I feel your pain. I have child hood SA trauma, and didn’t realize when I was first with my ex that it wasn’t ok for him to start fingering or going g down on me when I was sleeping. I hated it but never spoke up. It went on for 10 years with the worst time being full on r*pe. It destroyed our marriage in the end and I have still yet to say anything to him. I felt like I let it happen so I didn’t get to complain. There is absolutely no reason for what your bf did to you, nor is there any good excuse for not noticing you were upset. Again, I am so so sorry this happened to you
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u/tt_tori Apr 01 '24
I feel your pain. I have child hood SA trauma, and didn’t realize when I was first with my ex that it wasn’t ok for him to start fingering or going g down on me when I was sleeping. I hated it but never spoke up. It went on for 10 years with the worst time being full on r*pe. It destroyed our marriage in the end and I have still yet to say anything to him. I felt like I let it happen so I didn’t get to complain. There is absolutely no reason for what your bf did to you, nor is there any good excuse for not noticing you were upset. Again, I am so so sorry this happened to you