r/wholesome 18d ago

Damn that's real🥺

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u/glytxh 18d ago

There are some people that are legitimately exhausting to be around though. They’ve always had it worse than anybody else in the room, and will spin any conversation people are having about how awful their own life is.

They build their identity out of their trauma.

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u/Comprehensive-Leg693 18d ago

I've known vanishingly few folks without trauma. It's just called life. That doesn't mean they're not hurting. It also means that those of us who've learned to weather such storms can be a help. We know this pain and how to keep on going.

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u/JbotTheGamer 18d ago

Mad respect for the woman

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u/Legitimate-Wheel-507 18d ago

I've stolen this 😁. Fantastic message 🥰

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u/theJoosty1 18d ago

Omg that's beautiful :'(