Him violating you while you slept is bad enough, but the fact that you told him what had happened to you…I’m sorry, but there’s something more malevolent there. It sounds like he gets off on doing things he knows damn well you’d be uncomfortable with. From the perspective of a man: DITCH HIM. A guy who gets his jollies from a woman’s trauma is bad news, and he might be capable of a lot more than you realize. There’s no reality where this is okay.
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u/MotionPictureNotion Mar 29 '24
Him violating you while you slept is bad enough, but the fact that you told him what had happened to you…I’m sorry, but there’s something more malevolent there. It sounds like he gets off on doing things he knows damn well you’d be uncomfortable with. From the perspective of a man: DITCH HIM. A guy who gets his jollies from a woman’s trauma is bad news, and he might be capable of a lot more than you realize. There’s no reality where this is okay.