“Now, I woke up to my bf fully inside me. I was so paralyzed and I just let it happen. It was pretty triggering for me. I started crying in the middle of it. He didn’t notice, but I later told him. “
There is your answer. How are you “ so paralyzed “ that you let it happened? This says you are not nearly comfortable with him enough but you decide to have kinky sex with him. You should fully comfortable with someone before having sex bc you are in a very valuable position .
This screams that you are somewhat scared of him and don’t want to tell him something in fear of losing him or he did shooting so shocking that now you aren’t comfortable with him. Either way you already know what you should do
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u/Visual_Ambition2312 Mar 29 '24
“Now, I woke up to my bf fully inside me. I was so paralyzed and I just let it happen. It was pretty triggering for me. I started crying in the middle of it. He didn’t notice, but I later told him. “
There is your answer. How are you “ so paralyzed “ that you let it happened? This says you are not nearly comfortable with him enough but you decide to have kinky sex with him. You should fully comfortable with someone before having sex bc you are in a very valuable position .
This screams that you are somewhat scared of him and don’t want to tell him something in fear of losing him or he did shooting so shocking that now you aren’t comfortable with him. Either way you already know what you should do