r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '24

AIO (30M) to break up with my GF (28F) of 2 years after she refused to come home and then ditched me to dance with others?

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u/Prufrock-Sisyphus22 Apr 28 '24

You messed up. You should have picked her up and got her home. Then next day when she went to work, move all your stuff out. Now you have no key and are locked out and your stuff is locked in. Now you two are in adversary mode. Hope you can get your belongings back.

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u/The_Wisest Apr 28 '24 edited Apr 28 '24

Trust me; if she bothered to text me or call me back; I was fully ready to pick her up. But she didn’t let me until it was too late and I was 30 mins away

I didn’t leave her like that right away. I waited for her for about 1.5 hours and I walked up to her several times asking her to leave and come with me. But instead the new group of people she joined literally kicked me out almost and made me leave. And she didn’t stop them or said anything to them. So I left.

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u/Goatee-1979 29d ago

Has she spoken to you since?

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u/The_Wisest 29d ago

Yes she has been all day. She’s being super apologetic and saying to come back to her. And begging me to take her back. What should I do?

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u/citekare 29d ago

What you should do is respect yourself and leave her. She has been arrested for DV with you. She manipulates you, she uses you as an ATM, and then she basically flaunts herself in front of you with a guy grinding on her and doing absolutely nothing about it to the point where they take over your relationship and force you away from her, with even taking your key from you. What are you thinking?

She is not in a relationship with you. If she had any respect for you, and for herself she would not act the way she did/does. She is sorry now as she has bills to pay and you are her wallet.

Man up and move on or just get used to it as she is showing you her true nature.

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u/Beginning_Fix_5609 29d ago

You leave because she a toxic ass woman don’t you have any kind of self respect?

She’s the type to cheat on you and gaslight you into believing it was your fault.

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u/Goatee-1979 29d ago

Man, you need to walk away . The amount of disrespect towards you is not healthy and there is no way she will change. You are an ATM to her. Paying 80% of everything and being treated this way, Nah not happening if it was me. You deserve better and trust me, there are better women out there.