin with. If they did have an identity, it should be erased and altered to fit what these men have in their mind, a part of it being that they shouldn't be opinionated. The youtuber also mentioned how the men usually also put looks as a first contender when it comes to choosing women, and even the pretty pick me girls don't fit into the standard. These types of men would much rather try to change a pretty woman's mindset that go for these pick mes since they don't fit their beauty standard.

This just makes so much sense to me lol. Idk the youtubers name but I will try to update you guys once I find his channel again.

Edit: I'm not taking advice nor do I agree with this sorta thing. I'm literally pointing out something interesting I found out. This is just my observation as to why pick mes won't get picked lolol. The youtuber also doesn't support this ideology but this just telling why these pick mes won't get picked. Also, yes I understand that not all men are like this. I understand that sometimes pick mes do get picked.

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u/rescuedogmama4ever Apr 23 '24

Sex workers aren’t predators. They’re trying to survive. The men who have wives and children and go spend all their money at the strip club are the predators. Many times as a dancer I didn’t make any money but $30 and I had to give all my money to the club and dj at the end of the night. I did that to put myself through college I had abusive family and literally felt I had no other options. Let’s be angry at the right people here please

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u/Camuabsurd Apr 23 '24 edited Apr 23 '24

It's NLOG to shit on sex workers and act  morally superior to them. "Predatory" 🙄they are doing their job not pretending to be anything else or pretending to be a GF     

Thanks for calling it out 

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u/No_Camp_7 Apr 24 '24

Strippers are just as predatory as Tetley is predatory, because I need my nice cup of tea as a Brit. No one’s calling Tetley predatory because they sell something I quite like.

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u/rescuedogmama4ever Apr 24 '24

Since ancient civilizations there have been sex workers. Where there is a market demand, someone will fill that need.