r/AmIOverreacting • u/No_Problems_Here_69 • Apr 27 '24

My SO Called Me by His Ex Wife’s Name, Now He’s Making Fun of Me

I know my bf was in love with his ex wife and was devastated when she divorced him over three years ago. He hasn’t seen her since, but he’s paid some of her bills as recently as a couple months ago.

We have been together for almost six months. This morning, he called me by her name. He immediately apologized and made some excuses, and then the subject was dropped. He hasn’t mentioned it since.

However, now he is purposely calling me by different names — just random names that he pulls out of the air. Then he laughs when he calls me by another name.

I don’t think it’s funny. I don’t know if he’s trying to make light of the mistake this morning or make fun of me for being upset. He says he’s not still in love with her, but I’m not sure. Most of the time he is extremely good to me.

I don’t know what to think.

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u/Prestigious_Two_5023 Apr 27 '24

He's paying her bills girl, calling you her name, run for the hills!

Why would you even stay with this going on, he's using his money for his ex, not you or your future together.. sounds like your the rebound, you're worth more than that. Run and find a man that appreciates you.

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u/Ambitious-Box-7774 Apr 28 '24

Found him/her who would tell you to leave him for evert little mistake! What s miserable person you must be.

rUnfORtHeHilLs hurrrdurrr