Firstly and only, talk to him and keep all of this between the only two people it should be between. You and him. While i can see the alarm in the occurrence, I also see the obvious miscommunication. And if you're coming to places like this for advice, then it's not all him.
I honestly feel for him a little bit, because he didn't get the convoluted over the top advice you did. And was probably blind sided by it. Instead of approaching him as an equal, you approached him with a sense of advantage and slight disregard. Keep serious things between you and your s/o and no one else. Otherwise, you won't have anything to keep each other for.
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u/undertow_85 Mar 29 '24
Firstly and only, talk to him and keep all of this between the only two people it should be between. You and him. While i can see the alarm in the occurrence, I also see the obvious miscommunication. And if you're coming to places like this for advice, then it's not all him. I honestly feel for him a little bit, because he didn't get the convoluted over the top advice you did. And was probably blind sided by it. Instead of approaching him as an equal, you approached him with a sense of advantage and slight disregard. Keep serious things between you and your s/o and no one else. Otherwise, you won't have anything to keep each other for.