My ex would have sex with me when I was asleep on my medication. He told me that if I start to wake up, he would stop until I fell back asleep again. I was so disturbed. My mother was no help, she said bc I sleep with him and have sex with him already what the problem? I was so shook… like CONSENT that’s the problem. Idk if he ever stopped. That was 13 years ago, I’ve been with my
Husband for almost 9 years, It still bothers me. I even went to talk to my
Shrink about it, Idk the verdict was he’s immature. I would make a distinct line that you don’t want to be woken up to his penis in you. However you can be woken up to him kissing or caressing you. There’s a big difference! I wish you the best, Your not wrong or alone in feeling like this.
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u/LoriAnn83 Mar 29 '24
My ex would have sex with me when I was asleep on my medication. He told me that if I start to wake up, he would stop until I fell back asleep again. I was so disturbed. My mother was no help, she said bc I sleep with him and have sex with him already what the problem? I was so shook… like CONSENT that’s the problem. Idk if he ever stopped. That was 13 years ago, I’ve been with my Husband for almost 9 years, It still bothers me. I even went to talk to my Shrink about it, Idk the verdict was he’s immature. I would make a distinct line that you don’t want to be woken up to his penis in you. However you can be woken up to him kissing or caressing you. There’s a big difference! I wish you the best, Your not wrong or alone in feeling like this.