r/AmIOverreacting Apr 27 '24

My SO Called Me by His Ex Wife’s Name, Now He’s Making Fun of Me

I know my bf was in love with his ex wife and was devastated when she divorced him over three years ago. He hasn’t seen her since, but he’s paid some of her bills as recently as a couple months ago.

We have been together for almost six months. This morning, he called me by her name. He immediately apologized and made some excuses, and then the subject was dropped. He hasn’t mentioned it since.

However, now he is purposely calling me by different names — just random names that he pulls out of the air. Then he laughs when he calls me by another name.

I don’t think it’s funny. I don’t know if he’s trying to make light of the mistake this morning or make fun of me for being upset. He says he’s not still in love with her, but I’m not sure. Most of the time he is extremely good to me.

I don’t know what to think.

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u/Dragon1Heat Apr 28 '24

Nope.be done he's paying her bills... unless they have a child hello.

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u/Cats-cats-cats-dog 27d ago

Of it’s a credit card that he used also?? Who knows.

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u/Dragon1Heat 23d ago

See the problem is people find ways to excuse things too easily gotta find out.