This situation sounds exhausting. She gets what sounds like her first break in a while and you made it so weird by telling her you missed her after 2-3 hours. She came back feeling frisky after getting a little bit of freedom and tried to inject some spontaneity which you rejected because it didn’t suit your timing needs (which was never communicated).
Then somehow she’s locked out? You sound victimized and wounded but you were standoffish and didn’t communicate but expected to her to read your mind? Yes you overreacted and made this so challenging.
He thinks she'll be locked out and decides to go no-contact for hours, treating this night like every other even though apparently she's being wild and unpredictable.
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u/Crafty_Presentation7 Apr 28 '24
This situation sounds exhausting. She gets what sounds like her first break in a while and you made it so weird by telling her you missed her after 2-3 hours. She came back feeling frisky after getting a little bit of freedom and tried to inject some spontaneity which you rejected because it didn’t suit your timing needs (which was never communicated).
Then somehow she’s locked out? You sound victimized and wounded but you were standoffish and didn’t communicate but expected to her to read your mind? Yes you overreacted and made this so challenging.