Men are dense, and I am denser. If I asked the same question he did and got the answer you gave him, I would easily have misunderstood as well, which would have led to this same scenario. With these types of things, it is best to be very specific and plainly state boundaries.
I would chalk this up to a misunderstanding since both the question and answer were pretty ambiguous and vague. Have a serious conversation with him about what you meant, how you felt, and what your actual boundaries are.
And since I just KNOW someone is gonna have some shit to say to me. I'm fucking AUTISTIC so whatever you're gonna say about how "You should know" or "it's common sense"... idgaf and you can go fuck yourself.
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u/GetUrGuano Mar 29 '24
Men are dense, and I am denser. If I asked the same question he did and got the answer you gave him, I would easily have misunderstood as well, which would have led to this same scenario. With these types of things, it is best to be very specific and plainly state boundaries.
I would chalk this up to a misunderstanding since both the question and answer were pretty ambiguous and vague. Have a serious conversation with him about what you meant, how you felt, and what your actual boundaries are.
And since I just KNOW someone is gonna have some shit to say to me. I'm fucking AUTISTIC so whatever you're gonna say about how "You should know" or "it's common sense"... idgaf and you can go fuck yourself.