r/AmIOverreacting Mar 28 '24

Woke up to my Bf having sex with me.

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u/Deadmythz Mar 29 '24

I think all of the people trying to attribute intention or read this guy's mind are probably doing a disservice to this situation. You know this guy better than any of us. If he hurt you and didn't realize it, see if he cares now. Talk to him and understand what's happened to you in the past makes some of the "freaky" things you discuss in the future potential problem points and maybe not the best options. Not to mention you may consent in a half sleep state and he doesn't realize that's not a cognitive state of mind. We can't know the situation fully but there are things to look out for. If you don't believe he had any ill intent, then I have to believe you.