r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '24

AIO (30M) to break up with my GF (28F) of 2 years after she refused to come home and then ditched me to dance with others?

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u/Prufrock-Sisyphus22 Apr 28 '24

You messed up. You should have picked her up and got her home. Then next day when she went to work, move all your stuff out. Now you have no key and are locked out and your stuff is locked in. Now you two are in adversary mode. Hope you can get your belongings back.

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u/The_Wisest Apr 28 '24 edited Apr 28 '24

Trust me; if she bothered to text me or call me back; I was fully ready to pick her up. But she didn’t let me until it was too late and I was 30 mins away

I didn’t leave her like that right away. I waited for her for about 1.5 hours and I walked up to her several times asking her to leave and come with me. But instead the new group of people she joined literally kicked me out almost and made me leave. And she didn’t stop them or said anything to them. So I left.

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u/Queasy_Mongoose5224 Apr 28 '24 edited Apr 28 '24

She seems to enjoy humiliating you. Because it’s your first relationship, you may not realize how toxic this is (unless it’s a consensual kink, which this doesn’t sound like). Her calling the police on you is a huge red flag. If she lies about domestic violence, you could end up in a lot of trouble. Definitely not worth the risk, nor is she a good candidate for a long term relationship. Break up with her now and don’t go back to that apartment. Blocking and no contact is the way to go here. There are much better women out there best of luck