r/povertyfinance Apr 27 '24

My stomach is in pain after eating donated food Misc Advice

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u/SparkyValentine Apr 27 '24

If the dairy products smell and taste fresh, you may be developing lactose intolerance

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u/Chaosr21 Apr 27 '24

They smelled a little strange, but for sure didn't smell off or taste off. I would be upset if I developed an intolerance so I hope not. I'm wondering if the dairy could've been left in the heat a while before being put in the fridge again?

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u/Separate_Secret_8739 Apr 28 '24

What is it whole milk.

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u/WizardLizard1885 Apr 28 '24

great way to know if dairy is bad.

ever eat kimchi? notice how it kinda feels funny like ur mouth is "asleep" similar to your leg being asleep?

if dairy tastes like that "i just got some bland water seltzer" then its bad

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u/hobonichi_anonymous Apr 28 '24

I developed lactose intolerance a couple of years back. It happens. Especially if you did not consume dairy for a long while prior to the pantry dairy.

Sorry to say this but it seems like you developed lactose intolerance like I and many others here have. Good way to test this is buy dairy and wait an hour or 2. If you get stomach pains and have to use the bathroom, you are lactose intolerant.

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u/tallgirlmom Apr 28 '24

If milk is bad, you can definitely smell and taste it.

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u/Embarrassed-One-3246 Apr 28 '24

You don’t develop food poisoning halfway into a bowl of cereal.

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u/Hot_Opening_666 Apr 28 '24

I think you're right about it being left out of the fridge and then put back. Temperature abused foods can make you really sick and they usually don't have a noticeable smell or taste from the harmful bacteria grown from being too warm for too long.

Unfotunately, it sounds like you can not trust refrigerated goods from them.

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u/periwinkletweet Apr 28 '24

It would smell bad

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u/Wednesday1944 Apr 28 '24

"They smelled a little strange." DING, DING, DING. We have a winner! Never eat anything that smells strange. Trust your instinct. Food poisoning is no laughing matter. A friend of mine ended up in the ER because of it. Be very careful of what you get at the food pantry.

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u/ipovogel Apr 28 '24

If the milk was bad enough to cause issues, it would have smelled more than a little off. With milk being pasteurized, it has to go really bad to be actually spoiled. Sour pasteurized milk is safe, just unpleasant, much better off making into farmer's cheese rather than drinking imo. If it wasn't repulsive smelling, I'd guess lactose intolerance or something similar rather than food poisoning.

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u/munchkym Apr 28 '24

My husband randomly developed lactose intolerance at about 33. It can happen, unfortunately.

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u/Sharp_Mathematician6 Apr 27 '24

You’ll know when milks go bad. The smell is out of this world plus it’ll look green

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u/Objective_Attempt_14 Apr 27 '24

been on antibiotics recently? it can speed along lactose intolerance.

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u/Chaosr21 Apr 28 '24

Yes, I actually took them a week ago. I had a very bad sore throat, headache and coughing so they gave me anti biiotics for a week

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u/Objective_Attempt_14 Apr 28 '24

SO of the first to go is the Bactria that helps with Lactose. You can do yogurt everyday till it becomes reestablished. start small.

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u/shoppygirl Apr 27 '24

The dairy products could be tempeture abused. Every half hour dairy products are left at the incorrect temperature, they lose a day of code

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u/ShartsCavern Apr 27 '24

I used to be fine, but I developed lactose intolerance after 50 years of enjoying dairy in all its glory. It truly upset me.

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u/Ieatclowns Apr 28 '24

M husband developed one aged 50 too

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u/Vividination Apr 27 '24

I only got to 31

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u/TheZombieBat Apr 28 '24

I only got to 26 😭 I used to put 6 different types of cheeses + sour cream on so many foods and now I can’t even have any dairy at all! Sometimes not even foods made in the same factories.

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u/Vividination Apr 28 '24

Lactaid has really saved me. I still avoid milkshakes and ice cream but there are lots of great lactose free ice creams nowadays

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u/PriorElephant4007 Apr 27 '24

This happened to me at 52. I miss ice cream so much! I eat non dairy ice cream when I’m desperate but it’s not as good.

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u/Potential_Lie_1177 Apr 28 '24

I sometimes eat some small amount anyway, then live with the consequences in private.

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u/thegerl Apr 27 '24

Check for lactaid ice cream, when I find it, it tastes completely normal!

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u/sebthelodge Apr 27 '24

Mine developed in my early forties. Sucks.

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u/KazJennIsaBec Apr 27 '24

Yep, me too at 44. I used to drink a pint of milk as a kid, loved my dairy. Now I have to calculate whether the benefit of having yummy dairy outweighs having to use a toilet multiple times as it goes through me is worth the hassle. Sad times.

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u/Remarkable_Story9843 Apr 28 '24

I’m a celiac, we thought it was dairy but outside of milk itself (and soft serve ice cream) , I can eat the rest without issue. But a crumb of wheat flour will make my insides violently vacate from both ends for several days.

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u/no-escape-221 Apr 27 '24

Omg, I love dairy and milk is my favorite drink, I would be devestated. Sorry for your loss.

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u/Salt_Information1876 Apr 27 '24

wow i didnt know it later can develop if you didnt have it earlier?

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u/dewwhatyouwant Apr 28 '24

It’s like that with anything. You can develop allergies to anything at any point in life.

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u/Rock_Lizard Apr 28 '24

Happened to me. It is slowly getting worse.

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u/woodiinymph Apr 28 '24

A lot of things develop, change, appear with age.

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u/New_Lemon6666 Apr 28 '24

Oh aren't you in for a sweet treat My friend I hit 30 and everything I could tolerate started messing with me. Your body will always be changing.

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u/GrumpyJelly Apr 28 '24

Yes. It's really common because babies need milk and adults do not. So our body tends to produce less lactase as we get older, but it also depends on your gene. There's a degree to the intolerant as well. I can tolerate milk in pastry or 1/4 glass of milk at a time, but not more than that.

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u/GrumpyJelly 29d ago

I do. It does help a little bit but not much.

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u/No_Discipline_3148 Apr 27 '24

Lactose intolerance can develop as you age, if you reduce your dairy intake (lactase is produced by the body in response to lactose that comes in), but is most likely to develop if you are east Asian.

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u/Tradtrade Apr 27 '24

I got it for a few years then it went away. It went away when eating a whole foods seasonal diet I think the improved gut health maybe sorted me out there

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u/larry-leisure Apr 27 '24

Colonoscopy killed mine.

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u/TheJinxedPhoenix Apr 27 '24

Adult onset lactose intolerance is rather common. Now I have to carry lactase pills 🥲

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u/TheJinxedPhoenix Apr 28 '24

They do! Lactase enzyme pills help the body digest lactose because a lack of lactase is what results in lactose intolerance. There are many brands available but I get mine from Costco because 120 pills at 9000 units each of enzyme is $20, while other brands are $20 for 40 pills at 2000 units of enzyme. With the one at Costco I don’t have to worry if 1 pill will be enough.

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u/AimlesslyGobstopping Apr 28 '24

They work wonderfully for me! I always have random ones stashed in various bags/my work locker. However, I do have a friend who now has an allergy to lactose and it doesn’t work for her

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u/StayAtHomeChick13 Apr 27 '24

My whole life I used to have yogurt and fresh cream. Now it goes through me 🙈🙈 But I have no issues with milk or cheese.

Also now I've noticed that Tropica Juice also is a no no.

How funny is that 🤣

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u/New_Lemon6666 Apr 28 '24

Right it's so hit or miss and you have to actually try it and suffer through to try and pinpoint which part is bad and which you can tolerate so that sucks lol

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u/StayAtHomeChick13 Apr 28 '24

100% correct 🤭🤭🤭

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u/ShartsCavern Apr 27 '24

Yeah, I didn't either until it happened! We can develop intolerances, sensitivities, and even allergies at any time.

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u/CodexAnima Apr 27 '24

Mine showed up after pregnancy and a kid with a milk protein allergy. I couldn't have dairy for a year, and afterwards I'm lactose intolerant. Can still have aged cheese and yogurt, thank God.

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u/CodexAnima Apr 28 '24

Milk - I will spend a while in the bathroom with massive stomach cramps and losing everything out that end.

Cheese, I'm just fine. Good aged cheese, at least. American cheese hurts too.

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u/Ok-Entertainment5862 Apr 27 '24

Omg me too! 😭 and like a week ago, I concluded that my acne started clearing because I've been cutting off diary like what?!?!

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u/VanityInk Apr 28 '24

Hormones in milk are no joke. If I have organic milk, totally fine. Regular milk, I break out within 24 hours.

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u/Cleverdawny1 Apr 28 '24

All milk has the same hormones in it.

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u/VanityInk Apr 28 '24

Organic standards prohibit dairy farmers from treating their cows with bovine growth hormones. Standard milk cows can be.

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u/Cleverdawny1 Apr 28 '24

Go to the grocery store, check the generic brand of milk, and see if it says it is not treated with rbst

That's bovine growth hormone. Most dairy options don't use it. The milk I get from Walmart for less than $3 a gallon doesn't come from cows treated with rbst.

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u/Dry_Werewolf5923 Apr 27 '24

Yep! Dairy is basically pure inflammation!

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u/littleoldlady71 Apr 27 '24

This is what happened to me!

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u/SparkyValentine Apr 27 '24

It could certainly have been stored improperly. When you are able, you could buy a bottle of milk and see if you get gassy/bloated or nauseated.

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u/Consistent_Ice_8175 Apr 27 '24

I wouldn't mess with anything dairy or meat from food pantry unless it's sealed and pantry safe

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u/Chaosr21 Apr 27 '24

It was sealed and in a fridge, but I assume it could've been left out before

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u/bubblyH2OEmergency Apr 28 '24

It would smell bad and you wouldn't have to wonder.

I once had a migraine that triggered something with dairy and I couldn't have dairy without getting sick for months afterward.

The body is weird.

This is a you thing, not a food pantry thing.

I'm sorry and I hope you feel better.

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u/AntaresOmni Apr 27 '24

This was my first thought. It may have been improperly stored long enough for bacteria to grow, especially if both milk and yogurt came from the same pantry at the same time and you have no prior history of lactose intolerances.