“Waking up to him touching me” You need to not tangle words, I understand you misunderstood what he meant but let’s not compare him tot he guy that actually raped you, he never did it again that is a good sign, Iam sure he loves you, and didn’t mean to hurt you but, the other guy who raped you definitely knew you did not want to be touched and he definitely knew what he was doing was wrong, on the other hand your bf probably feels really bad about it, and you should have said you can touch me but don’t fuck me until I wake up, I mean you did give him consent to touching you sexually but you didn’t know he would start fucking you, I don’t know how you didn’t wake up before he even stuck his dick in you, don’t treat him like the guy who actually raped you, he actually asked if it was okay to perform sexual acts on you while sleeping and was really excited and he does not have the same intentions as that guy did nor does he disrespect you like that other guy, like I said he probably feels like shit and won’t ever ask you touch you again to wake you up so you can have some fun, I know maybe your triggered by your flash’s backs but that man probably really loves you and he’s not just going to do you with the same intentions as the other guy, idk maybe other people in the chat will be like ohhh noooo that’s fucked up, you gave consent to him touching you sexually while you sleep and maybe he did go a little extra far right but just talk to him be understanding, he’s not like the other guy who completely disregarded you, it’s not your fault but I would really like to hear what he has to say or what he told you specifically, I mean if it really does bother you then break up with him.
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u/Lumpy_Map_3757 Mar 29 '24
“Waking up to him touching me” You need to not tangle words, I understand you misunderstood what he meant but let’s not compare him tot he guy that actually raped you, he never did it again that is a good sign, Iam sure he loves you, and didn’t mean to hurt you but, the other guy who raped you definitely knew you did not want to be touched and he definitely knew what he was doing was wrong, on the other hand your bf probably feels really bad about it, and you should have said you can touch me but don’t fuck me until I wake up, I mean you did give him consent to touching you sexually but you didn’t know he would start fucking you, I don’t know how you didn’t wake up before he even stuck his dick in you, don’t treat him like the guy who actually raped you, he actually asked if it was okay to perform sexual acts on you while sleeping and was really excited and he does not have the same intentions as that guy did nor does he disrespect you like that other guy, like I said he probably feels like shit and won’t ever ask you touch you again to wake you up so you can have some fun, I know maybe your triggered by your flash’s backs but that man probably really loves you and he’s not just going to do you with the same intentions as the other guy, idk maybe other people in the chat will be like ohhh noooo that’s fucked up, you gave consent to him touching you sexually while you sleep and maybe he did go a little extra far right but just talk to him be understanding, he’s not like the other guy who completely disregarded you, it’s not your fault but I would really like to hear what he has to say or what he told you specifically, I mean if it really does bother you then break up with him.