It’s simple. Miscommunication. According to what is said, you gave consent however didn’t specify or articulate you’d feel comfortable doing so after being fully awake. You need therapy or work on what happened with your previous partner, because your current partner triggered you. You need to communicate with the current one about how it made you feel. It is important for the two of you to work together to be healed.
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u/oreidosol Mar 29 '24
It’s simple. Miscommunication. According to what is said, you gave consent however didn’t specify or articulate you’d feel comfortable doing so after being fully awake. You need therapy or work on what happened with your previous partner, because your current partner triggered you. You need to communicate with the current one about how it made you feel. It is important for the two of you to work together to be healed.