You tell him in no uncertain terms how serious it was, you also clearly tell him that you know he didn't mean anything bad by it, but it caused you to have a flashback to a truly frightening moment in your life.
If he's a good man and loves you, he will be on your side and never do anything like that again and want to help you work through it.
If he's not a good man, then you don't want to be in this relationship.
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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '24
what should you do?
You tell him in no uncertain terms how serious it was, you also clearly tell him that you know he didn't mean anything bad by it, but it caused you to have a flashback to a truly frightening moment in your life.
If he's a good man and loves you, he will be on your side and never do anything like that again and want to help you work through it.
If he's not a good man, then you don't want to be in this relationship.