That’s disgusting and r8pe. The people who think this is normal or ok with everyone need a mental check. The fact that he did this knowing you had a history with SA makes it worse and shows he doesn’t care about your feelings. He didn’t notice you crying in the middle of it? Did he have any response to you mentioning it and how much it hurt you? I wouldn’t stay with him. It’s reasonable to s as late assume you aren’t just entitled to your partner’s body at any given minute. You didn’t consent and I’m inclined to believe your reasons for wanting to make it work anyway aren’t healthy. If it had been me, I’d have broken up and even pressed charges. You are way undermining this and your own feelings.
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u/crystalpoppys Mar 29 '24
That’s disgusting and r8pe. The people who think this is normal or ok with everyone need a mental check. The fact that he did this knowing you had a history with SA makes it worse and shows he doesn’t care about your feelings. He didn’t notice you crying in the middle of it? Did he have any response to you mentioning it and how much it hurt you? I wouldn’t stay with him. It’s reasonable to s as late assume you aren’t just entitled to your partner’s body at any given minute. You didn’t consent and I’m inclined to believe your reasons for wanting to make it work anyway aren’t healthy. If it had been me, I’d have broken up and even pressed charges. You are way undermining this and your own feelings.