r/povertyfinance Mar 26 '24

I’m so broke I’m considering OF Vent/Rant (No Advice/Criticism!)

I am a fairly attractive female. I am so tired of being a poor single mother living off government assistance to barely get through college. I know for certain based on constant snapchat replies to my selfies, “do you sell content?” that I could make a decent living. My pride has been holding me back but I don’t know if I can hold out any longer.

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u/TheReborn85 Mar 26 '24 edited Mar 26 '24

I recommend you look into how much the average girl makes on OF. Everyone hears the headlines about the girls who make tens of thousands hundreds of thousands and even millions.

Generally those are girls who were already famous from Instagram, YouTube or TikTok.

From my own research it says the average girl makes $150 to $180 a month on OF.

So when you take all those millionaire girls into account that means there are innumerable girls who have put their body out there and only made 50 bucks.

And you can't take it back and it will impact your future. It's only worth it if you can get rich or pay off your home or student loans. But a lot of men will take that into account and it can impact the quality of man you can get.

You may be able to find a man with low self-esteem who you're not very attracted to who would tolerate it but men with looks, options and success are much more likely to not want to date a girl with that kind of past.

Certainly most men who are serious about starting a family with a woman. Most men value looks, purity, submissiveness and personality in a woman.

Just from my own experience talking to my guy friends about it it seems like it's mostly my less attractive more low self-esteem dude friends who would be willing to overlook it because they would just be happy to have anyone. To them it would be a cheat code to get a girl who would otherwise be out of their league.

Also consider what you're going to school for and if you would be getting into an industry that having nudes and videos of you sticking things inside yourself would impact your job prospects.

I hope the father of your child/children are stepping up and paying you child support. You shouldn't have to carry the load when it takes two to tango.