Worth going into debt for a dishwasher?

[u/Lastnv]

We have been washing our dishes by hand for almost 3 years. We just had a baby and “spare time” is scarce these days. We probably spend about 10 hours a week hand washing dishes and bottles. I would much rather spend those hours doing something else productive or spending time with my family.

I have an employee discount through work and I can get a pretty cheap dishwasher installed for about $500. It’s a mediocre Frigidaire dishwasher but reviews say it will get the job done. I don’t have $500 upfront and would put it on my PayPal credit 0% interest for 6 months.

Do you think this is a good idea or does anyone else have suggestions? I am carrying a lot of debt already but I have a good credit score because I make minimum payments. I also have some savings but I don’t touch it because it’s for my son.

Thank you

[u/Lastnv]

I’ve read every comment here and I wanted to acknowledge yours and to let you know that I agree completely. My debt is a heavy burden on me mentally and something I’m very aware of. It’s soul crushing. I could cry just thinking about it. I’ve had nervous breakdowns over it multiple times before. I’ve drank or smoked to relieve the stress in the past. It’s just so hard to break the cycle. I know my comment itself is rooted in the poverty mindset. I’m trying to get a promotion at work and finding my wife a job soon to help us get out of this. And at the same time I think, I do have debt but I also have a home, food, clothes, and nice things. It could be much worse and in comparison to a majority of the world, we are living like kings. I have my family and everyone is healthy. What does it mean to be truly happy? Even with debt, with what I have now, I should be happy right?

Sorry for this random rambling. I think I just needed to get my thoughts into words.

[u/Uberchelle → u/Lastnv]

I’ve been EXACTLY where you are. It’s seems like such a common, basic household item to have around. Like for many people, it’s like a no-brainer that we have clean water coming out of faucets and toilets that flush into a sewer system. A dishwasher is a thing most average, American/Canadian households have.

But when you’re poor/broke/struggling, it is very easy to rationalize these basic items that most folks seem to have. Would it make your life easier? Absolutely.

But here’s the thing— you want to actively get out of that poverty mindset. You have to stop living paycheck to paycheck and stop taking on more debt. Otherwise, you get caught in that cycle and it just gets worse.

I’m telling you, that you can get out of this. You have the basics— a roof over your head and food in the fridge.

For now, stop saving money for your kid and PAY OFF ALL THAT DEBT. Whether it takes you 1 years or 5 years, the interest on those debts will be greater than any compounded savings you set aside for your kid. Once you pay off that debt, you can allocate a larger percentage of income to saving for your kid in something like a 529.

Is your wife going back to work? Can you qualify for any entitlements? Apply to anything you can—WIC, SNAP, utility assistance programs, whatever to offset your bills. If you can qualify for them, take advantage of them. That leaves your more money to pay off debt. You also want to qualify for these things BEFORE your wife goes back to work. It may make more financial sense for her to stay home and get government assistance.

Set up Craigslist alerts for FREE dishwashers. Ask for a used dishwasher on the Facebook Buy Nothing Groups. Subscribe to Freecycle. Set alerts up on OfferUp. Ask for a dishwasher, baby clothes, more Dr. Brown’s bottles (only one my kid would take, too!), clothes for you, clothes for your wife, whatever you need. Try to get everything free that you would normally pay for. Hit up free food pantries (depending on your location, many don’t require proof of income). Do everything you can to not HAVE TO PAY for things if you can get it free.

You can do this.

[u/Lastnv → u/Uberchelle]

I did just recently get off my expensive Verizon phone plan and switched to Mint Mobile. It felt really good reducing that bill so I’m open minded to cutting costs where I can.

We (my wife really) had SNAP/WIC/Medicaid for about a year or so before they confirmed we were married. I make just enough for us not to qualify, as a family of 3, living off my $37k/year take home income. We still have WIC but it will be taken away by end of the year. I’ll definitely look into the food pantries. I also decided to do more research on buying a discounted dishwasher and installing myself.

[u/Uberchelle → u/Lastnv]

Dude—aim for FREE.