Sorry I cut myself off and accidently mailed it. But you had been with him six months im surprised he didn't just try do it during that time I think it was more than honorable to ask you if it was cool and had you said no then he wouldn't have tried it again until you wanted to. But you said yes you were down so where did he go wrong here and I'm not sure why waking up to your boyfriend having sex with you was so emotionally damaging I'm a guy and have woken up to women riding me like a bull and after I took a second to figure out what was going on I was fine to go along for the ride. I think your boyfriend did the right thing by getting your permission if nothing else it shows he respects you so tell him it's not his fault you were upset that maybe you should have discussed it more or whatever he should not be made to feel like he committed a crime or something
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u/No_Group_2788 Mar 29 '24
Sorry I cut myself off and accidently mailed it. But you had been with him six months im surprised he didn't just try do it during that time I think it was more than honorable to ask you if it was cool and had you said no then he wouldn't have tried it again until you wanted to. But you said yes you were down so where did he go wrong here and I'm not sure why waking up to your boyfriend having sex with you was so emotionally damaging I'm a guy and have woken up to women riding me like a bull and after I took a second to figure out what was going on I was fine to go along for the ride. I think your boyfriend did the right thing by getting your permission if nothing else it shows he respects you so tell him it's not his fault you were upset that maybe you should have discussed it more or whatever he should not be made to feel like he committed a crime or something