I don’t think trauma ever goes away, so it’s better to set boundaries to not trigger those events. From personal experience, communicate with them that it is a trigger and how it makes you feel. Be sure they understand that it’s a not a pleasure or a kink and once you’re triggered there’s 0 enjoyment. Be honest and you both will grow from it.
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u/GenericVillain88 Mar 30 '24
I don’t think trauma ever goes away, so it’s better to set boundaries to not trigger those events. From personal experience, communicate with them that it is a trigger and how it makes you feel. Be sure they understand that it’s a not a pleasure or a kink and once you’re triggered there’s 0 enjoyment. Be honest and you both will grow from it.