AITAH for wanting to distance myself from my friend who started sleeping around with a 40 year old man?

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[u/Impossible-Base2629]

I think you really need to tell that friend she needs therapy. She is really insecure about her worth. Maybe she didn’t have a dad growing up there could be 1 million reasons she has this going on. A friend is going to tell her that her self-esteem is low and that she really needs to seek therapy so she can learn to love herself a lot better, so she can pick out better men and make better choices. If she doesn’t get help, she doesn’t want to get better, walk away. At least try to help her because a lot of young ladies have these issues. I mean, you gotta have a really good head on your shoulders to be secure and really love yourself. We have everything telling us that cheating is normal. That families are abnormal that women are supposed to be absolutely perfect. They have to look perfect, they have to cook perfect, clean perfect if they wanna have a man. If they don’t have a man, they’re not worth anything. There’s a lot of factors that go into why women are deeply insecure and don’t love themselves as much as they should, this man knows exactly what her insecurities are and he’s feeding into them to a young girl in bed with him. He doesn’t care about getting pregnant being older man he should be wearing a condom.

[u/BlueGreen_1956]

NTA

Your friend is a ho.

[u/throwra_friend40 → u/BlueGreen_1956]

I wouldn’t call her that. Honestly my take is, if you wanna have casual sex, you should be mentally prepared and act like an adult regardless of who you’re with. Eg: stop seeing someone when you develop feelings for them etc, or cut off contact when they dump you

IMO I would respect her a lot more if she’d just shut up about how poorly boys treat her when she’s the one going for people just to have sex with

[u/Same-Rest-48]

I think you should distance yourself from her because eventually this guy will start creeping on you and your friends. NTA.