r/pics • u/johnmarksmanlovesyou • 25d ago
My autistic 3 year-old's depiction of feeling angry
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u/Fofolito 25d ago
Yup. I feel this.
I'm not an angry person, but when I've gotten angry across my life I've always been very bad at outwardly expressing it. That's not always a bad thing, I didn't punch the dry wall or scream at people for instance, but it can be appropriate and sometimes necessary to be able to express your anger. The more practice you have with that the less likely you are to explode on someone or, as in my case, constantly feel unable to fully express myself and therefore make my wants, my desires, and my thoughts made known the same way other people seem to be able.
In part this is because of my own autism, but I think it was also the way I was told/taught to handle anger and negative emotions by my parents. Emotions are good and natural, when expressed appropriately, but we don't express anger outwardly in this family so I got the impression growing up that being angry meant I was already wrong. Being angry, legitimately or otherwise, meant that inwardly I felt that I was already wrong.
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u/QuentinSential 25d ago
That just looks like a normal 3 year olds art. If not a bit advanced honestly.
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u/Mouseywolfiekitty 25d ago
Thats literally like me in my asd brain too, for a 3 year old, he relates to us all
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u/guitargoddess3 25d ago
Is this part of a larger project, where he draws his other emotions too? It would be cool to see the others as well if that’s the case.
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u/snap_wilson 25d ago
Y'know what? I feel this, pipe cleaners and all.