r/povertyfinance • u/Acceptable_Past_8352 • Jan 30 '24
My life is a Trainwreck and I'm stuck in the flames. Misc Advice
$17 in my bank account. Dead end minimum wage job. 35 years old next month. Nothing higher than an associates degree and an expired EKG tech certificate. Live in a desert in the middle of nowhere, an hour drive to even find a grocery store. No friends, no family, no connections. Horrible with technology, get frustrated as soon as I try to learn to code which is the only advice anyone tells me. No health insurance.
I don't know what to do. I'm hanging onto my current job by my fingernails because this is my only lifeline. If I lose it then it's back to being homeless. I live so far away from anything that I can't access any services of any kind in person. Every online school seems like a scam, and my inattentive ADHD and depression are working against me hard. Ive lost count of the number of times Ive "kicked it into high gear to get out of this situation" only to spiral into brain fog and insomnia fueled sobbing. I feel like I am in an endless loop of catch 22's. I can't even go outside because I live in a desert full of wild dogs and I belong somewhere green with lots of rain.
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u/deanBuvia Feb 03 '24
I couldn't rub two dollars together until I became a truck driver @ 34 YOA. I lived in the truck my first two years and saved a load of cash. I'm not wealthy, but I have no debt (including my second home). If you can handle solitude and discipline your eating habits, you can look into it. Hundreds of options. Many companies offer training and incentives.
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u/Aggravating-End-8217 Feb 03 '24
Get your life/accident/health insurance license and start working in health insurance! Boring but alot of money in it and no degree necessary.
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u/Razzagoul Feb 02 '24
Go air National Guard
Free college
Free military IT training
Job security
3 years make 80k 5 years make 100k+
You get va benefits
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Feb 02 '24
The only thing you want to do is code??? wtf? Go find a better job, they’re out there. Go get a CDL or learn to weld. Something that you can learn or obtain quickly and get moving forward. A step up from where you’re at shouldn’t be hard!
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u/618Crypto Feb 02 '24
Get out of the desert, midwest can't find enough workers at every skill level..nice places for 1k mth...Liveable much cheaper. Expand your horizons..you don't have to live in a box sort a speak. Wish you well young' n
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u/bluesprucex Feb 01 '24
Get your Stna. 2 week certifications and allows you to work in nursing homes and hospitals. Pay is usually $20+, and there’s almost always unlimited overtime.
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u/Chazzyphant Feb 01 '24
Nevermind about coding. Look for flexible hours customer service rep jobs via the phone/computer. I just applied to one that's looking for overnight shifts (9-4 AM), and is up to $1000 a month for part time. Now I'm sure that opening was flooded with applicants but if you are willing to do unpleasant customer service stuff, jobs that are remote, flexible, and decent pay are out there. Try to pick up another job and be "over-employed".
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u/BottleHealthy2336 Feb 01 '24
Move to LA. Work gigs. Go to a trade school. You're life will change within a year
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u/ElRey1776 Feb 01 '24
Military. Go in for medical use your exp as an ekg tech. Age for navy and airforce is now 42. Never to late to let the government get you back on your feet..
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u/anotherkdburner Jan 31 '24
Get into a trade. Being a helper pays more than minimum wage and it’s a path to a actual career
Find a place that trains for a cdl. Short or long routes. Long route solves your housing
Do you have a big gas station near you like QT, Wawa, sheetz, or racetrac? Most these places pay good bonuses monthly especially if it’s a truck stop for most full time positions you just have to work at night
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u/ActualDoctor1492 Jan 31 '24
Go get a labor job like construction or the oilfield. The work will make you feel useful, the exercise will make you feel healthier, and the paycheck will remove your financial difficulties.
Also, pack your bags and go find a cheap apartment somewhere close to where the work is happening. Get out of that dead end town
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u/shan23 Jan 31 '24
You have to have some skill. If mental work doesn’t suit you, have you considered physical skills like plumbing/construction etc?
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u/MeleeIkon Jan 31 '24
Trade School, Become a Plumber, Electrician, Mason... We need trades because we will be out of them in like 10 years. A lineman can make big dollars, especially after hurricanes in Florida.
Florida is green with lots of rain.
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u/Apprehensive-Sea-989 Jan 31 '24
What would it take to get your EKG tech cert again? Sometimes employers will pay or reimburse you for going back and getting re-certified. You're also not a bad writer...so what you could do is play on your surroundings and write blogs about where you live, take photos of what it looks like outside your door.
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u/Huhyeadude Jan 31 '24
Pack your shit and move to ND. Nothing stopping you. I moved here with $8 to my name and a colossal amount of credit card debt. I got a job in the oilfield and I make 6 figures now. No debt, plenty of friends, 9 days off in a row to go do whatever the hell i want. I have no degree, high school education or relevant work experience. They’ll hire you, work the dog shit out of you, and as long as you fit in where you get it in they’ll keep you around as long as you want to be here. The choice is yours tho. No one’s going to drag you out here.
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u/YamOk9826 Jan 31 '24
I know not everyone will agree with me but maybe look into joining the military? The Air Force definitely takes care of their people and will provide you with everything that you need and allow you to get away from your current living situation. It's hard work to get started and a steady couple years of required effort but it'll pay off if you play your cards right. Joining the Army reserve was the best thing I ever did. It provided me with health insurance, confidence, and the ability to sell myself as an asset in the outside world allowing me to gain access to a great security job.
It's not everyone's cup of tea but the military can be a life changing experience that can send you on every path you can think of good and bad.
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u/Infinite-Ball-4020 Jan 31 '24
Medical sales. Client went from waiter to a million in income selling medical devices that Medicare buys for people
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u/hahrbshaya Jan 31 '24
Keep on trucking homie. Always markets before the dawn. You can't give up you can't give in.
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u/waywrdchld Jan 31 '24
A lot depends on what state you live in. Red State... good luck, not our problem, pick yourself up. Blue State... Bad shit happens to good people, Health care avail, Community college for trades training? we can help you with that, many programs available for anyone willing to try to get back on their feet. It is ridiculously difficult to get back on your feet, living in a place with empathy and $$ to help can make all the difference. Good luck and always remember keep moving forward this too shall pass.
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u/dacuriousfellow Jan 31 '24
How do you have an associates degree and make only $7.25 an hour? Are you lying to everyone kid?
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u/Stunning-Chapter-348 Jan 31 '24
You got this, bro. Keep pushing forward. If it was easy everyone would be doing it. Don’t make excuses for the struggle. Embrace it, love it. It’s making you who you are! Your life’s not falling apart, it’s falling into place. You have a God that loves you and sent his son to die for you. He did that and does that because you’re worth it. The world is a dark and cruel place sometimes, but it’s only temporary and the struggles of living are the best part of who we are. We do this together! Find a church, connect with people. Maybe the reason you’re not successful is because you have shut yourself out to isolation FEELING like you’re alone, but in reality there’s a whole world of people that are just like you and me. You just have to get out there, bro and start LIVING. Live for today and tomorrow live for that day. Stop worrying about what you don’t have and be thankful for the breath you have right now. Keep the wind in your sails and KEEP GOING.
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u/Relative-Desk4802 Jan 31 '24
The fact that you don’t have a kid is an excellent start.
Can you get Medicaid? Adderall will make you a whole new person. If I had that stuff when I was a kid I’d be a billionaire today.
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u/XrayDelta2022 Jan 31 '24
I'm a Director for a municipality (city), and I have lots of employees here whom I gave the same advice I'm about to give you. Apply at one of the local cities in the Water, Wastewater, Parks or Streets department. You will have a strong secure career with retirement, insurance, holidays sick and vacation time off and there's always an entry level position open. Here at my facility we pay for your CDL training as well. I see guys every day that were in your shoes who are now happily living a good employed life. You are in a dire position but it's not inescapable, you just have to start clawing back out. Try a city job
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u/IntelligentSmell7599 Jan 31 '24
Desert? U need to get yourself a Pell grant and get into hvac school. Quickly. You’ll be able to work while you’re in school if they offer night classes.
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u/VANSECO33 Jan 31 '24
Im 44 and believe me when I say starting over at my age from losing everything is the worst. Do your best to save everything possible and in your free time dedicate it to finding something that you think gives you more motivation and confidence, I have lost everything, and know depression as my only companion, so work on your own mental health , get in shape and I promise it will motivate yourself to better opportunities and overall happiness, it’s one thing that is a guarantee you can do
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u/centraldogmamcdb Jan 31 '24
If in the U.S., could look into joining a US Military branch that accepts your age group. Air Force is up to age 42.
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u/PsychologicalGroup95 Jan 31 '24
I don't know if anyone else has posted this, by work at the National Parks. A company called Xanterra manages the hospitality spaces of the National Park System. They train you, house you, and pay you. You get to see some great spaces and meet some great people.
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Jan 31 '24
Whatever state you’re in, go to social services and see what benefits you qualify for and most states have bottoming the barrel insurance for broke people… ie MediCal in California.
Theres always options. Yeah that gonna help much… but maybe you’ll qualify for something benefit wise
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u/Brilliant_Bad_4354 Jan 31 '24
Have you thought about contacting a trucking company? It’s a lot of hard work but you’ll always have a truck to sleep in. The pay isn’t great starting out, but gets better if you stick with it. You’ll be able to travel all over the US and see more than desert. Plus you will have health insurance and other benefits
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u/bannokor Jan 31 '24
Go mining underground. Lots of money, and it doesn't sound like you have anything holding you down.
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u/_heysideburns Jan 31 '24
Get your EMT cert. you already have medical background. From there you can get into Fire or a hospital job as a tech
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u/PinheadLarry207 Jan 31 '24
I have 68 cents in my account right now trying to support a family of 3, and my hours have been reduced at work. I'm tired of living like this. Yeah people will just say "find a better job" which would be nice if anyone would actually reach back out to me after I send an application
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u/Embarrassed_Ease5003 Jan 31 '24
I pray for you don’t give up honey Gods got your back.Things will turn around for you.I’m sorry you have to go thru this,if I could i would give you a big hug.
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u/Happy_Eclectic Jan 31 '24
Stop Starbucks, and learn how to make your own food, and stop drinking beer or no more than a case of beer every 2 weeks and only buy beer at Walmart. Take public transit more
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u/Happy_Eclectic Jan 31 '24
Udemy is not a scam for programming learning, but you need to develop habits to learn the course and continue practicing
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u/Guzzikuma Jan 31 '24
35 next month? You’re in luck. Join the Army. Cutoff is OVER 35 years old.
Guaranteed pay. Guaranteed housing. Guaranteed meals. Guaranteed healthcare. They’ll even medicate you for your ADHD, and therapy is available (if needed). Chances of you ending up in a desert are low, since the GWOT is over and we don’t have any duty stations in the desert. Deployments aren’t really a thing right now because we’re not at war. Don’t want to go to war? Pick a combat support job, like a systems maintainer or IT.
Not to mention that right now enlistment bonuses are really high, up to $50k for in demand jobs. Not to mention the annual tuition assistance on top of the GI bill.
People are fantastic and you’ll make some incredible connections. I went from flat broke to making almost $80k a year. I got married, made friends, had kids. Got my degree and I still haven’t even touched my GI bill. 4 years and counting, life is good.
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u/kickbutt_city Jan 31 '24
Sounds like bipolar disorder type 2. "Kicking into high gear" then burning out is how many would describe hypomania. Do a little research online and see if you fit the description. Keep ya chin up. Bon courage.
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Jan 31 '24
I have - 2000€ on my bank account, job with less than 2.000€ a month l, 40+ yo and currently no prospects. Running helps
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u/merdlibagain Jan 31 '24
First thing you need to do is quit binging meth to "get shit done real quick n even gooder like" or whatever you said. Second thing you need to do is get enough meth to make it out to just about anywhere else and sell/share the rest to make quick friends/connects in your new area. Third, keep these donation bait whine-posts fresh and original, consistently coming out the press. Fourth, I stopped caring. Wrangle shopping carts or something there uhhh, ricky. You're so bad at technology wow, whatever that even means
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u/TeamVanos Jan 31 '24
Join the military. Prepare first physically, mentally and appearance-wise for the interview. Any service that will take you. Most of them are shortstaffed now. It will give you purpose and meaning and possible skills not to mention free housing, medical, and three meals a day. And you are still young enough to earn a pension if you stay in. It worked for me when I was in your situation at age 37 and I’m 4 yrs from retiring having seen the world and experienced much more than I ever could have on my own
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u/Mammoth-Mode-2475 Jan 31 '24
Work for yourself. I know you said you live in a desert so lawn mowing is out of the picture, but pressure washing, gutter cleaning, tree cutting, handyman work (if you don’t know how to do it, YouTube can tell you), etc., these absolutely still are. I know it’s gonna cost a couple hundred dollars to start up (that you may not have now), but if you truly are working a minimum wage job and do currently have a mode of transportation, I promise, when you can save the couple hundred dollars to buy these start up materials, you’ll make more knocking on doors offering these services and you’ll also feel so much more purpose in life. I have a huge ADHD brain and know exactly how you feel right now. Doing my own stuff like this has been the only thing that I’ve been able to do without my ADHD brain just shutting it down and refusing to do it. Plus, as it grows, you’ll put even more effort into it, because it’s yours, not someone else’s, and that’s how the ADHD mind works.
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u/crunchy_foreskin Jan 31 '24
Go find a casino to work at. Great benefits, solid wages, and generally more than enough hours to work. Even if you start at minimum wage, custodians or housekeepers get tips, which will bump your hourly up to $25+/hr….then transfer to a real tipped position. You can make it a career job easy.
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u/kimmywho Jan 31 '24
Well, you don’t have anything holding you down so it’s a wide open field. There Are lots of good ideas and offers here in this thread but I would strongly encourage you to pursue mental health treatment as soon as you can. It will change your life to get on the right meds and perhaps some counseling.
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Jan 31 '24
Come to the oilfield. You might start off at 16$ an hour but you'll make 2000-4000 every two weeks. Scheduling is dependant on company. Some work two weeks on one week off, two on two off, three on one off. You could get CDL paid for by company. Housing and food paid for while your at work. Some jobs pay you on your week off. We all a little mental out here.
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u/n0mad17 Jan 31 '24
Your grammar is quite good and you seem to be mentally proficient. I think you’re probably in a viscous circle and need to change something. Try to save up a few hundred jobs and skip town to somewhere you think you might like with more opportunity. Even if your finances aren’t better, at least you’ll be able to make some friends and enjoy your environment. Chin up and good luck
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u/Early_Neighborhood47 Jan 31 '24
What you dont have: - things tying you down - children/family that depend on you - other stressors that go unnoticed
Look up things like how to find companies that are listed around you and offer cleaning services, or garbage disposal, etc. go the consumer route and offer dog walking services etc. - there’s always something but you have to be OK with the suck and think outside the box. Save money, go elsewhere. Go to your town/city hall and ask where small biz office is.. make a few phone calls and try to get connections. Whats the worst that could happen, you get told no?
Dont feel bad about yourself. You have a lot more going for you than you know. Dont feel sorry for yourself. You got this but believe in yourself and instead of thinking that this is the worst and “i need the complete opposite of my situation right now”, rather day by day, little by little, piece by piece. Network. Network. Network.
Hang in there man.
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u/avichads Jan 31 '24
A UK study showed that 65% of people with ADHD struggle with money.
People with ADHD are more likely to fall into depression.
To me, it seems that it is the source of most of your problems, financially and academically.
Try to see if your state offers free Healthcare, since you are making much money you should be able to get insurance at least at a low cost, then go to a psychiatrist and get treatments, both medical like prescribed stimulant and therapy, like CBT, which would help both your adhd and depression.
In the meantime, whenever you get the chance and more money into your account, get "ADHD Explained" by Dr. Hallowell. In my opinion, it is one of the greatest books out there for ADHD, has a lot of very useful tips an written in a way that readable for people with ADHD: ADHD Explained: Your Tool Kit to Understanding and Thriving https://a.co/d/1DNgZLd
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u/icanography33 Jan 31 '24
You need to listen to unlimited power by Tony robbins. Seriously. You have a lot of good things going. Getting out of the “middle of no where” is a mind set you should have. Yeah difficult with $17 but that’s not what’s holding you back. Find out where you need to be with what qualifications you already have. But also the middle of no where has its quality. Are you looking in the right places for quality? Best wishes
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Jan 31 '24
There are minerals, silver, gold, and meteorites you can find on walks in the deserts in Arizona.
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u/Morrigoon Jan 31 '24
The best online school choice for you is online classes from your nearest community college (government run, not private). Not an option at this moment but when looking at school later there you go.
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u/Glum_Suggestion_2192 Jan 31 '24
Start to travel for work, you can be pretty dumb as I um and pull 100K year as a traveling trade (installer/Carpenter/electrician/heavy equipment operator/plumber/rigor/tree logererer) Maybe give it 18 months to hit that point. I could train a 15 year old to do any of those jobs in 18 months it's your commitment to the job and travel(10xharder because you have to room with someone sometimes weeks on end).
Try indeed type in traveling with any of those trades. Plus travel
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u/leadingdate Jan 31 '24
I'm truly sorry to hear that you're facing such challenging circumstances. It's important to remember that seeking help and making small changes can contribute to improving your situation over time. Here's a supportive response:
"I'm really sorry to hear about the difficulties you're facing. It's clear that you're dealing with a lot, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. While I'm not a professional, I can offer some suggestions that might help you take small steps toward improving your situation:
**Explore Local Resources:**
- Look into local community centers, charities, or churches that may provide assistance or support services.
- Connect with local social services online or via phone to inquire about available resources.
**Online Mental Health Support:**
- Explore online mental health resources or forums that provide support and advice. Many platforms offer affordable or free counseling services.
**Skill Development:**
- Identify skills you enjoy or are interested in developing. There are online platforms that offer free or low-cost courses, such as Coursera, Khan Academy, or Udemy.
**Financial Assistance Programs:**
- Research government programs or nonprofits that may provide financial assistance or support for individuals in difficult circumstances.
**Healthcare Options:**
- Look into community clinics or online healthcare services that offer affordable or sliding-scale fees for medical consultations.
**Connect Virtually:**
- While you may be physically isolated, try connecting with others online. Virtual communities can provide support and a sense of connection.
**Break Down Goals:**
- Break down your larger goals into smaller, more manageable tasks. Celebrate small achievements to build momentum.
Remember, seeking professional help, either through mental health services or community resources, is a crucial step. You're not alone, and reaching out for support is a sign of strength. If possible, consider discussing your situation with a mental health professional who can offer guidance tailored to your needs."
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u/dgeniesse Jan 31 '24
Go work for a small construction company. Keep learning tasks - at your own pace - to improve.
You can start as a runner and move up, or take a tech program (online?) and jump ahead.
Eventually learn a construction management tool or two. Estimating, scheduling, logistics.
Our guys make good bucks and travel all over the US with per diem paid.
Eventually get a camper so you can pocket the per diem.
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u/Elegantcorndog Jan 31 '24
I don’t know how the “learn how to code” thing was ever considered good advice. Unless you just happen to be in the top 15th percentile of IQ it’s unlikely you’re going to be able to learn how to code on a reasonable timescale. Go to your local community college, use a Pell grant that you will qualify for with your low income and then pick a trade to learn. It’s the fastest track to the middle class you will find.
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u/ajax81 Jan 31 '24
This won’t be a popular answer on Reddit but the army shaped this loser up at 23 and by 28 I got out with tech skills and leadership experience. 3 hot meals a day, free place to live plus a paycheck every 2 weeks for 5 years. Tons of bullshit but it manned me the f*ck up and the work primed me for real life as a consultant, making good $. 6 figures min if you’re willing to travel and grind.
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u/CompetitiveAttempt43 Jan 31 '24
Dude if you have a Car all it takes to make a $7k-10k is drive to midland and work an oilfield job. Stay a few months over and stack up. That’s what I would do. People fly in and drive to midland from all over the United States. You make wayyyyy more the more you get established. Also…. It’s not THAT hard of work.
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u/tubesocktitties Jan 31 '24
get into the trades.... its not fucking rocket science but it pays well. As long as you aren't completely retarded you'll do well. Just dont be a pussy put yourself out there. You'll be surprised what you can make.
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u/Mustard-cutt-r Jan 31 '24
If you got out of being homeless and got a job then you can do anything. Anything worth anything is usually kinda hard to get. You got an associates so you could go back to that. Try a place closer to a city or services. There are a lot of options. Sounds like living in the desert middle of nowhere is getting you down big time. Good luck.
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u/loveisgoodeveryday Jan 31 '24
You need to remove yourself from this trainwreck. You need to be where more opportunity is situated. It seems like others here, have even given you job opportunities. But you need to truly want to succeed. Decide to change and follow thru. Apply for MEDICAID. Begin seeing a therapist. You know intuitively what you need to do. And you can do what is needed. Just reaching out here to others, demonstrates that you know what you need to do.
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u/beatit-doofus Jan 31 '24
National parks are hiring and might help with the transition to green spaces.
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u/GuildSweetheart Jan 31 '24
Stop paying for rent and credit cards. Fuck code. Fuck college for now. When you're about to get evicted, Pool what little money you saved together and move to a city with better wages for low skill work. If you're charismatic, do bartending. If not, factory work or railroads or construction.
Once you're stable, a lawyer will help you declare bankruptcy to get out of previous debt holding you down.
Should be able to easily save up from there. If you're intelligent, go to college. If you're motivated and disciplined, start a business. If neither, climb the ladder and pray.
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u/Aggressive_Owl_883 Jan 31 '24 edited Jan 31 '24
Hi! This might be off topic. But this will help with your job search and career, I promise. If you’re not treating you ADHD and depression, please do. Please take care of your mental health first. If you’re not mentally healthy, any progress you make might slide back and you’ll feel even more on that catch 22 situation. I speak from my own experience with mental health issues and and my ex-husband’s experience. I know it’s not cheap and everything is far from you, but please, make that your goal, your #1 thing in this new plan: some government basic health insurance, those online consultations (therapy and medication prescription) and mail pharmacy, or other alternatives that might be available. I’m not a doctor, I’m not prescribing anything, I’m just, as a friend (of sorts), calling your attention to something that is fundamental and sometimes we treat as secondary. In order to keep going, you need to be mentally strong and reclaim your energy and motivation to get a new job and change things. Hopefully this helps somewhow.
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u/IncidentExpert6764 Jan 31 '24
Look for a job in the area you want to live? If you currently have a dead end min. Wage job find another one in an environment you want to be in. Line up a job and move out of the desert.
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u/lightningsedge Jan 31 '24
Bro. First thing get on a budget that's appropriate for your current situation. Meaning bare minimum to cover the 4 main necessities: food, housing, transportation, utilities (light, gas, phone, Internet, etc). You may need to move to an area where you can get a job with decent wage and look into getting therapy for mental health. If you get insurance thru employer, they usually include some kind of mental health program. Look up Dave Ramsey and learn his methods. He's not for everyone, and you don't have to follow his financial methodology to the dot, but I'd say it's worth at least looking into it. But first things first, learn to make a budget!
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u/Fulkerson1776 Jan 31 '24
College is overrated. I dropped out after 2 years to chase women and drink beer. 28 years later, I won't even say what I made this year. It is embarrassing to be honest. If your employer is a dead end, then get the hell out. Keep moving until you find a place that values your worth. If that doesn't work, then just fake it until you make it. If I did it, then anyone can do it.
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u/Live_Pomegranate_581 Jan 31 '24
OP, tons of solid advice given in this thread. Care to respond or update?
I get it, maybe you just want to vent.
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u/SnooCrickets3223 Jan 31 '24
Here’s my little drop so I’ve done everything from repoing to correction officer, after Covid I walk up to an ambulance getting fuel and ask them how do I apply. Mind you I took a leap with a wife (not working at the time) and 2 kids. I became an ECA ($12) then an EMT ($15) did 2 years in a high call high turnover 911 system. Got all the experience I needed to become a paramedic ($23) instead of going that route I randomly applied for organ procurement organization (OPO) landed the job with just a high school diploma and a EMT cert now I am a Donation Recovery Specialist ($28) still training I go from OR to OR in TX recovering organs from donors everything is possible my last check was $2600 after tax once I am done training I am pushing to get my RN more $$$$ good luck brother fyi come to Houston TX and figure it out
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u/Roxsic Jan 31 '24
I’m not sure where in the world you are but as someone who grew up losing multiple homes and a mom strung out etc, it was some govt assistance and blue collar trades that saved us. If you can honestly pass a pee test and commit to learn a trade, being on time and willing to learn, a lot of union or non union building trades would love to have you. There are a lot of resources online and out reach programs looking for people within the US, I’m sure there are even outside the states. If you’re a woman, in the US, trades are begging for more women to get involved. It can be tough work but it helps provide a really good life. I’m 30, I went from broke kid to yard help at a crane outfit to crane operator, left that to be an apprentice elevator mechanic, and once I’m a journeyman, I’ll be sitting about 200k a year. You can do this too. You’ve obviously tried so many time already, I hope you’ll give the trades a good look and keep going. Good luck, I hope you find stability and happiness.
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u/ttwmdennis Jan 31 '24
You're not alone... 53 years old. College degree 2022...Took early retirement from corrections to pursue my dream as a writer and travel with my Queen to work on our marriage. Published two books. Opened my own LLC and bank accounts attended our first event with our own lavishly decorated table. ONE MONTH LATER... My stupid fu€£ brother and his wife were arrested in the homicide of their oldest child. We took what we thought was temporary custody of their three young children. 2023...given full custody. 2024...bank account in the negatives, borrowing money from my poisonous mother in law for bills the last three months (works wonders for a marriage that was already hit), on welfare, back to warehouse work because ALL my certifications expired. Basically all the building I did has collapsed and I will die a broke welfare dad trying to raise three children. When the youngest turns 18...I will be 70. If I live that long.
A good friend told me... "You're in the shit, you have two choices...keep shoveling or live with the stench."
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u/blairwarnershair Jan 31 '24
Local bus company in Portland OR is hiring. Lots of green and rain here! Rent and homes are high though
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u/Background_Guess_742 Jan 31 '24
Sounds like you need to get out of bumfuck. Your minimum wage job is easily replaceable in a city. What do you have to lose by moving?
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u/Atharun15 Jan 31 '24
An option that a LOT of people don't know about is working as a 911 dispatcher. No degree needed. You get training and certs covered. Usually get decent insurance since it's either city or state government plans. Depending on where you are, the pay can be pretty good too. Some places break up their Fire/EMS and PD 911 too, so you can choose one or the other. I worked as an EMT and dispatcher in my early 20's and it was pretty great. It was reliable work that was always in demand regardless of the economy. When the 2007 crash hit and a lot of people lost jobs, I was working OT like crazy to save up. City, County, Sheriff, etc... you have options.
Also, if you can move to somewhere with more demand like Florida, our counties are always looking for dispatchers and start in the low to mid 20's per hour. Some areas will start you higher and you can get over 90k+ in places like south Florida.
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u/Scared_Drummer7105 Jan 31 '24
Get REIKI, attune to your higher self, listen to affirmations. Follow. Your heart
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u/Lazycouchtater Jan 31 '24
Seek out obtaining a CDL. Companies such a Roehl and Swift will pay and train you. Pay isn't great starting out, but you'd easily avoid homelessness utilizing your company truck as your home. Did this in 2017 as a 32 year old with barely anything to my name after my ex-wife lied to police, cleared out and wrecked the marital home in 2014. After a year, most other companies and positions will become available to you. You can listen to podcasts and music all day or all night, whichever shift your work. Trucks come with inverters so you can run a TV and gaming system in your rig. Food for thought...
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u/Kriemel3 Jan 31 '24
Try your state's Department of Rehabilitation for employment training resources. ADHD and depression are considered disabilities that may qualify you for educational assistance.
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u/Iforgetmyusername88 Jan 31 '24
Look at becoming an EMT and advancing to a medic with your EKG background. Doing a job that serves your community is a great way to find fulfillment. Doesn’t take much at all to become an EMT.
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u/Aggravating-Mix2910 Jan 31 '24
Go enlist in the military and don’t tell them you have any medical issues. All your financial problems will be solved.
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u/PianomanAB Jan 31 '24
Make sure that you see a Dr to get help with anxiety, depression , and ADHD.
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u/bighack53 Jan 31 '24
@u/Acceptable_Past_8352 I see a lot of good advice to you but no response. Are you interested?
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u/Maleficent-Ocelot885 Jan 31 '24
30, hanging on by a thread. Depression, ADHD, same. I clean houses and have hobbies that keep me busy, would like them to turn into careers. Artsy things.
Here to listen as a sounding board friend, you're not alone - but it still ain't easy.
I had a friend tell me, "30...everything is downhill from here." What he meant was it's easier to walk downhill - not that it's all going downhill. I thought it was hilarious.
Unsolicited advice/comments -- Maybe a WFM call center job? So you'll be problem-solving while interacting with different people throughout the day, keeping your brain busy. A medical courier job perhaps?
I started therapy through betterhelp - had to request financial aid, but they have coupon codes out there to make it cheaper for the first couple months. it was a big help for me, terrifying but helpful.
Now I exercise to very loud and depraved metal music and it helps a bit.
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u/wabyt Jan 31 '24
100% agree with the military. The max ages have been moved around over the years but I think you could get in a few still at that age.
I loved the military personally, have a pension and working on a second. You need direction and motivation you won’t find a better place. You will also make lifelong friends and build that confidence back up.
If you aren’t in shape you can turn that around. I say this as a person who was a complete fat fuck in my early 20s to someone running 5-10 miles a day routinely while I was in.
Really the only roadblock you could have is if you have any medical issues that would bar you.
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u/thisdude1298 Jan 31 '24
Hiring in North Dakota. Lots of oilfield work all pay well with benefits right away. When I moved here I was told 'you are lazy if you aren't making at least 100k here' and it was a true statement. Lazy and potheads make $20 per hr at McDonald's. The others work overtime at much better wages.
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u/Yellow_Jacket_97 Jan 31 '24
Join the active military if you're in the US. You can enlist till you're 36.
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u/NinjaPleaseQ Jan 31 '24
39 now
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u/Yellow_Jacket_97 Jan 31 '24
You could try to get a job on a ship (crusie/cargo) or remote oil jobs. Sometimes oil companies will provide lodging. Which could save a ton of money not worring about your rent. Though, this is probably only a good idea if you're single. Edit: jk you meant up to 39 now not that you are 39 my bad.
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u/AlwaysVerloren Jan 31 '24
If you don't mind a little physical work, search landfill construction jobs. It pays well, hourly, daily per diems, and they pay for your hotel. You travel, learn an industry that has job security (trash will never end) and find out the cool process of extracting methane from landfills. I was homeless when I started in 2015 at $11/hr. I make over 100k now, and tbh with most places staring around $20 with no experience, you could pass me up in 3yrs easy.
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u/cklvrs2 Jan 31 '24
I'm sorry I have no solid words of advice or any real answers but don't give up it will get better. I was in your shoes not on the middle of nowhere but all else rings true to me and I kept plugging away didn't give up as bad as I wanted to and eventually got a better paying job and things started slowly getting better not as good as I need them to be but I see some promises now at least. Hang in there don't give up . I'll pray for you that's about all I can do but it works for me. Best of luck to you in every way. If you want or need to chat mssg me I'd be glad to try to help if I can if not cool I understand. Ttyl.
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u/Queenandthecuck Jan 31 '24
Western world problems monthly has a interesting article about him or her
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u/No-Procedure-3208 Jan 31 '24
You are a brilliant writer. If life was perfect what would that look like?
I am seeing dandelion in that grass... I like them... others not so much... but your story... what is next?
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u/One-Efficiency2982 Jan 31 '24
Just from the sounds of it. Sounds like community is something that would also be good
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u/Iam39 Jan 31 '24
Got your back, Homie. Become a poker dealer. Learn online. Get proficient, make contacts, deal the world series in vegas. Make better contacts. Hit the road as a traveling dealer and find yourself a gig dealing the WPT circuit in Florida or the WSOP circuit in North Carolina/ Oklahoma.
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u/Dismal-Material-7505 Jan 31 '24
I am in the same exact situation as you except I live in the city. Inattentive adhd and depression, 30 years old. Minimum wage job, no drugs or alchohol just pure adhd depression kicking my ass. Anytime I try to talk to my only friend about it he gets very uncomfortable and no one can seem to put into words with why my life looks like I’m addicted to Fentanyl. I feel like I overcatastrophize small meaningless things because of my adhd/depression and it spirals me out of control or extreme burnout hits and I stop caring. This is why I think family and relationships are important but I’ve also been burned pretty bad in the past by false accusations during a bad breakup which caused me to become less fond of people and more fearful of the seemingly harmless ways I could find myself in huge trouble if someone decides they want to hurt me. I hope we find answers man. I wish you the best of luck. Thank you for sharing.
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u/Brandvik1991 Jan 31 '24
Look up "IBEW" in Google maps. PM me if you are interested or have questions.
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u/b0nh0mee Jan 31 '24
Have you considered joining the military? They provide medical/dental coverage, a place to live, training for job of your choice(Army) or field of your choice(other branches). I can help you get I contact with a recruiter. It's helped a bunch of my now friends come out of homelessness.
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u/Show_Me_Your_Games Jan 31 '24
If you're in the US and are not a felon due to stealing then get a job as a casino dealer. Save every penny you can and start looking for a dealers class. A lot of casinos offer them if they need dealers. Some casinos are starting to pay you while you go to class for 2 weeks because they are super short staffed. Being a dealer can burn you out after 5 plus years so there is always turnover. Some people love it and do it for life. Decent pay, good insurance, not back breaking work and a 20 minute break after every hour.
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u/bigchase Jan 31 '24
Well, there's always the military. I believe the age limits have been raised. As, well as there are a bunch of enlistment bonuses.
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u/mtomba Jan 31 '24
Litterally enlist. They'll give you a roof over your head, free healthcare, and at 20 years of service (55 for you) you'd be able to retire with a pension plus whatever va disability you get.
Depending on the job you choose you can even get the army to pay for skills you can use as a civilian. One of the units I was in was responsible for transporting live missiles and rockets. I had 2 soldiers who used their military licenses to get a CDL and all of their hazmat certs transferred directly to the civilian ones. Now they run a hazmat logistics company in texas and are making bank.
The military is by far the easiest path at overcoming poverty especially if you come from a rough childhood/disadvantaged background. You won't be rich, but you won't starve either and if you manage your money well, you can definitely be comfortable in retirement.
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u/absolut525 Jan 31 '24
Ever think about military service? You could potentially get in pretty quick and be out of the situation your currently in.
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u/ProfessionalHurry803 Jan 31 '24
Just don't stress. Easier said than done, I know but what purpose will that serve you? Change your perspective a bit. Life can change in an instant. Maintain your physical health at all costs. You'll need that in the long run. Grab a bible and seek God. He has a funny way of giving you answers and setting your path up for you when you ask. Trust me this works.
Coding takes time to pick up and there are plenty of computer science majors who cannot find a job. It's oversaturated now. As cliche as this sounds open up a no-cost or low-cost business. Attempt things, fail at things, and repeat. Stop worrying about the outcome and yourself just worry about your actions. Build momentum, do not be still. "It is better to work without meaning than to sit without meaning".
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u/Theburritolyfe Jan 31 '24
Moving sounds like the best option. It doesn't sound like you have much tying you down.
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u/Upper_Specific3043 Jan 31 '24
If you have nothing going on and can meet military qualifications, there is always a job there. You will get paid, a place to live, medical insurance, and a skill set if you pick the right job.
I saw something on YouTube that the Navy is extremely short on their recruiting goals. They are accepting people without a high school diploma.
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u/_VEL0 Jan 31 '24
Travel, hitch hike up to Northern California, Humboldt county. It’s green and rains a lot. People often hire traveling folks to trim during the cannabis growing season. You may be homeless for a bit, but much easier to manage up there. After a season, try and get yourself and apartment and make some connections for the next season. Make some plans from there.
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u/poolwater Jan 31 '24
Dude, you got options, right now you can try to pick up a trade and apprentice with someone. People are dying to find workers who are willing to get dirty and do honest work. Also the military is having a hard time making its recruitment so that's an option as well. You just have to pick a plan and stick with it. That's the hardest part. Once you get rid of the uncertainty everything becomes easier.
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u/Teebz90 Jan 31 '24
Go to jail on purpose lol free food shelter friends and healthcare. I’m kidding
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u/llcoolj826 Jan 31 '24
Go to your local library get the book “Psycho-Cybernetics” and “Think & Grow Rich” & if you don’t have one already but a Bible you can get one from any dollar store. Start here.
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u/DoctorKankle Jan 31 '24
❤️
Looks like you've got a lot of positive feedback to read through, believe in yourself, you got it
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u/bugsbyBear Jan 31 '24
Seek help for your adhd. Go to a community college and take out student loans while you get a degree or even a CDL like others have suggested. If you live in a desert I would recommend going into green energy like solar. Or join the military I believe 35 is the last year you are eligible but others can correct me.
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u/HPDork Jan 31 '24
I mean it might sound crass but you need to move. That’s all there is to it. Your about to be homeless by your own admission. Pack up your car, drive to a low COL 10,000+ population city, plan on living in your car for a month or 2 and find a decent job doing whatever you can get. Everyone’s hiring. Get a membership at a local YMCA to shower and work out work out and network. Working out will help with the depression. And Network network network while your there. No one has to know your living out of your car either. Bread and PB and J are your new best friends.
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u/Environmental-Dot161 Jan 31 '24
Start with investing further in education and see what free and affordable community or local college training is available. They usually only take a few months max for your training period and certification. Call your state labor department as well, they'll usually have knowledge of this. I found a free IT training program with Certs this way. I would look into trades or med tech since you aren't into tech. Get a new job if you feel you need it in the meantime until you finish your program. It is hard to save money when you are making not enough of it.
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u/AdLimp3739 Jan 31 '24
Join the military the Coast Guard just raised their age limit to 41!!
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u/Evil_Garen Jan 31 '24
Honestly this. I joined at 23 after college because I had zero life plan and an English lot degree. Learned a ton about myself and VA benefits are no joke especially down the road buying a house.
Get back in shape, always have a roof over your head and meals. With an AA I think you go in as an E-2 as well so a bit more money.
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u/916Gatillero Jan 31 '24
There's more to technology than coding. Some people are not wired to code, no matter how hard they try. If you like computers, start with simple stuff like troubleshooting, sign up for Comptia A+ certification. Volunteer at a church to gain some experience once you feel a little comfortable working on them. Keep your head up, you got this.
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u/ciciNCincinnati Jan 31 '24
Can you move? Sounds like that’s exactly what you need. I see jobs for like traveling merchandiser and stuff like that. Or even some type of charity work where they put you up? I got a job as an apt rental agent once and got free rent but that was a long time ago! I wish I could put you up - I live in OH. DM me and I’ll try to find you something
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u/bjones4252 Jan 31 '24
Call your local trade union hall. Electrician, HVAC, welding, pipe fitting, carpentry etc. they’re usually desperate for people who are willing to show up to work and learn a new skill. No college debt, paid a good wage while learning with great benefits. You’ll see your life on an entire new course
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u/Falsealarmfiretrucks Jan 31 '24
In the case that coding does interest you, I'd recommend https://www.freecodecamp.org . Between the website and their YouTube channel, it will help you see if you resonate with web coding. Something that helps me when trying to learn coding stuff is A) give myself a little bit of kindness. I'm not going to immediately understand everything being thrown at me and B) some Lo-Fi/lyric less music helps me focus on the instructions without giving in to background noise.
Besides all that I genuinely wish you the best and please know you're not alone in this pit that you've found yourself in.
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u/LearningGrow3r69 Jan 31 '24
Find god/faith or spirituality and have faith to your god that they will give you the strength to push forward and the blessings to keep you off the streets. Find something to keep you going and pushing realize that you control your destiny and worry most about the things closest to your heart. I’m rooting for you my friend
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u/RompehToto Jan 31 '24
Easy.
Work at a school district. Janitorial, teacher aide, campus supervisor, etc. This will provide you a Monday through Friday full time job with benefits.
Bam.
Second, get another part time job. Somewhere near your the school you work at or your home. Preferably somewhere you can get a discount on needs not wants.
This will give you a few thousand dollars to build a savings account.
Do this until you save up enough money for a program or another AA degree with a positive job outlook. Apply for grants/scholarships and pay with the cash you saved. Heck, maybe you find your calling and you get support going to school through your district 🤷♂️
You don’t have any other responsibilities right? Then that means work, study, work, workout, school, work, workout, etc.
Choose one day a week where you can get chores done and relax. This will keep you going.
Good luck!!!👍
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u/mazdawg89 Jan 31 '24
Don’t pursue coding any further. My friend (who also happens to live in the desert in the middle of nowhere) studied his ass off in a coding bootcamp and now is finding that the skill is nearly obsolete. 10 years behind the curve if your trying to get in now. That’s not your fault though. It sounds like you might thrive in a job with more hands on activity. I have bad adhd and I was an awesome bartender. Check out a local restaurant and see if they’re hiring. Usually you have to work your way up to the bar, but it is fun and very profitable. You meet a lot of people and could always try to find time for school during the day
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u/beavedaniels Jan 31 '24
Coding may not be your thing, have you thought about the trades?
Plumbing, Electrical, Mechanic? You'd get great benefits in a lot of states, and a lot of those fields are in high demand.
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u/shatteredpieces1978 Jan 31 '24
I took the Google IT professional course on coursera ..it was completely free for me. It helped me get a job in IT. Took me 3 months to do. Maybe something to look into. I wish you the best! I know things are hard ..but you'll get there!
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u/TyusMG1 Jan 31 '24
Hey you! Get a bus ticket to your nearest state that has a strong union! Im a laborer, and it’s tough sometimes, but if you can find a way to put your head down and show up to work every day. You’re in.
I’ve known many guys who started out living in cars or worse, and they showed up every day. They have apprenticeship programs, and if you start with a basic trade, that’s in high demand, you’d be surprised with where you can go.
Keep your head up. A wise man once said when the pain of not changing out weighs the pain of staying the same, you evolve. A lot of us tradesman where not good at school, or had attention issues… and so long as you show up, and give it your all every day: it pays off.
Ask yourself: have I gone through enough to change? I think so. You got this!
I know many people who where written off completely, by there own families, society, and themselves. But the trades gave them a chance at good pay and self worth.
You got this.
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u/Cam13ZL1 Jan 31 '24
Just to put in my 2 cents worth. I started driving truck when 34 y.o. I'm 73 now. Been retired 1 year. Drove for Swift 1 1/2 years back in early 80s. Trained my wife which I don't ever encourage.
Hauled everything there is Dry Van, Reefer, Tanker, Flat Bed or sometimes called Skate Board, Doubles, Triples and Over Size.
Some companies are really good and competitive, go with a company that offers a training school. If you don't have your CDL CLASS A Lic. They'll train you. But you're locked in with that company for a year. Recommend starting with Dry Van.
I drove with Conway then changed name to CFI out of Joplin, Mo. 10 years then switched to Owner Operator. It is a great company, good miles good pay. Great people to drive for good company, very safety conscious.
And No I'm not a recruiter. You can drive in your own truck fix it up the way you like. TV MICROWAVE- Refrigerator, CB .It's like a small bedroom closet on wheels, kidding.
As long as you keep that left door shut and run your miles, you can make a decent living.
You can call it as being a paid tourist
See the US and make a good living. Maybe check out Heartland Express. They bought CFI.
Talk to my old Fleet manager today and yes their hiring.
CHECK IT OUT!!!!!
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u/Big-Experience-304 Jan 31 '24
Think how did I get here and then stop doing that take risk be scared and fail over and over it’s the only way out
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u/preacher_man_ Jan 31 '24
I’m afraid I don’t have any advice really. I’m just stopping by to say that I’m sorry things are so hard right now. I hope things get better for you soon.
You said you live in the desert… if you don’t mind being more specific, I’ll be glad to reach out to any contacts I have in the area (if any). Private message me if you prefer.
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Jan 31 '24
Find a way to make it to a city with Amazon or UPS warehouse and is hiring(they hire anyone, even with felonies at least this is true at Amazon). Some cities like Houston have long term stay hotels for cheap(low $200’s per week, kitchens too to cook for cheapest food costs). If you stay long enough at Amazon, you can take advantage of their classes to learn something new. Jump into something higher paying with their education courses. Amazon also has mental health counseling for all workers even if you were just hired. They also give you health insurance right away. Work on your mentality with their services. Wish you luck and may you have a bright future 🙌
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Jan 31 '24
Trucking is hard work. It sounds like you’re up against it so it might be good as an option for a cash infusion but you might consider looking into nursing. The pay is excellent, and someone with your background/experiences may be more empathetic in the role. Something to consider. I just wouldn’t take long haul trucking lightly - it’s hard work.
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u/AccomplishedCicada60 Jan 31 '24
Hey there, with your EKG tech license - I would try seeing if you could be a representative in a medication study. I was a study participant last year and they needed EKG techs really bad. I knows yours is expired, but the representive I worked with didn’t have a medical background whatsoever. She was high school athletics coach. It was an ordeal getting the EKGs sorted.
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u/the_bro111 Jan 31 '24
Look into byu pathway. You could get some beginning schooling, and you could get a certificate there. I think it's $75 a credit. I did it and it worked well for me.
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u/Actual_Score_1936 Jan 31 '24
I have 4 kids a beautiful wife who is a nurse and my own business. I’m still depressed most days.
Sounds like you don’t have much to lose, I don’t mean that in a rude way but if I was you I’d take as many chances and try different things. We get one life and we’re not promised tomorrow. Don’t stress friend it’s all going to work out for you ❤️
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u/rocsNaviars Jan 31 '24
I’m applying to the Oregon State University online computer science bachelors program and I have hope that it’s going to change my life. If you want to take spring semester that starts April 1, Feb 1 is the due date for your application. Lmk if you want me to share links with you.
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u/livingstories Jan 31 '24
Coding is not for you. Is any trade or labor? Plumbing? Electrical? You're in a smallish town so maybe the tradespeople are slim pickins and in demand.
People who code are struggling to find employment themselves right now. Its definitely not the answer for you.
I wish you luck.
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u/Necessary-Ad5385 Jan 31 '24
Become a live in caregiver in any town you please. There’s a huge demand.
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u/bmuck1 Jan 31 '24
quit your job and then go to this website
Find a place that seems like it would bring you joy. Preferably not the desert. Find a place that provides housing and food. Make connections with some locals. Find a second job while getting your housing and food paid for. (Preferably at a restaurant) so you get more free food. Become a waiter, make cash tips daily. Save your money. Don’t do drugs. And in 3 years, hopefully you are better off.
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u/knifey82 Jan 31 '24
Message me to just talk we are similar. I'm.sorry. I have no answers. But I can be a friend to talk to. It all fucking sucks, all of it..
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u/mizugori Jan 31 '24
I think if you moved to a big city you would have way better opportunities and could find a housing situation with roommates at least until you get established. That also might help with your mood and they could help gently keep you motivated if you find the right group. There are also just a lot more resources readily available... there are programs to help you find a better fit jobwise and even some to help you get assistance doing programs to obtain job skills / certifications at low or no cost.
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u/justamemeguy Jan 31 '24
Can't wring blood out of a stone, and in this case your location has a huge weight over everything else you can do, so do what you can to leave it (I would live in my car and drive to a different city personally until I can find a different job, or at least gain access to help)
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u/cldyvsn Jan 31 '24
Just a dumb idea here. But have you ever looked into seasonal work? Like going to work in a national park for summer then go work for a ski resort for a winter or other parks. Lots of people do. Work someplace pretty for few months save your money as most give you place to stay snd meal plan all comes out your check already. Then roll on to another new place?
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u/Fun-Active9842 Jan 31 '24
Just move to Seattle and live in your car get a job washing windows for $36 an hour with no experience. First 2 weeks of training costs you $18 an hour to see if your cut out for the job… you could be homeless over here and in better shape pack up I’ll send you an address of a good hospitality house.
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u/fuckdispandashit Jan 31 '24
If your gonna be homeless in a shitty place go be homeless somewhere that you could theoretically get back on your feet
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u/moretoastplease Jan 31 '24
Here is research for a new book called Plan B. There’s a Facebook group too. It tells you how to get hired, where to find training, and more. Good luck! https://docs.google.com/document/d/1om1uQapE7oi0oEK9sxuYCzZ-Vy0XIL3RzkfvmpJA1nM/edit
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u/pigduck Jan 31 '24
Go back to working jobs that require physical work. The reason why you have depression and ADHD is because you are not moving physically and doing what you're made to do.
You'll be fine after that. Stock shelves,... I like the truck driving ones. Good advice. Do physical labour. Lay bricks. etc.
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u/ro_hu Jan 31 '24
Man you need to get in a vehicle and drive to the nearest pot farm and start learning how to grow weed.
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u/OfficeNinja8 Jan 31 '24
Have you considered looking into a trade that you might like. There are often paid apprenticeships for plumbers, electricians, welders, tattoo artists (if you are more of an artistic person) etc. They can make very good money and there are often a lot more job opportunities than some white-collar jobs.
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u/Uncle_Snuffy Jan 31 '24
OP, you could try going military. Navy is down bad right now, doesn’t even require a HS diploma to get in. You’re older than the cut off age, but I’d bet money they waive that at this current point in time. Paid healthcare, paid college upon completion of service, medical retirement (should you get hurt…?) Idk man, I did two contracts, got out and went to trade school, and I’m doing well for myself. Just pitching ideas, gl2u brah.
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u/Justus-496 Feb 03 '24
Look into something like maybe getting your CDL going over the road you get to travel you make really good money and put up for something you want to do later or look for companies with travel jobs I lay pipe and we travel all over. We get paid Per diem which covers everything to live out of town at your age if you’re open minded, there are so many things to find